Chapter 575 Unwritten Rules
“I’m going to say something to my colleagues and see Ms. Fu again.”
Yang Yumin changed tables after eating half full, although he knew His wife and Fu Yiruo have a very good relationship, so it is normal to have a meal with Fu Yiruo's mother,
but for some reason, he just feels some inexplicable pressure.
This is very strange. Ms. Fu obviously has a very good temperament and is very kind when talking to herself, but Yang Yumin just feels like he is almost sweating.
After Yang Yumin left, Li Ye looked at my mother with a slight frown.
"Mom, why did you scare him away?"
"What?"
Fu Guiru was stunned for a moment, then recalled it carefully, and then said doubtfully: "Really? No! I didn't even dare to ask any questions, so you scared me away?"
"And I think Yumin's kid is okay too! Do you have any misunderstanding?"< br>
Li Ye said dumbfounded: "Mom, do you still need to ask questions? Look at the look in your eyes just now, as if you were interrogating a spy. If you don't believe me, ask Xiaoyu and Xiaoruo."
Fu Guiru looked at him in surprise. He turned to Fu Yiruo and Wen Leyu, and the two little girls nodded in unison. The main point was to be honest.
Fu Guiru couldn't help but rub her forehead and sighed softly.
Li Ye smiled and joked: "Mom, people say that the more the mother-in-law looks at her son-in-law, the more she likes her. If you look at her a few times, you will like her.
In fact, Yang Yumin Not bad, except for the two points difference in appearance, the rest are very good, he is a decent person, and he treats his sister well."
"That's right, our mother is just too picky," Fu Yiruo immediately accused: "Love is inherently a very selfish thing and does not allow outsiders to interfere. Mom, if you do this again in the future, you will become an old witch."
“Ha~”
Fu Guiru smiled and hit Fu Yiruo on the forehead: “Don’t be careless with me. I think so when you want to find a boyfriend in the future. That’s what I saw before.” Don’t even think about that Yao Feng.”
“Don’t be convinced. Daughters marry into other people’s families and live in their own families. Daughters marry into their own families and live in their own families. It’s also the fault of the mother-in-law to choose her son-in-law. For the sake of my daughter.”
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Fu Yiruo rolled her eyes. Malay girls mature earlier than mainland girls. Although she didn't like Yao Shafeng, she was instinctively dissatisfied with her mother's brutal interference in "free love".
However, after Wen Leyu thought for a while, he nodded and agreed: "Auntie, you are right."
Fu Yiruo suddenly kicked Wen Leyu's feet under the table angrily.
【We are natural allies. Why did you turn against her back just to please your mother-in-law? Will we still be good sisters from now on? 】
But Fu Yiruo didn’t know that Wen Leyu was really not trying to please Fu Guiru, but because Li Ye had also been strictly selected by Teacher Ke and had not found any faults. "Pleasant to the eye".
"Okay, what my mother said is based on experience. Although the new society now emphasizes free love, wouldn't life be more happy if you can get the blessing of your family?"
For the daughter-in-law and son-in-law The difference, unlike these two little girls who are only about twenty years old, Li Ye, who has been dozens of years old in two lifetimes, understands it deeply.
The daughter-in-law is right under her nose, her father-in-law and mother-in-law are watching, and the son will have the backing to support him even if he is a little wronged.
In this day and age, when a daughter-in-law marries someone, she belongs to that family. This is recognized by society.
Even in rural areas, if you have a dispute or fight with others, you will easily avoid beating the married girl, because beating the married girl is equivalent to bringing in another family of enemies.
Therefore, since ancient times, the mother-in-law has to take her time when she wants to say a few words to her son-in-law if she doesn't like her.
But the daughter-in-law is different. If she doesn't like her, she will scold her directly. This has been true for many years. A daughter-in-law becoming a mother-in-law is not just a talk.
It was not until the 1990s that the strong daughter-in-law bucked the trend and completely overturned many years of tradition.
A daughter-in-law cannot scold a son-in-law. Alas~
So, if both parents can be satisfied before getting married, a lot of trouble can be avoided later.
"Actually, I'm just looking at Xiaoyue. I'm not qualified to find fault."
Fu Guiru sighed and said, "Xiaoyue told me that Yumin is a very good child. Your grandfather and grandma , his parents also think he is very good, this is actually what Ono said about his family. Bless you.
Although I am not at ease, I just want to take a look."
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Seeing Fu Guiru suddenly become lonely, Li Ye, Fu Yiruo, and Wen Le Yu looked at each other for a few times and unanimously chose silence.
Every family has sutras that are difficult to recite, but my family has two!
The Li family must be very satisfied with Yang Yumin. He has a good job and a promising future, and his attitude towards the Li family is also very good.
Sister Li Yue never calls Han Chunmei "mother" "But Yang Yumin respected Han Chunmei very much and bought gifts for Han Chunmei, Li Juan and Li Ying every time they met, using his own salary.
Everyone in the Li family likes Yang Yumin very much.
In comparison, Fu Guiru has missed Li Yue's growth process after all, and has become a vague "outsider".
So how will Li Kaijian, Fu Guiru, and Han Chunmei get along with each other from now on?
Li Ye is also very worried.
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Li Ye drank a few glasses of red wine with his mother. By the time he finished eating and left, almost everyone in the restaurant had left, except for the most important table. Yang Yumin was also at that table, accompanying his colleague Lao Shao who came with him.
Then when Li Ye passed by, Team Leader Zhou at the wine table called out to Li Ye.
"By the way, Li Ye, when you go up, go to Room 6022 and find Xiao He to report what happened today."
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Li Ye Looking at Zhou Ziyuan, whose face was flushed, he asked coldly: "Excuse me, Team Leader Zhou, I What do I need to report?”
Zhou Ziyuan frowned and said: “According to regulations, anyone who has contact with people outside our exhibition group needs to be recorded. Just now you and these two women Comrades eat together, so we need to record it.”
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Li Ye was very surprised. He really didn't know there was such a rule. Is this because he was afraid that he was contacting the spies?
"Hahaha, Li Ye, don't make such a fuss,"
Lao Xie noticed Li Ye's displeasure, smiled and smoothed things over: "This has been an old rule for many years. In other words, it's just a formality. Li Ye, go ahead. Just say hello to Xiao He. "
"Yes, yes! Rules are dead, people are alive. Just go up and say hello to Xiao He, just say a few words. It’s just a matter of words.”
"Hahaha, young people, don't accept death. We old guys are doing this for your own good!"
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Everyone is advising Li Ye with "good intentions", It's like a group of people who have been here are trying to persuade the newcomers not to be stubborn but to be sensible.
Li Ye glanced over coldly, with disdain in his eyes.
He is not going to write the report today. He is going to have dinner with me, and he still has to report it?
And how to report it? A friendly meal with a patriotic businessman?
But just when Li Ye was about to turn around and leave, Wen Leyu suddenly took a step forward and said in a cold tone: "As far as I know, we don't have any regulations that stipulate that today's situation requires reporting to the organization. Report, do you have any documents?”
“If there are no documents and no specific regulations, please don’t show your authority in front of so many people.”
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Everyone was stunned, even those who were almost drunk.
A little girl's film was so bold, and she accused Zhou Ziyuan of abusing his power.
Lao Xie said awkwardly: "Ahem, they are all unwritten rules, and everyone is used to abiding by them."
"Lao Xie, you don't have to explain it to her, why should you explain it to her? ?”
Zhou Ziyuan was stunned for a moment, his heart suddenly became angry, and he opened his mouth and started to scold Wen Leyu.
But Yang Yumin at the wine table said with a steady voice: "If you don't explain, how can they understand? They are still students and they don't understand these unwritten rules."
"I know what you are worried about, Leader Zhou, but as far as I know, both Li Ye and Wen Leyu refused the opportunity to study abroad in school, and more than once."
"Even if everyone Even if everyone can escape, they will not, because Li Ye can study abroad at any time, and Lijiapo National University once invited him."
"In addition, I don't understand why, Leader Zhou, you have to do it in front of two foreign guests. What kind of unwritten rule do you want to express in front of us?
When we go abroad, we represent the image of the mainland. Don’t you think what you just said can easily cause foreign guests to misunderstand us? Do you just think that this is normal management?”
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Yang Yumin said these words in a very calm tone, but after he finished speaking, the entire restaurant was silent, and you could hear a pin drop, as if he had been struck by lightning.
If Wen Leyu's behavior just now makes people think that young people are young and frivolous and don't know how high the sky is, then Yang Yumin's words are suspected of "making a mistake."
Because he is a public official, he openly opposed the team leader during group activities, and also mocked Lao Zhou for abusing his power?
Are you not paying attention to the impact?
What if after returning home, someone would poke me at the work unit and slap on my forehead the label of being ignorant of the general situation, sabotaging foreign affairs work, and having no political wisdom?
To be serious, this will affect your career.
But when Fu Guiru looked at Yang Yumin with a calm face, she felt that he was more pleasing to the eye than before.
We are a family if we help relatives or not take care of ourselves!
More than twenty years ago, Fu Guiru received a letter from Malay to the mainland, and was deemed to have overseas relations. However, he was pushed to the bottom by the "unwritten regulations". From a militia company commander Become a suspect.
No one in the family openly stood up to fight.
Li Zhongfa's opinion was that he tried his best to mediate within the rules and complained a few words to Li Kaijian.
Then Fu Guiru got angry and stubbornly rode south.
Later, Fu Guiru often recalled that if her family had "helped her relatives but not taken care of her" at that time, she would have stayed and shouldered all the hardships instead of escaping.
(End of this chapter)