Chapter 290 Your lack of firmness cooperates with my wandering
"@strategist, if you are a girl, how should you get out of singles?"
Lin Feng: "Have you noticed a phenomenon? If a girl is single, her female friends who are particularly good with her are basically single.
So this leads to a group of widows and hordes of widows.
Then you have to take some measures at this time and use some means.
I suggest holding a small meeting quickly to select a representative and focus on cultivating him for a period of time.
Then let her go fishing.
If it succeeds, bring back the experience and technology and popularize it,
Slowly, friends introduced friends, partners introduced partners, and they all became single.
So it's about one person going out first and then bringing it in.
First help those who get out of singles, then those who get out of singles, and slowly achieve the great goal of getting out of singles together.
Otherwise, how can we fix it?
Are we just going to stay together in groups like this?
That's not an option either.
Sometimes you are quite hungry, right?
Then isn’t that what good friends have to do at critical moments?
So don't wait any longer, go to a small meeting and elect a representative.
Take action now! ”
. . . . . .
On the barrage.
"First help those who are single, and then those who are single, and slowly we can achieve the great goal of being single together..."
"No brother, you want big rural reforms (grin)"
"Ah? Why does it sound so familiar to me? You just passed it on your back (covering face)."
"Bring in, go out, package the film system, and achieve full independence (dog head)."
"Hahahaha this is the route!"
"But why do all my friends have partners, but I don't (cry to death)."
"Immediately ask them now, why don't they share their experience? Why don't they help the poor?"
I am helping the poor!
Hahahahaha.
. . . . . .
Lin Feng: "Brothers, don't always think about taking shortcuts. Just sit in my live broadcast room and watch for one night, and you will understand everything.
What more tricks do you need?
Okay,
Next one.
Ding~
"Good military advisor!"
It's a girl.
Lin Feng: "Hello sister, do you have any questions?"
Girl: "I have been dating a boyfriend for more than half a year, but none of my best friends like him. Do I want to break up with him?"
Lin Feng smiled: "I don't know if your best friend likes him or not. I only know that if your best friend likes him, you can score."
? ?
The girl was confused.
Lin Feng: "Is it okay for three of us to wait together?"
Well. . .
. . . . . .
On the barrage.
"Is it okay for three people to wait regardless? Hahahaha."
"When the military advisor said the first sentence, my brain immediately shut down (laughing to death)."
"Me too, my best friend doesn't like to break up, but if she does, she wants to break up. It's so hahahaha."
"Then the question is, if your best friend doesn't like your parents, should you cut off the relationship with your parents (dog head)."
"I'll definitely break off the relationship. I don't want anything (sunglasses) that my bestie doesn't like."
"So...Is this why you like to call your boyfriend daddy? (Raise eyebrows)."
I am wary,
The loop is closed!
Hahahahaha.
. . . . . .
Lin Feng: "Just kidding, sister, what I want to say is that it is too difficult to be your boyfriend. Not only do you have to like it, but also all the friends around you like it, then he is not RMB."
The girl was silent for a moment and said: "Their starting point may indeed be based on reality."
Lin Feng: "Then they will introduce you to a good one, or find you a reliable one, but there is none, right?
Your mother objects to it every day, as if they object to whoever lives with you.
Then you are single, go with them. ”
. . . . . .
On the barrage.
"So before you fall in love, you must think clearly whether you are dating him or your friend is dating him?"
“My ex’s best friend is like this, instigating our relationship every day (so disgusting).”
"If a man dares to say something bad about his brother's girlfriend, he will be pushed to the ground and beaten."
Hahaha so true.
"Girlfriend: I hope you live well, but you can't live better than me."
"It's very realistic. It's happier to wish others misfortune than to get rich yourself."
"Is that a best friend? That's a turtle honey."
Hahahahaha.
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Girl: "They all said that, and I thought I might be affected."
Lin Feng knocked on the small blackboard and said: "Sister, please don't talk about this. I can shake you with just two words. In essence, your love is not firm.
Rather than saying that others have shaken your mind, it is better to say that others have verified your opinion of them.
I’ll give you a lyric: Your lack of firmness matches my wanderings. ”
. . . . . .
On the barrage.
I knock!
One word awakens the dreamer!
"You think it is others who have shaken her mind, but in fact it is her love that is not firm in the first place (crying to death)."
"Those who can understand the lyrics of this sentence are still bleeding from the gauze, right? (Dog Head)"
"There is no bandage at all, so why not go ahead with the injury? (Sunglasses)"
"Without displacement, who would have remained consistent!"
Well said!
. . . . . . Lin Feng: "Sister, if you consider practical issues, for example, his financial situation is a little worse, and you think it is impossible for me to spend the rest of my life with you,
Then I will explain it to you directly and then say goodbay.
Adults can break up.
But don’t say that my best friend doesn’t like you. Everyone around me is against it. Who is your best friend? She objects to the use of chicken feathers,
Do you, as big as you, not even have a sense of autonomy? ”
The girl was silent for a while and said: "Actually, I was very firm at first, but later I wavered because in the process of getting along with him, I think it was his personality and attitude..."
Lin Feng: "Stop it, these two things you said are the most false.
character?
Wasn't he like this when you first got together?
This is his character!
Why can't I accept someone who I could love to death in the past?
To put it bluntly, the novelty is gone, so I start to weigh the pros and cons.
As for attitude,
It’s even more fantasy!
When I love you, it's called complementarity; when I don't love you, it's called incompatibility.
Don't you think it's ridiculous? ”
. . . . . .
On the barrage.
"The attitude is even more fantasy... Hahaha, this anchor is so funny."
"It's not only humorous, but also very reasonable."
"Really, when I love you it's called complementarity, when I don't love you it's called incompatibility, absolutely! (Thumbs up)."
"Just this sentence, this anchor has 100,000+, I am not jealous at all."
"He really has something!"
. . . . .
Girl: "Actually, we have broken up for two days now, and I didn't say why I was going to pester him."
Lin Feng: "That's good. Now that we've broken up, don't provoke others.
To put it harshly,
How many good people can you have around you?
It’s okay to criticize others for this or that, because they are good people.
Now your relationship is broken up by them.
After that, when you get married, will they say that your husband is not good and you also want a divorce? ”
Girl: “But when they said it, it felt like they were standing in my shoes and thinking about me.”
Lin Feng laughed angrily: "What are you thinking about, sister?
If I really think about you, I shouldn't say this.
What is a friend?
We eat and drink together occasionally. When you are happy, I am happy for you, and when you are sad, I comfort you.
Provide only emotional value and less advice.
This is called a true friend.
The kind of person who wants to say a few words about everything he sees and wants to give some advice when he hears everything. In essence, he is not standing in your position.
We say that dictating other people's lives is a kind of disrespect in itself.
And are their outputs really good for you?
Not necessarily.
Is it possible that many people just have no sense of boundaries?
Or maybe she just has a bad mouth and likes to tease others behind their backs?
Or maybe her bad words are just because there are some problems with your boyfriend that she doesn't like?
Or maybe she is simply jealous of you and doesn't want you to have a good life?
Sister, have you ever considered this? ”
Girl: "Maybe I just don't have a clear mind."
Lin Feng nodded: "You are indeed unclear. In the past few years, we have been emphasizing that families should be democratic and children should be free.
It is said that parents cannot control their children, and children must have their own thoughts and personality.
He's only been away from his parents for a few years, and he's being controlled by his best friend again.
I'm convinced too!
Why?
Can't girls have a sense of autonomy? Do they have to find someone to control you?
Then if you want to look for it, find something better.
Is your best friend more knowledgeable than you, more knowledgeable than you, or has more emotional experience than you?
Is she living a happy life?
Does her boyfriend love her?
Does she love her boyfriend?
If she herself doesn’t understand what love is, what tolerance is, and what it means to go both ways,
In her shallow understanding, she felt that girls should be pampered and loved unconditionally by boys.
So tell me, do all her suggestions have any reference value?
Forget it,
Not to mention love.
Don’t tell your girlfriends whether they understand this thing, you may have a hard time.
Don’t talk about love,
Let’s be realistic.
If you listen to your parents, even if you make the wrong choice, your parents can still support you, and at least they can provide you with material support.
Can your bestie?
You ask them, I heard you broke up, if I never meet someone better in the future, can you support me?
See how they answer you? ”
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On the barrage.
Damn it!
"This anchor speaks clearly!"
"Does my best friend know what love is? Do you know what tolerance is? Do you know what it means to go in both directions?... Damn! This wave of three consecutive questions just blew my heavenly spirit cap open (confused)."
"The meaning is that no matter whether my best friend has good intentions or not, if she is not a person who understands love, then her advice has no reference value!"
“It’s an angle I’ve never thought about (shocked).”
"This thinking is too advanced! (Niubi)"
"Back off! Back off everyone! Let my girlfriend see first!!"
"This is the positive energy of society (thumbs up)."
"All men stand up and salute this big brother."
"Don't be in a hurry to salute, let me ask first, you just asked us to step back, and you didn't @ your girlfriend?"
"Do you think I haven't lived enough (grin)"
Damn you,
Hahahahaha.
(End of chapter)