Chapter 342 Just hate it if you hate it
Hate it if you hate it, it's her business to talk or not, and it's Oda's business to listen or not. Since Oda is the eldest uncle, she puts down her arrogance and keeps a low profile, she must always be polite before fighting.
It's better if you understand, but there's nothing you can do if you don't understand. I've said everything that needs to be said. If the other party insists on going his own way, why does he have to deal with her as a nephew-in-law?
Gu Wenxuan shook his head and joked: "Aren't you worried that your uncle will really write a letter, or are you proposing a marriage because you agree with him writing a letter?"
"Whatever, anyway, I didn't personally propose it to the Zhao family, they can do whatever they want. But in my opinion, the Zhao family will not agree.
Mr. Zhao, I don’t know, but according to Mr. Zhao, he will not give up a nephew to marry Erniu, even if his previous nieces and nephews all have good family backgrounds.
With Mr. Zhao’s ambition, even if he wants to get married to us, he will only prefer to marry a daughter from the Zhao family, rather than marrying a daughter-in-law from the Zhao family.
It's like saying that he wants Dajiang to marry a daughter of the Zhao family. After she gets married, she will be the eldest daughter-in-law. As long as she has a son and a half, wouldn't it be more beneficial to the Zhao family. ”
Gu Wenxuan did not deny Zhou Banxia's hypothesis, just as Wen Shishu and his wife liked Da Jiang for the same reason, the fact that their family background was not revealed turned out to be an advantage.
The male leads the outside and the female leads the inside.
With his mother-in-law's ability, anyone with a discerning eye can see that once Dajiang marries a wife, her wife will definitely take over and support Zhongwei, which means that she can almost be the master of the family.
This is also the main reason why his wife repeatedly told Da Jiang not to leave the boy and the schoolboy beside him when he went out, and did not dare to easily decide on the candidate for his sister-in-law.
Having a virtuous sister-in-law is a help, otherwise it is very likely that all the hard work she has spent on her mother's family will be wasted, which is not something she can tolerate.
However, the Zhao family, "compared to the Wen family, the Zhao family is actually quite suitable. I mean the family background, not the girls. After all, I have never seen any girls from their Zhao family."
Yes.
Except for the eldest daughter of the Zhao family in the capital and the daughter of the fourth bedroom, she had seen almost all the daughters of the second and third bedrooms.
The reason why I say almost is that the third brother Zhao Sanye has a concubine. For some reason, I have never seen Zhao Sanye and these concubines in Fucheng.
Perhaps Mrs. Zhao San was not willing to let the concubine come forward, and perhaps Mr. Zhao also knew that her uncle would not let Da Jiang marry a concubine.
"Both families are from farming families. Girls from the same generation as Zhao and Dajiang, such as the little girl from Erbo Zhao's family, will not know what kind of family they are originally from.
If you are not rich for more than three generations, if you understand local customs, learn the etiquette, and have good housekeeping skills, you are relatively suitable to be the eldest daughter-in-law. ”
Zhou Banxia glanced at Gu Wenxuan who was walking with him without hesitation.
Gu Wenxuan raised his eyebrows, "What's wrong with me?"
"It's that one."
"Which one?"
"The girl from Erbo Zhao's family who has not left the palace is not as good-looking as Da Jiang."
Gu Wenxuan was stunned for a moment, covered his mouth with his fist and laughed muffledly.
Zhou Banxia couldn't help but laugh too, "It's not that I'm superficial. Look at how beautiful Dajiang is. It's not an exaggeration to say that he is a handsome young man."
That’s hard, it’s hard to choose.
He also wanted his father and brother to have a good family background and be progressive, he wanted a girl to be generous and virtuous, and she had to have an appearance that matched Da Jiang, so choosing a concubine was nothing more than that.
"Besides, any young man who doesn't admire Ai at a young age must have a somewhat passable appearance. He will also like it when he sees it. Only then can the young couple be harmonious and beautiful.
It is said that he is looking for an eldest daughter-in-law, but he must live a happy life himself. Otherwise, no matter how good it is, what is the use if he doesn't like it, and his parents can't stay with him for the rest of his life. ”
Gu Wenxuan nodded slowly, "The idea is correct, the reality is very cruel. Generally speaking, it is good for poor families to have a daughter-in-law to carry on the family line.
Just like when Zhao Laoer chose a daughter-in-law back then, the first choice was that she was capable and capable of giving birth. He didn't care what his wife looked like, as long as she didn't speak crookedly. In other words, a wealthy family would choose a good wife, a concubine, and a beautiful girl. After several generations of genetic optimization, good looks would be inherited, and a little girl with acquired influence would be a candidate that fits your imagination.
Don't say that you siblings are good-looking, you are a special case. Not to mention my three siblings, my father must have fallen in love with my mother because she was good-looking. ”
Gu Wenxuan said what he wanted to say, and Zhou Banxia had to wait for him to finish. It was funny to think about it, "Then do you think your three brothers and sisters are better-looking, or Dajiang and the other three?"
Gu Wenxuan glanced at her funny, did you want to stump him? "My wife is the best-looking."
"Don't talk about me."
"They must be my three siblings."
Hey, Dajiang's appearance alone is much better than that of your two brothers, let alone Daya, who is known as the village beauty. Zhou Banxia looked at the sky speechlessly.
"Be careful of falling. Don't be dissatisfied. It's hard to say whether Baoya will become ugly when she turns 18. My two brothers are so tall that you, the Zhou family, can't keep up."
Zhou Banxia just wanted to grit his teeth when he had a toothache.
"Heredity is very important. Even if you want to help the big rivers and small rivers grow, you still have to see if they grow taller and have a well-proportioned stature." Gu Wenxuan glanced at Zhou Banxia, "There is also temperament, even if you hide your peerless appearance. Face, your eldest sister can’t compare to you!”
Nonsense!
Zhou Banxia couldn't help but chuckle, "I still don't know that my appearance is so-so. Some people said a long time ago that I look like my grandfather.
My grandpa, you must have seen him, right? He died when I was six or seven years old. You said how ugly my grandfather was, with only one slit in his eye. ”
"Nonsense." Gu Wenxuan almost laughed, but managed to stop his laughter, "I've seen him before, and when he said you looked like him, he was praising you for being capable and hardworking like your grandfather, not for your appearance."
Of course she knew this, and she also knew that the person who said this was actually laughing at her parents for taking care of their children and not raising them. Fortunately, she had an eldest daughter who looked like her grandfather to help her.
"Now you look most like Da Jiang. At first glance, they are siblings. But their personalities are different. He has a really good temper, but you have a fake one."
So angry!
Got it!
"I still have a bad temper? If I can't bear it, I don't have a good temper. Who doesn't praise me for being gentle and virtuous? Can you name a name that you don't agree with?"
The corner of Gu Wenxuan's mouth twitched and he suppressed a smile, "That's right. There was no time when my wife couldn't bear it anymore and she started to fight. Now her temper has improved and she is gentle and gentle."
"There is also Xianshu."
"Yes, yes, she is gentle and virtuous. She can speak but never use her hands. She bangs the table and knocks bricks and beer bottles. We don't want bricks and beer bottles nowadays, hahaha..."
It made you laugh so hard that Zhou Banxia laughed and shook his head.
The two were chatting and laughing, and after walking slowly, they almost reached the intersection in front of the workshop. Turning left was the direction to the workshop and the manor behind.
It was no different than this morning when he took a carriage directly to the workshop, turned left and then walked. When he was about to turn left again, Zhou Banxia couldn't help but hesitate in his steps.
Ahead?
Back mountain, she knew that the escort team used the back mountain as a training ground.
In order to prevent mudslides, the surrounding trees are not allowed to be cut down randomly. Even one of the roads leading into the mountain not only has the steps, but also only trims the original trees on both sides.
But why is this road into the mountain so strange? Could it be that the direction of the drawing is wrong and the east and west directions are reversed? Otherwise, how could the road be built on the east side?