I don’t know if being able to coax people is hereditary. Gu Erlang, who has an extraordinary emotional intelligence, is definitely a master of coaxing people. He even accidentally praised his wife in front of his son.
After Gu Erzhu took his two sons and eldest grandson to worship their ancestors at the Gu family ancestral hall, Zhou Banxia saw Ma Shan holding her hand and going back to the west wing with her.
Just in time, she also wanted to ask Ma Shan if she wanted to take advantage of this moment for the men of the Gu family to go to the ancestral hall to worship their ancestors, and to go to the Gu family home to pay their respects to Mr. Gu and the old lady.
If he wasn't at home to celebrate the New Year, it would be okay to go there today, but now it's only a hundred meters away from the Gu family's old home, so it would be inappropriate not to show up.
But before she could ask Ma Shan for her opinion, she heard Ma Shan imitating Xiao Changsuo's tone and began to "speak", "...Look, my wife, you and my father have found a good one~"
If she hadn't been paying attention to what Ma Shan was saying, she almost wouldn't have known the deeper meaning, "Sister-in-law, you are very good, and you never lied."
"Are you serious?" Ma Shan laughed loudly, "To be honest, it's your eldest brother who is doing your best, and your parents' good first. I was also scared when I first walked in.
My father and my mother are different. When he agreed to marry me to your eldest brother, my father only thought that my parents cared about me and he was not afraid that my parents would not be able to protect me.
My mother, on the other hand, is not like my father. She is always worried that my father is too filial, and my mother is not favored in front of my grandma, and she is afraid that I will be bullied when I come in.
To use my mother's words, any of the big men stay at home all day long. When a wife is married, she not only checks whether her mother-in-law gets along well, but also how her mother-in-law is doing.
I guess that person, she thinks she is a good person, but my mother has actually found out a long time ago that she not only favors her old son, but also prefers her eldest son.
On the surface, it seems that our grandfather favors the eldest son and grandson. In fact, the two of them are not far apart. If our father does not separate the family, he will definitely have to support the family.
Before I got married, my mother broke down the affairs of the old Gu family and told me about them, just because she was afraid that I would be too impatient to listen to what my elders said.
My mother is not worried that my mother-in-law will not protect me. She is worried that an unfilial and disobedient person will not even be able to protect me. The old man and the old lady are my father and mother.
You don’t know now that when I first came in, our dad was not like this now. He would do anything if he was held back by my mother and cried a little longer.
One time, my mother got so upset that I was so annoyed that I couldn't get into sex with her, so I had to force my mother to pinch my uncle a few more times. ”
sharp!
Zhou Banxia looked at Ma Shan with admiration, "That's why I say hello, take action when it's time to take action. If you hadn't come in, my mother wouldn't have been able to fight them by herself!"
Ma Shan shook her head, "We still lost. My grandma said that my mother taught me, my daughter-in-law, bad things. When my father came back, she still made him cry.
I wanted my father to teach my daughter-in-law well and let me go back to my parents’ home for two days. At that time, my father just said that if I wanted to go back, everyone would go back to my parents’ home for two days.
Think about it, if it were now, would it be difficult for dad to get used to our grandma? At that time, it was your eldest brother and Liulang who went to ask the eldest uncle if she couldn't tolerate our family, and the other one caught the elder brother and beat him.
How about I say good things to Liulang? Your brother is only good at talking. Your brother Liulang doesn't talk much, but he can make the old man and the eldest uncle afraid of him every time.
At that time, the old man didn't dare to scold you, Brother Rokuro, for being inhumane in front of our father. He just saw his eldest grandson being beaten by Rokuro and asked our father to take care of him.
I still remember that Rokuro was furious at that time. He asked the old man in front of his uncle, he always scolded people for being unfilial. My own mother was bullied. How should I be filial as a son?
Are you asking me and my whole family to kneel down and kowtow to beg for mercy, to be the filial sons and grandsons of your Gu family? As a junior, I can't beat my uncle and teach his wife poorly, and I can't control their Tian family's ability to educate their daughters, but I know the old saying goes, a father's debt is repaid by his son, as long as their eldest son beats me more. Anyway, I am going to die. If you feel sorry for your eldest grandson, just take a knife and point it at me. If I fight back, I am not the son of my parents. ”
Zhou Banxia frowned.
"It was also after that time that our father seemed to have been frightened by Liu Lang. In your brother's words, Liu Lang was too filial and it was not easy for him to worry about our parents in everything he did.
Whenever Takaroro complained to his father, his father would not listen to the old lady. Don't look at Dad, he has a very good brain and he did a lot of stupid things in the beginning.
Just tell me, within two or three months after I entered the house, I noticed that Rokuro and Dalang were not dealing with each other. Dalang was so afraid of Rokuro that he would avoid him whenever he saw him, but Dad just couldn't tell.
Earlier, your eldest brother and I thought that Dalang Yi was secretly afraid of being beaten by Liu Lang, but we didn't expect that the three of them had plotted against Liu Lang and felt guilty.
I just said how could the old man tolerate Rokuro being so indifferent to him and refusing to work in the fields if he couldn't think of it? ”
"..." Looking at Ma Shan who was getting more and more annoyed as she talked, Zhou Banxia didn't know how to take over the conversation without making her feel resentful. The sister-in-law would not give up.
"Now that retribution has come, I still want Rokuro to ask you to help his eldest son and grandson. Don't say that your eldest brother and I are disobedient. Our father will not tolerate them taking any further!"
Yes, all the idioms are used. It must be the smiling fox uncle again who asked his wife to blow pillows with her more often, lest she be plotted by her second elder one day.
"As for you, I know you are thinking about our father and don't want him to be caught in the middle. Furthermore, for the sake of our family's reputation, you can't be more serious."
Seeing Ma Shan talking in a coaxing tone, Zhou Banxia couldn't help crying or laughing, holding her forehead. She really wanted to ask if this was the conclusion that the uncle came to when he taught his wife behind her back.
But, how could she have been right? If she doesn't look at the monk's face and the Buddha's face, her father-in-law is not a very good father. It doesn't matter if she wastes more money.
If we really want to take things seriously, it's not just the reputation that is good or bad, but it will make such a good father-in-law feel cold, unless the father-in-law himself truly realizes that filial piety is filial piety, not stupid filial piety.
Moreover, based on the current situation, the father-in-law has clearly realized that parents cannot be tolerated, and if they are used to it, they will be a drag on their children.
This is already a very good result, and it is impossible not to support parents who passed away at an unknown age at an unknown age.
She was a daughter who was often criticized by her parents, no matter how disappointed and hard-hearted she was, she still paid monthly alimony in the end.
It doesn't matter whether you are filial or not, it is the bottom line for a child. If you don't want to cause trouble around you, you can just ignore it. At most, it is just out of sight.
What's more, she is a daughter-in-law. No matter what she thinks in her heart, there is no father-in-law or mother-in-law who would not like to see their daughter-in-law respect their parents.
Don't slap people in the face when you hit them, don't expose their shortcomings when scolding people.
Like her dad.
She hated her unloving parents, and her mother scolded the old immortal twice more, but her father was not happy to hear it, let alone her father-in-law who came out of the frame of foolish filial piety.
"I understand everything you said, but there is one more thing. Hey, I still have to discuss it with you. Should we go to the old man's home to pay his respects while the old man is not at home?" (End of Chapter)