Chapter 627 (six hundred and twenty-seven) Lessons
Nie Yangwei was even more angry: "Dad, why do you say that? I'm childish?"
Nie Huihao said: "Aren't you childish? You hit her before she was with you. If you want to hit her, you have to find the right time!"
"Do we have to force her to make it clear that she wants to be with me?" Nie Yangwei asked.
"You bastard! I made it clear that being with you is useless! If you want to fight, you have to wait until after marriage. How come you are so old and don't even understand this? Before marriage, no matter what she did, you indulged her. , be as nice as you want to her, make her feel that you are not a threat to her, it is best to make her have the illusion that being with you is the happiest thing, and let her naively think that you will do the same after getting married to her. Treat her like this. As for her unreasonable troubles, you should keep those things in mind. It won't be too late to settle the score with her after you get married to her." Nie Huibao taught Nie Yangwei.
"What dad means is that we should leave her alone until we get married. Any debts will be settled after we get married. Even if we want to educate her, we should wait until after we get married. If we want to educate her, we should wait until after we get married. If we beat her, we should wait until after we get married, right?" Nie Yangwei? road.
Nie Huiahao said: "You understand! No one saw you beating her that day, right?"
"No. Jian Rou and I were the only two people in the woods at that time."
"That's an advantage for you kid! Let me tell you, if you beat her before getting married and someone sees it, others may not only interfere, but also have a bad impression of you. In short, it will do you a lot of harm. But if you two After you get married, even if you beat her in front of others, they will treat her as if you are dealing with family matters, so it won't do much harm to you, you know?" Nie Huaihao lectured.
Nie Yangwei asked: "Really?"
Nie Huibao glanced at Nie Yangwei and said: "You still need to ask? You kid, please calm down! Only after you get married can you protect her. No, it's more than just a protective umbrella. It's a city wall, an indestructible city wall! You must. Remember, the most private place is within the family. At home, outsiders will generally not see you beating someone. Even if you are seen, someone else will intervene in the matter, even if the intervener is the clan leader or an elder who has nothing to do with Jian Rou. , I'm afraid they can't do anything to you. Many people have completely different attitudes towards beating family members and beating outsiders. It's like... To use an inappropriate analogy, it's like having completely different attitudes towards Tiecang people and Lanjia people. It’s not like that. You just know what I mean.”
Nie Yangwei said: "But she also slapped me back that day. She slapped me back when there was no city wall and no one saw it. If someone saw her slap me back and no one saw me hitting her, wouldn't it be even worse? good?"
Nie Huihao felt that Nie Yangwei was a little absent-minded when listening to him, and said: "I'm teaching you, don't talk nonsense! If you get married, you have to give her no chance to hit you! Dad has heard that after getting married, The most clever way is to make her unconscious, turn her into a slave and make her think that she is being taken care of. No matter how you teach her or beat her, as long as you give her some sweetness afterwards, she will think that you are doing something to her. Everything is out of love for her. Give her a sense of superiority in small things and let her be willful on unimportant things. It's okay for her to lose her temper, but the real power is in your hands. You want to control your future, even her life, and make her think that she is the one who really controls everything. Of course, this is just what I heard, and I have no ability to do this." (End of Chapter)