Chapter 4961 (Four Thousand Nine Hundred and Sixty One) Chewing
However, just after saying this, the man thought more and felt that there was something wrong with what he just said, and quickly added: "I...I mean...if you keep asking...maybe you want to stop." For a moment, it’s not that people like you are really tired. I only know that ordinary people like me will be tired if they talk a lot. I don’t know that people like you will be tired. It's amazing... can very unusual people be really tired? Maybe... maybe people like you are unlikely to be really tired... even if you say you are tired, you are just saying... like you This kind of person must be... must be very energetic... and probably won't... really need a rest just because he asked some questions. I think... you didn't speak just now, maybe... maybe you thought I might. Tired, so let me rest?”
Of course, the man with gray hands knew that he didn't ask immediately because he wanted to rest, but after hearing what the man said, he didn't intend to refute that man. After all, he didn't want to tell that man that he and the man with brown hands had spoken before but he couldn't hear him. .
The man with gray hands was about to tell the other party not to think so much, but before the words came out of his mouth, he heard the other party speak again.
That person felt that there was something wrong with what he just added.
I originally thought that it was a good thing that I described the gray-handed people and the brown-handed people as the kind of people who were willing to think about themselves. However, in the next moment, the man had already thought that by talking to the gray-handed people like this, he actually seemed to be telling the gray-handed people. The man with the hand and the man with the brown hand seemed tired from talking all the time. He didn't know why, but he tasted a hint of making demands on the Gray Hand man from what he said before. He felt that by saying this, he was actually telling the Gray Hand man that he would be tired and that he needed to say something. Just rest.
In fact, that person is usually prone to overthinking. On certain occasions in Tiecangting, when he sees someone he feels "cannot afford to offend", he will sometimes seriously think about whether his words and deeds are appropriate. , even if it is something he has said, he will sometimes think about it again and again, and then wonder whether there is something in the words, whether it will be misunderstood. After "chewing" on what he said again, if he finds that there are loopholes, that person will soon You may quickly say something else to try to fill in what you think is a "loophole". If after chewing it you find that it can't be filled, that person will feel nervous and think of other ways to try to use it. Don't take advantage of this loophole in yourself if you "cannot afford to offend" people. Of course, if you don't feel how dangerous what you said after "chewing" it, that person will naturally feel much more comfortable.
Of course, even when you meet someone you "cannot afford to offend", that person will not always "chew". Although he will always be careful, he will not always have the opportunity to chew again and again. Sometimes, even if there is an opportunity, he will not seize it. Therefore, he is not always rigorous in speaking in front of people he "cannot afford". Sometimes, he feels nervous inside. Because of his nervousness, he sometimes says things he thinks are "wrong" in front of people he "cannot afford to offend". This is not something he can completely control. (End of chapter)