When Lao Li's parents heard about it, they were so angry that they almost had a heart attack.
"If my son really didn't take care of anything, where did she get food and clothing? Before she moved to the city, she still had a job in the town, but her little salary In addition to food and drinks, can she afford clothes worth hundreds of dollars? Can she afford bags and cosmetics?
How did she get a house in the city without paying for my son? Money? Did she ever repay the IOUs?
After moving to the city, she didn’t work. When she talked about it, she used her children as an excuse. She went to school every day. Do you think she should be a 24-hour nanny? Just for the sake of the child, look what she has done to my grandson.
My grandson is only so big that his schoolbag can’t even hold him. As she grew older, she signed up for so many cram schools, so I asked, where did the money come from for these expensive cram schools?
If my son doesn't care about anything and she goes out to eat with this person and go shopping with that person every day, where does the money come from?
Spending my son’s hard-earned money, I still think my son is worthless and can’t give others a good life. What do you call this? Is there such a person? "
The old couple originally did not support divorce, and wanted to persuade their son to step back and endure it for the sake of their children. Besides, there was no such thing as divorce in their time. Which couple can live without friction and unhappiness? But after hearing the doctor's diagnosis from their son - although they didn't understand what "depression" was, they only understood that if this disease is not taken seriously. , the consequences will be serious.
The key is that the root cause of the disease is still in the child's mother.
The balance in the hearts of the old couple tilted instantly.
Afterwards, they heard that their daughter-in-law had ignored the facts and slandered their son, and the couple completely supported their son's divorce.
While she was still bragging about Lao Li at her parents’ home, she received a notice from the court.
The negotiation failed and Lao Li filed for divorce.
She couldn't believe it and went to the court as if she was angry.
During the pre-litigation mediation, she wanted a house, money and children.
House and money are the guarantee of current life, and sons are the guarantee of future life.
In addition, she feels that this is the son she has carefully cultivated for more than ten years. She also hopes that the child will be admitted to the top university in the country, fulfill her dream, and make her face bright.
Lao Li doesn't care about money and housing, but it is absolutely impossible to give her the custody of the child.
The two couldn't argue, and the mediator suggested asking the children for their opinions.
Li Yu has Lao Li accompanying him these days, and he seems to have recovered a lot.
Relatives can attend the pre-litigation mediation, so the elderly on both sides and the brothers or sisters of both spouses came to support.
Li Yu also came and volunteered to listen.
When Li Yu first proposed it, Lao Li didn't want him to come over at all, because he was worried that his condition would worsen after seeing the woman. But Li Yu insisted, and Lao Li had no choice but to agree because he was concerned about the child's emotions.
As soon as the mediator asked Li Yu for her opinion, before the child could speak, she cried and played the family card of "mother and child are connected."
Seeing that Li Yu had no reaction, he wanted to pull it.
Lao Li subconsciously hurried over and pulled Li Yulian over with a chair, protecting him tightly.
The relatives on both sides started a new round of quarrel over this.
The mediator tried hard to persuade him, but he still couldn't stop. However, Li Yu's words made everyone instantly mute, and even their movements stopped.
Li Yu stood next to Lao Li, looking at her on the other side of the long table, with complicated emotions in his eyes: "I choose my dad, and you don't want the other money and house, because you cheated. , I saw it with my own eyes.”
In the stunned silence, Li Yu accurately stated the time, place, the man's appearance and what he was wearing at the time. Li Yu said: "That day when I was in cram school, you didn't pick me up and let me go home by myself. I was walking on the street and passed by a bookstore. I went in and read for a while, and then I saw you and me through the window of the bookstore. He came out of the hotel diagonally opposite, and you still..."
Li Yu couldn't continue talking.
Lao Li reached out with his long arms, hugged his son, and pressed him into his arms. Then he felt the clothes on his chest were wet, and heard his crying voice: "Dad, I'm sorry..."< br>
Li Yu didn't want to talk about it at first, he just wanted the matter to rot in his stomach.
He felt that after his parents divorced, they would most likely become strangers, but after all, they were once a family. Even if he was a child, he still wanted to be decent, not to mention the father who was hugging him at the moment.
But she went too far, really too far.
How could she want everything and leave nothing for her father?
Last time he left his post temporarily without asking for leave and could not contact anyone for a long time. Lao Li has been fired from the engineering team. When he secretly called someone to introduce a job, Li Yu overheard him.
As soon as this incident came out, she was definitely at fault. In order not to affect her future remarriage, her parents firmly opposed the court and demanded a private settlement.
If something breaks out, she will be nailed to the pillar of shame. What will she do for the rest of her life?
She herself felt guilty, and it was hard for the lion to open her mouth.
In the end, after mediation, the house and the children belonged to Lao Li, and the money in the bank account was divided equally between the two.
When the divorce certificate was obtained, she moved her belongings out of the house, and both father and son felt the same sense of relief.
Looking at this home again, it seems that the space has become larger, the windows have become brighter, and the haze has disappeared.
But Li Yu didn't want to go back to school anymore. After the last love letter incident, he felt conflicted in his heart.
He really couldn't forget the feeling of his self-esteem being trampled to the ground by the person closest to him.
Lao Li took him to see a psychiatrist again.
However, this kind of wound has to be healed slowly by himself. In view of the child's psychological endurance, the doctor suggested that Lao Li try to change the environment if he has the ability.
So Lao Li asked someone to transfer Li Yu to another school through his connections. It is an experimental middle school closer to home. It is ranked many places behind the city's No. 1 Middle School, but it is much better than the schools in the town.
Originally, Lao Li wanted to sell his house and take his children back to the village, so he could study in the town. He didn't care whether his grades were good or bad. As long as his children could be happy in the future, he would be satisfied.
A friend persuaded him: "It is better to keep the house. The old communities in the south of Shinan have been demolished. If this area is also demolished and rebuilt, it will be too late for you to regret it.
< br>If you are really unlucky, just change the decoration in the house. Isn’t that what you do? It’s not a hassle to do simple decoration.
Besides, you don’t have to worry about your child’s grades. But what about the child himself? Now it depends on his academic qualifications when he goes out to find a job, let alone in the future? He should stay in the city only for the sake of his children. "
This love letter is based on a real case
I heard from a friend
Her relative’s child, who was in the third grade of junior high school, received a love letter from a girl and was discovered by his mother.
It was during that time that the child’s grades declined, and the mother decided that it was due to puppy love.
Go to school, find the girl’s class, and beat her up in public. It’s shameless to say that people don’t learn well and have no sense of shame. A little girl doesn’t want to study all day long to learn about love. Carrying it in the corridor, I trained for a whole class...
I really felt suffocated when I listened to it!
Fortunately, these two children have relatively strong psychological qualities, otherwise, the consequences would be really hard to say...