Chapter 675 All I can give is sincerity
Dajiang knew that his third sister would be very happy to hear about this, but he really couldn't let the third sister prepare the betrothal gift. Even if he asked his uncle to prepare it, he couldn't let the third sister come.
The third sister has done enough, and finally met a kind person, so she can't let anything go wrong.
He will repay the debt he owes to his uncle, the uncle. He will also repay the debt the third sister owes to the uncle.
Holding back his shame, Dajiang thought about it and said bluntly, "Third sister, don't worry about the betrothal gift for now. Uncle Qi knows our family's financial situation and there is no way he will ask for more.
Only if you do enough favors can you live up to the original intention of marrying low. Furthermore, before the betrothal gift is given, there is also the etiquette of giving the betrothal gift. If you are not in a hurry, you have to wait until the application period before issuing the betrothal gift. ”
Yes, after asking about all this, it seems that he really likes Sister Hui! Zhou Banxia knew that this younger brother was thin-skinned and did not dare to tease him, so he immediately agreed happily.
"Also, third sister, I also told my uncle that before making the wedding ceremony, there is also the word "heba", which is a token of token. It can be a marriage or a brother-sister relationship.
All in all, I think it's a bit too hasty for Junior Sister Qi, and we have to wait until Junior Sister Qi returns home to meet Senior Uncle Qi and his wife before getting married.
When the uncle heard what I said, he was worried that I was not very satisfied with Junior Sister Qi, or that Junior Sister Qi had said something to me, so I told him the truth.
I'm very grateful that Uncle Qi can look at me differently, but I'm just a scholar now, and I can't give him a family background that's enough to match him. All I can give him is sincerity.
Junior Sister Qi is undoubtedly a good person, and I don’t want her to make a decision one day by being too hasty and regretful, and make her uncle and the others in a dilemma.
I can't guarantee that as long as Junior Sister Qi has no regrets, I, Zhou Yujiang, will never fail her in this life. I mentioned this to Junior Sister Qi in private.
We weren't getting along in private, but the night before Junior Sister Qi, my eldest aunt asked me to enter the inner courtyard. Junior Sister Qi and I said that no matter how good the oath is, it's not as good as a young and ignorant sentence.
I won't, I can wait, wait for her to think carefully, respect my parents, and protect my younger brother, and I will never forget today. She understood, nodded and smiled. ”
"Very good, Dajiang!" Zhou Banxia smiled happily, "You are more considerate in handling things. Third sister is really relieved. Dajiang, you are enough to make third sister proud of you.
If our father can have a responsible eldest son like you, no one will dare to bully our father. You are very good. You are even better than the third sister imagined. Your third brother-in-law did not praise you wrongly.
Your third brother-in-law said before that you have a calm mind, which is no longer comparable to that of your peers. You have made the third sister witness once again that my brother is indeed not comparable to ordinary people. ”
Dajiang's face became even redder after being praised, and the redness reached his neck. Zhou Shun was so happy that he shook his head. He didn't know whose son this son had followed. The two of them were not thin-skinned.
"Also, your performance in the annual exam this time is not average. Being able to maintain sixth place this time is equivalent to being in the top three in the previous monthly exam.
You don't have any problems with your studies. You just can't rush and you still need to be steady. My uncle has been chatting with you about the provincial examination next year. Do you want to give it a try? ”
"Yes."
Dajiang secretly breathed a sigh of relief, but he didn't praise him all the time. Although he felt happy to be praised by the third sister, he was not that good.
"My husband also told me not to be anxious. He saw the answer sheet I had written down this time, and he said that if I try next year, I am 70% to 80% sure that I will win."
Ranking sixth in the annual exam, still only 70% to 80% sure?
Thursday Shun secretly clicked his tongue after hearing this.
Compared to him, Zhou Banxia was not surprised. Being elected was equivalent to stepping onto the threshold of becoming an official. It was not difficult to win the imperial examination. Why did the great grandfather's hair turn white? He was still a scholar of Zhou. I think back then, her great-grandfather was also a scholar with some talent and reputation. He was selected as a scholar at a young age, but after that, he always failed to pass the provincial examination.
"But I'm 70% to 80% sure of winning, and my ranking will be very low. My husband doesn't suggest that I give it a try next year. He asked me to settle down for two years first.
He said that if there is a chance, he would like my third brother and me to go to Jiangnan to study, and let my third brother and I study with the master for two years. He is not in a hurry to pass the exam at the moment.
According to the teacher, ranking is very important. For example, the third brother-in-law, the teacher said that because the third brother-in-law is at the top of the hospital, he will definitely be on the list next autumn.
And the ranking will not be low. My husband also read the answer sheet that I brought with me and he said that the third brother-in-law’s studies are no longer a concern. ”
Yes.
Your third brother-in-law has always been a geek, a genius, and a genius who can be self-disciplined to the point of paranoia once he makes a decision.
He also has a lifetime experience of experiencing peace and turmoil in prosperous times. Such a genius cannot be compared to ordinary people.
But it's hard to say this. Zhou Banxia thought about it, "That's because your third brother-in-law is very hardworking. Outsiders don't know. You should see how hard your third brother-in-law works in private.
Just like this calligraphy, I felt disgusted when I saw the calligraphy he wrote before, but he still mastered it, and today he was bold enough to go to the ancestral hall early in the morning to show off. ”
Ojiang couldn't help but laugh out loud. What the third sister said was so funny. In fact, the third brother-in-law's previous pavilion body was still okay, but it just had to be compared with someone.
Who told him that the third sister has already achieved some success in calligraphy and painting? When the husband saw it, he asked the third brother-in-law to practice more, but the third brother-in-law was so tired that he couldn't do it without practicing hard.
"But the third brother-in-law is serious about it. Today's pavilion style is full of strength and strength, and the muscles and bones are hidden inside. In the words of the uncle, it can be seen that it is vigorous and majestic."
"But your third brother-in-law still doesn't dare to start practicing cursive calligraphy easily. Do you know what it means? He is a person who attaches great importance to 'Everything will be done in advance, and if it is not in advance, it will be ruined.'
Before making any decisions, he likes to make secret preparations. Like your schedule, he will never change it easily if it is listed.
The third sister hopes that you will do the same, step by step, step by step, learn more and see more, don't be impatient, and then follow the trend.
As for money, don't worry about the third sister being in trouble. Your third brother-in-law is a smart man, and your third sister is not stupid either. If you do well, the third sister will be more confident, you know? ”
Dajiang was just about to interrupt, but when he heard this, he had no choice but to smile bitterly and nod, agree first, otherwise the third sister would think too much, "Then I will settle down for two years before I end?"
This kid even followed her to change the subject! Zhou Banxia couldn't laugh or cry, "Third sister, I still said the same thing, everything is based on your personal wishes and preferences.
It's the same thing, you can't do anything but obey your uncle's orders, and you don't have to worry about whether my father and I have different ideas.
All we can do is that no matter what decision you make, as long as it is not too wrong, even your uncle will not criticize you. He always wants your best.
Otherwise, like this marriage, my uncle would not have mentioned it to your third brother-in-law in advance, and asked dad to wait for you to meet the person before asking you what you think.
Even though it's a marriage, my uncle still cares about you, Dajiang. Dad, is this true? You can also say a few words, Dajiang is a good boy, and your ideas are very important. ”