Chapter 264: Think openly
"Actually, don't worry about my future. Don't support you and my grandma. The burden on her has been much lighter." Tan You said softly: "Put my dad and Tan Yue If you keep raising her, she can still do it."
Tan Deming's evaluation is very pertinent: "It's really hard for your dad to work outside, but he is also really lazy."
" It’s not just delicious, it’s true that he’s lazy,” Tan You chuckled, “But no matter how lazy he is, isn’t my mother dragging him out to work every day? He goes to the construction site to cut steel bars and collect scrap iron slag in the factory? , these are all hard work, hasn’t he done it yet?”
“So despite all his shortcomings, he is really hardworking, and I can’t pretend not to see it.”
Tan Deming: "After all, who in our family is not suffering? It's just Tan Yue. She is still young and can't remember anything."
Tan You: "Yes, I found that Tan Yue and I still have a relationship Bad. I remember that I didn’t speak until I was four years old. Did the people in the village think that I was mute?”
“But Tan Yue was not, Tan Yue can talk very early."
Tan Deming also thought of Tan You when he was a child: "Isn't it true? You talked very late and walked very late. Tan Ying can walk at eight months, and you are the only one who can walk very early. He can only walk when he is 10 years old.”
“I don’t want to move at all. I like to drag your little climbing stool everywhere.”
Tan You seemed to have thought of something and suddenly laughed: "I think I'm following you. Don't you also sit in one place for a long time? And you don't like to talk usually."
"Get out of here, am I that kind of person? My old man didn't say that I spoke late." Tan Deming scolded with a smile, but he didn't expect that Tan You would throw the blame on him.
Tan You: "I don't even remember what happened before. I remember things very late. My mother always said that I was stupid and couldn't turn my head."
Tan Deming was not happy: "Where are you stupid? You have always had good grades. If you hadn't read novels in the third year of junior high school, how could you have scored such a low score in the high school entrance examination?"
"My eldest granddaughter is talented in learning. ”
Tan You smiled: "No, I am at the level of an ordinary person."
With her intelligence score of 60 points, she is not really talented in learning. Maybe it's because the teaching quality in rural middle schools is so poor, and students with good grades all go to the city to study, so Tan You seems to stand out.
Tan Deming insisted: "I think you have talent. How good is your memory? Your mother used to teach you to recite poems. You can remember them clearly after two or three times."
"That's because I have a good memory, let's follow my mother." Tan You also smiled. Although she inherited Tan Lin's severe myopia, she also inherited her mother Cheng Wenhui's good memory. Really bad.
Tan Deming also thought of his daughter-in-law: "To be honest, your mother...if she hadn't met your father, she wouldn't be as hard as she is now."
Tan You understands: "I understand, so I would rather not get married than choose a man who is worthless and incompetent."
Tan Deming also agrees with Tan You's idea: "It's okay not to get married. I can't bear to let you go in the future." Just like your mother. To be honest, it's really hard for your mother to live like this."
Tan You smiled: "I know that my father understands me and is considerate."
" What's wrong with me?" Tan Deming laughed and said, "I specialize in doing stupid things for people. I've done almost thousands of stupid things in the past few decades. It's just like this when you die." Let's go," he said and smiled, and suddenly he had the demeanor of an outsider: "When I went to show the time to someone the year before last, the man had several children and his life was pretty good. "
"Then when I was helping him get dressed, I found four thousand dollars in his shoes."
People like Tan Deming who do business for others are called Dogong in the dialect here. . Generally, if there is an elderly person in the family who is in trouble, the host family will find a place to offer it to them to see how long the elderly person has left. Preparations for the funeral must be made in advance.
The local offering association went over to help put on the shroud, instruct the host’s family to notify relatives and friends, and then contact the bookkeeper, etc., and then there were various filial piety clothes, filial piety cloths, etc., these were all local offerings. work content.
After the old man passes away, the local priest will take the host’s family to see the tomb, deliver meals to guests and go through various procedures. Tan You has been following Tan Deming since she was a child, and she has experienced this situation countless times.
Tan You's impression is that graves in rural areas are always found in one's own fields, so such graves can be seen everywhere in rural areas. Maybe it's because Tan Deming does this kind of work, but Tan You doesn't have much respect for ghosts and gods.
"At that time, the man was still breathing," Tan Deming sighed: "I found four thousand yuan, but he grabbed my hand and refused to let me take it out. To be honest, even though I am in this business, But I don’t believe this.”
"Once a person dies, everything is over. No matter how much money you bring, the last thing that comes out of the furnace is ashes. And it is not easy for people to live well in this life. How can they hope for the next life?"
" Four thousand yuan is a lot of money. Tan You smiled and said, "I didn't hear you say that."
Tan Deming: "Only his children were there at that time. They said it specifically. After all, I'm not a big talker." The old man wanted to take the money with him after he left. It’s not nice to go out.”
“To be honest, I’ve seen this kind of thing a lot.” Tan Deming smiled: “They all try their best to hide things, hide money, hide bankbooks, and hide gold. ”
"You just have to have these things when you are alive. If you are leaving, you might as well leave them to your descendants. At least you can get some benefits. As for the four thousand yuan, his children were very angry afterwards. "
"That's a boring thing."
Tan You looked at Tan Deming sideways: "So what do you mean by giving me this example?"< br>
Tan Deming: "I'm just telling you, it's not easy for people to take care of themselves in this life, so why should they worry about others? No one stipulates that girls have to get married or have children, so do I. I don’t want you to suffer in the future.”
“Our family’s conditions are already bad enough and cannot be worse than they are now. If that happens, I would rather you stay at home with me and your grandma for the rest of your life. Aren’t you in charge?”
"Your father can't be your boss."
"I don't want a girl who is the head of the family to turn around and be someone else's daughter-in-law and suffer the anger of her husband's family."
Tan You He was in a very good mood: "My father understands me. Naturally, I can't bear to be angry, or no one can make me angry."
Tan Deming: "That's how it should be. It's better to be more powerful. You are amazing." Others don’t dare to treat you casually, so they should treat you with caution. You are like a soft bun, and no one dares to pinch you.”
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