Tan You: "It can't be said that he really doesn't like you, he just doesn't like you enough."
"Yes, he just doesn't like me enough." Yi Ru smiled: "You know people are greedy , especially in love. I like him so much. "I want the same sincere and passionate feelings, but Zhao Zhao is like a glass of warm water, he can't give me this." .his job, hobbies, colleagues or My family is always more important than me."
"I will always be ranked behind these things, and even more so after I have children." Yi Ru sighed: "But in order to create a stable and harmonious family. Atmosphere, I still have to suppress all these sourness in In my heart."
"Because in the eyes of outsiders, Zhao Zhao is very good. He doesn't smoke, drink, or go to bars, and he doesn't flirt with women. He is even very good to his children and my parents. It seems that he is a very good person. All perfect.”
"But only I know how tiring it is to be with him. I always have to match his pace. When I told my parents about this, they didn't understand at all. Instead, they blamed me for not knowing that I have a husband like Zhao Zhao. Contentment."
Tan You thought for a long time: "Emotional matters are true. It's complicated, but as the more urgent person in the relationship, you should give more. And you give these things voluntarily. Even if the other party doesn't give you the same feedback, you should accept it calmly instead of feeling sorry for yourself like now. "
“After all, you made it yourself "I'm not speaking for Zhao Zhao, because you are asking for love from others. This is forcing someone to love you or not. You should not take the initiative to ask for it." He gave it voluntarily."
"Of course, just like Zhao Zhao, he will. Suitable for the kind of person who doesn't love him, because she won't be jealous, won't look for trouble, won't pick problems, won't be unreasonable, won't cling to him, she won't mind if he looks for her, he loves to go there. If you go there, you won’t mind if you die. Anyway, it’s the same with or without him, he’s sensible and generous.”
Yi Ru smiled: "What you said sounds good, but there are some logical errors. Since we don't love each other, we won't be together."
Tan You: "So you should think in another direction, You crave love in marriage and hope that the other person will love you more every day than before. But marriage is more about responsibility. This is the conflict between you and Zhao Zhao."
"Maybe, anyway. "It's a mess," Yi Ru rubbed her hair like a chicken coop. How could she have the same look as when Tan You first saw her?
"To be honest, when I first met you, I thought you were really good at pretending and so hypocritical." Now that we are familiar with each other, Tan You speaks more freely.
Yi Ru was a little embarrassed: "Isn't that something that can't be changed for a while? Only now I realize that aside from those external shackles, I am really free, as free as I want to fly."
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"In good conscience, Zhao Zhao has never been inferior to me financially. I can't pretend that I don't know this." Yi Ru rolled on the bed and came face to face with Tan You.
“But I always feel that he is too wrapped up in himself, and no one can understand his thoughts. It is actually very painful for partners not to be in tune with each other.”
“One party is unwilling to say , on the one hand, you can only linger outside the other person's heart forever, which is actually very painful."
Tan You: "I think you habitually praise Zhao Zhao very highly when you get along with him. It’s wrong to put yourself in a very low position.”
“I later discovered that it’s just a habit.” Yi Ru later also reviewed her emotional and marital experiences: “I found out later. Now I understand not to fall in love or get married with a man who is too mature.”
"The other person is indeed mature and stable, but the other person can see through you, and you never know what he is thinking. This is the saddest thing. Maybe when I took the initiative to approach him, he was still laughing at me for being too naive. . "Yi Ru didn't cry either, but thinking about those past events, she couldn't calm down after all. After all, we have been entangled for decades. How can we just let it go?
Tan You: "A wise man cannot fall in love, and a fool will shed a river of tears."
"That's right, I am that fool." Yi Ru stretched her muscles and bones: "Now that I have nothing to do with Zhao Zhao, I now have a pretty good reputation on the Internet. You don't know how happy I am in my heart."
"The word "backstabbing" is really ugly."
Tan You: "So after talking about this time, don't mention Zhao Zhao again in the future. After all, he has quit the show a long time ago. Who knows where he is now? What kind of work is he doing?"
"Who You know? Maybe it would be best for me to go back to the original point, because I have the right to make a new choice, and Zhao Zhao will be able to find someone who can be close to him in the future. Please be kind to me. Ren."
Yi Ru held her face: "It's just that he is destined to regret that no one will love him as smoothly as I once did."
"Yes, this. "It's his biggest regret." Tan You said with a smile: "Being loved always makes you feel happy." I’m only fourteen now, so young.”
Tan You glanced at her sideways: "I thank you for remembering my age now. Didn't you just say it happily?"
"Hey, who makes you mature beyond your age, but To be honest, men and women have very different attitudes towards marriage. Many girls hope to maintain the sweetness of love after marriage, but men do not. They seem to suddenly feel that they only need to take responsibility after getting married. "
"There are differences in thinking," Tan You said calmly, but suddenly smiled wickedly: "The topic is too profound, so we won't discuss it anymore. If you see Zhao Zhao again, you will. What do you think?”
“What do you think?” Yi Ru thought for a moment: “I don’t know. Besides, the world is so big, how can you see it so easily? Besides, even if I see it, I will feel calm. Because in the end I didn’t even have the energy to talk to him.”
“It’s best, because I’m afraid you’ll get mad again.”
Yi Ru: "No, I can't be so lame that I fall on the same man twice."
"You'd better be," Tan You didn't say much, some people said She is independent and equal, and has freedom and autonomy in life, but in fact she has not become truly independent. In her heart, she still wants to rely on her partner, which is the kind of personality that is not independent.
Tan You doesn't comment on whether this mentality is right, but as long as people accept each other, there is no place for Tan You to comment. In the final analysis, life belongs to others and has nothing to do with Tan You.
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