Chapter 611 (Six Hundred and Eleven) Nature
Tian Wen said: "Although it is indeed much easier for me to learn flexibility than you, it was much more difficult for me to cultivate ambition when I was a child. When I was very young, I felt that I was born with little desire to achieve. , and even hate ambition. I am willing to be with people who are sharp, but I don’t like to show off. Our dad doesn’t have much desire for achievement in other aspects. He knows very well that the happiness he needs most in his life comes from us. Family, this is the nature of my father. He said that he knew that my mother longed to give full play to her talents and achieve success because of her nature, so he did his best to satisfy her inner need to become stronger and make her happy by giving full play to her talents. . He also tried his best to teach us two skills and promote harmony as a family. Dad himself obviously does not have much ambition, but he believes that we must have a very strong ambition. It’s much easier for you to meet dad’s requirements than it is for me to be ambitious! When I was young, I felt so uncomfortable that I would rather die.”
Jian Rou said: "This shows that changing one's natural personality is not only difficult, but also painful."
Tian Wen said: "Yes, but our parents require us to be people who have strong ambitions and are good at using flexible ways to deal with people. We have been on the road of change since we were young. We are indeed different now from when we were children. You My personality differences are not as big as they were when I was little.”
Jian Rou seemed to suddenly think of something and asked, "Brother, tell me, have we been educated or distorted?"
Tian Wen was stunned after hearing this.
"You and I now go against our natural personalities to a certain extent." Jian Judo.
Tian Wen thought for a while and said: "Yes, our parents shaped our personalities so that we can easily control more power in Tiecangting when we grow up. To achieve our goals, we must do whatever it takes, whether we are educated or distorted. , apparently we have all become easier to achieve. Maybe education itself is distorted."
Jian Rou said: "If the goal is not achieved in the end, but people are distorted to achieve the goal, is it worth it?"
"What, are you questioning something?" Tian Wen asked.
Jian Rou said: "Do you remember the last time mother and father talked about their nature in front of us?"
Tian Wen said: "Of course I remember."
Jian Judao: "None of them have been specially shaped in a direction that is contrary to their nature. Listening to their words, you can tell that both mother and father generally follow their natures in life. Now mother is considered a very accomplished person. , Dad also enjoys the atmosphere of the family, and they all live the life they want. When my mother talks to me, she always expresses her gratitude to my father for doing so much for the family, and my father also thanks my mother for being shaped like them. Pain, isn’t it good?”
Tian Wen said: "My mother and father's childhood life was different from the two of us, so it's hard to compare."
Jian Ju said: "Yes, I am just thinking, not about people. I can't thank my mother and father enough. They have always been so good to us, and the relationship between the family is good." It’s so harmonious, that’s good.”
Tian Wen said: "Well, we don't need to think so much." Then he asked with a smile: "Do you think mother and father have finished talking now?" (End of Chapter)