Chapter 694: Obey your husband when you marry
When a woman marries, she follows her husband, and becomes a member of her husband's family when she goes to her husband's family. She can't just go back to her husband's family if she wants. Most of the time, she drags her family and her family back to her mother's family on the second day of the Lunar New Year.
Even if my mother-in-law's family lives in the same village, there is no chance to go back to her mother's house before dark on New Year's Eve.
As a daughter-in-law, no matter how good a mother-in-law is, the young and old in the family will go to the ancestral hall to worship their ancestors, and the daughter-in-law will always have to do housework and prepare for the New Year's Eve dinner, so there is no way to escape.
Going from Qinghe Village from Hedong to Hexi, if you don't take a shortcut, you have to pass by the end of the village. Zhou Banxia suddenly stood out, especially when there was a maid in front of him and behind him.
"Sanya, let's go back to our parents' house. Your father is smart. Your daughter is getting married right under your nose. The road is very slippery. Please walk carefully."
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"Who am I talking about? It's our Sanya. Slow down, slow down, haha. You're a kid with too many manners. My aunt won't keep you here anymore. Please be careful when you walk and watch more."
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"Mistress, you can't be wrong, she must be Sanya from my second uncle's family. Sister Sanya, my grandma told you to slow down, my grandma said you must have a big fat boy in your belly."
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"It's Sanya, where are you? Look at me, hahaha, I'm not going to drag you into the house to sit for a while. Go back quickly. This kid is always very particular."
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Along the way, Zhou Banxia walked around, talked and laughed, talked a lot, and got a lot of food, the most common of which were croquettes.
Except for Mai Xiang and Ophiopogon japonicus, who also need to protect Zhou Banxia, the rest of the little maids and old ladies are either holding or carrying an earthen basket.
No, she was almost at the door of her house, and the aunts and aunts from the front and left had their girls running over carrying baskets or big bowls.
So enthusiastic.
After walking up the steps and entering the courtyard, Zhou Banxia had the opportunity to wink at Maidong and signal her to go back and bring some snacks and silk flower beads.
"Mom, I'm back."
The concierge announced that her aunt had returned home. Mrs. Li didn't realize for a moment that it was her Sanya who had returned. She wondered why her eldest daughter was back today.
She already has a body, so why don’t she and her husband worry less like Sanya!
"Sanya, is it Sanya, you're back?" Mrs. Li almost thought she had made a mistake, "Your father and brother are all at the ancestral hall right now, what are you doing back?"
That’s what you’re asking!
"Slow down." Zhou Banxia looked at Li with a smile, "I can't miss you, dear mother. Relax, my mother-in-law and sister-in-law asked me to come back and take a look.
There are days when I haven't been home, and I want to come back. Originally, your uncle said he would come with me in the afternoon, but I thought it would be better to come earlier so that I could stay with you for a while longer.
When your daughter-in-law comes in later, my daughter will no longer be popular. Why don't I take advantage of these two years to run home so that you can love me more. ”
"Be early, Dajiang is only fifteen during the Chinese New Year, so they have to get married at eighteen. Besides, I don't know where my daughter-in-law is, and she might not get along with my mother even if I find her."
"No." Zhou Banxia took Li's arm and walked to the upper room, laughing softly, "Dajiang has already said that he won't marry anyone who doesn't get along with you.
When we choose a wife for Dajiang, we must first make you and my father happy, especially you. The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along longer, and we are looking for an eldest daughter-in-law, so how can we not put you first? ”
That being said, the son is too old to be controlled by his mother. Didn't your father-in-law make a fuss about marrying your mother-in-law in the first place? How can I, the mother, go against your brother?
Considering that there was a group of maids and women nearby, Mrs. Li endured it. In the end, she still refrained from saying anything and shook her head, "Your brother can just like it.
Your father and I have the same idea. As long as the family tradition is upright and the girl's family is devoted to living with your brother, I will treat her as my own daughter. "No!
My father has a very high reputation for saying this. If you want to treat your daughter-in-law as a daughter-in-law, I will be scared to death. It would be better to say that your daughter-in-law is not a daughter-in-law, one comes in and one goes out.
You are your own family when you come in. The one who can stay with you for a long time is not your daughter, but your daughter-in-law. The one who will not force your son to marry must be the daughter-in-law who can give birth to grandchildren.
"What are you laughing at?"
Mrs. Li had just noticed that the maid and her mother-in-law were carrying something and a basket of earth. She was about to turn around and ask her daughter who gave it to her, when she saw her Sanya having fun.
"Well said!" Zhou Banxia quickly boasted, "My mother is sensible. With a good mother-in-law like you, our family can thrive for at least three generations."
Or her Sanya can talk.
Much to hear!
Mrs. Li smiled proudly, and suddenly remembered that she had promised her child's father not to be too arrogant last night, so she had to hold back her laughter and put on a posture, and replied in a leisurely manner.
"What should I say? I have experienced how painful it is to have an evil mother-in-law. When I become a mother-in-law, I won't let myself be as vicious as her.
Your father used to be so filial, but it made your father wish he wasn't born by her. She doesn't feel sorry for her son, but my mother only has two sons, how can I let your brother not want my mother?
Besides, it’s not easy for our family to have such a good life today. I don’t know how much hardship you have endured. No matter how hard your mother’s brain works, how can I let my daughter’s hard work be in vain?
Why don't you just wake up early and think about your brother's support for the family? As long as your sister-in-law can live a normal life and isn't a troublemaker, I will learn more from your mother-in-law.
Even if you can't make your mother-in-law smile from ear to ear when she sees you and make your life smooth, your mother will treat her daughter-in-law well and treat her as one of her own family members.
Anyway, if Mom hadn't done something wrong, you would still be able to let Mom be bullied by your sister-in-law right under Mom's nose. Even if Mom doesn't believe it, your brother will believe that you won't let Mom be upset. ”
very good!
Now that I understand, I don’t want to waste your daughter’s life in vain. I have a big belly but don’t feel relieved and want to come, “I’m sure, you are my biological mother.
I can't bear to let you be wronged, but I also want to make you feel cowardly? What's more, what our family is looking for is definitely a good child, so how can we not look for him carefully. ”
With that said, Zhou Banxia waved her hand back, signaling for Mai Xiang to lead the others to retreat. However, Mai Xiang seemed to have misunderstood her meaning.
Seeing that although the others did not follow him into the hall, he left Mai Xiang to help her take off her cloak. Zhou Banxia thought about it and refused to let her go down.
In fact, her mother was still there, her biological mother, in the main room of her parents' house, so there was no need for the four of them to stay together.
"My mother and I are sitting on the other side. The other end is warm and the brazier is close to each other. When it comes to searching hard so that your father won't hear, in fact, my mother thinks that Sister Lian from Dr. Lin's family is very good."
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Li's last words were whispered into her daughter's ear. Zhou Banxia couldn't help being startled when she heard the words, and turned her head to glance at Mai Xiang.
Mai Xiang knowingly avoided the door and stood guard, as if waiting for the maid to serve tea.
"Mom, have you fallen in love with Sister Lian?"
"Whoever the mother likes belongs to the other person. When will Dr. Lin's family bring a husband to the door, and the mother still likes sister Hui?
Mom just feels that if Dr. Lin and his wife don't mind marrying our family, their sister and son are more or less half-doctors, and Dajiang is weak, so that's just right. ”
It's my mother-in-law!
This was not her initial thought. Zhou Banxia covered her face and smiled, "Then why don't you want Dajiang to be an official in the future? Wouldn't Sister Hui be better?"