Chapter 51 Chi Mo 5
“I was sad when he told me that he no longer loved me, but I felt a strange sense of relief.” Gao Jing forced a smile: “Later I found out We are getting along more and more like family members, rather than lovers, and there is no impulse for love between us.”
“For me, if there is no love but we get along like family members, we can live a lifetime, but. The other party can't do it." Gao Jing burst into tears. Can't hold it in any longer: "He is a very romantic person at heart, and he always emphasizes feelings."
"The other person has no feelings anymore, so there is no need to keep dragging it on. Letting go will be good for both of us. I I have two children now. My parents live with me now, mainly because I’m busy with work and have a hard time raising a baby.”
Tan You just listened in silence, her heart was rock solid as to how she felt. She doesn't care about love at all.
After Gao Jing finished speaking, she looked at Xiang Zhe: "I've finished sharing my story, it's your turn."
Xiang Zhe cleared his throat: "Then let me tell you the second one. My ex-wife and I divorced almost three years ago Now. I also have two children with my ex-wife. I will leave home soon, and I will give them the house, car, and deposit.”
Gao Jing changed her previous disappointment and said with a gossipy expression on her face: “Why do you do this?”
Just tell me whether you are cheating on me.
Xiang Zhe smiled: "At that time, I was eager to escape from my original family, and there was a job transfer. I moved from T province to S city, and it was difficult for my children to study. I spent a long time together and rarely separated. Many, she also has other fate.”
"I don't blame her. It's really hard for her to raise a child by herself. But I can't continue to live on. I can only give them everything I have at the time to save her and the child from hardship."< br>
He said it in an understatement, but Tan You understood. She glanced at Shi Xiangzhe, who looked like a gentle man, but Tan You felt that his eyes were cold, which showed that gentleness was just an appearance.
These are in order of seating. To Gao Jing's right is Tan You, and Tan You has nothing to say: "My experience is also simple. I have been divorced for two years and I have been married for three months. ”
“We had a prenatal check-up before we got married, and everything was normal at that time. After I got married, I suddenly fell ill. At that time, the doctor said that it might be difficult to have children in the future. We divorced after I was discharged from the hospital. "
"Is it because of how advanced medicine is now? Huh? "Several guests couldn't understand it. The key is that medical methods are really advanced nowadays.
"The doctor only said it was possible, but he didn't say it was definitely not possible to have children, right?" Gao Jing was confused.
"Yes, that's what the doctor said," Tan You nodded: "Later, when I went for a review, the doctor said there was nothing to worry about, but we had already divorced by then, so it was okay to be divorced."< br>
Gao Jing asked again: "So you don't have such hidden dangers now?"
"Of course," Tan You said seriously: "But I won't start talking to others as soon as I see them. There is no need to say that there is nothing wrong with my health.”
“It’s so unfair,” Zhou Wenwen lamented, “How uncomfortable must it be to file for divorce while being treated?”
Tan You was very calm: "There must be some sadness, but since I can say it, it doesn't mean anything to me. It's good to be divorced, and I'm living a good life now."
< br>Xu Jike couldn't wait to ask: "Then did you still keep in touch?"
Everyone understood that he was so eager. Several male guests exchanged glances, and they all obviously understood.
Tan You: "No, I will not contact him again. Later, I deleted all his contact information. I have no idea where he is now and how he is doing." "I My story was very lackluster, my experience was just that, and I didn’t have any children, so I was very busy with work in the past two years, and my life circle was not large, and I had very little contact with the opposite sex.”
Lin Meng was curious: "But you are beautiful, aren't there any boys chasing you?"
Tan You thought about Chi Mo's suitors: "There are some, but they just don't have the eye, and I don't want to start rashly." A new fate. The slowness is actually very tiring. The process of taking back the emotions you have given is very painful."
"And the beauty is easy to fade away. Will do this Is it beautiful? If he just likes my face, there are too many people who are more beautiful than me. When I am no longer young, he will like someone more beautiful."
"Knowing that the other person is targeting me. With such a face, I will naturally not choose to be with the other person. This is a kind of contempt for myself."
Xu Jike said with a smile: "So you want others to see your inner meaning?"
"Connotation?" Tan You finally smiled: "Many people talk about connotation, but what exactly is connotation? I think it is more about character than connotation."
"I am just an ordinary person. What I know about dancers is that I don’t understand a lot of professional knowledge. I am just a very ordinary person, and I feel that I don’t have a lot of poetry.”
“Just. Like you are a lawyer, you treat yourself You are very knowledgeable and professional in your field. But I don’t know this about you, so the topics we can talk about are very limited..."
Xu Jike was a little anxious: "But I plan to find a girlfriend, not a girlfriend. Work partner..."
Tan You is not angry: "I am just giving you an example, and I don't like talking very much. I prefer to listen to what others say, so in the eyes of others, I will appear introverted and quiet. "
"No matter what age men are, almost all men like lively and outgoing people. They say they admire strong women, but in their hearts they still like girls who can look up to them."
Zhou Wenwen took over the conversation: "Momo, this That's right. My ex-husband cheated on a girl who was ten years younger than him. Even when a man reaches his seventies or eighties, he still seems to like young girls who are seventeen or eighteen years old."
Lin Meng: "So we. You can also be like them and find someone younger."
Tan You looked at Zhou Wenwen: "It's his loss if he chooses someone else. You are really good. Of course, there will be something better. It doesn’t matter if you don’t look for her, we can still manage our lives well.”
Zhou Wenwen smiled: “Yes, I am living well now. I have a daughter, and of course we are divorced. In addition to this, there are other reasons, because I gave birth to a daughter, and their family wanted a boy.”
"And I feel that the burden is too heavy. I also have to be busy with work. Maybe it is because of this..."
Gao Jing: "Don't think like this. You still find reasons for the other person to cheat on him. He It’s just that my mind has changed and I’m not at home anymore.”
Zhou Wenwen took a sip of tea and said, “Maybe, but I found that life became much easier once I didn’t have to deal with the other person’s family. Becoming particularly pure”
(End of this chapter)