Chapter 4320 Experience it for yourself
"As a married eldest sister, I don’t know how many times I have been run against by my sister-in-law when I went back to my parents’ home. Mother, you don’t even dare to support me from my sister-in-law. Is that possible? I still have to go to my husband’s house in Yangzhou to support me. ”
Zuo Yingchun’s words left Yingchun Niang speechless at the moment. Thousands of words were piled up in her throat, unable to come out or go down. At the end, her face was filled with tears. After eating the purple eggplant, I could only raise my hands to cover my face with a handkerchief and cry.
Zuo Yingchun turned around irritably and said to Mrs. Zuo and Yang Ruoqing: "Crying is the last thing that can solve the problem. My mother is such a person. She was greedy for the money and betrothal gifts from Yangzhou. , urgently want me to marry you,"
"If you follow my In my own opinion, even if my cousin Junmo doesn’t like me, I won’t marry far away. I just want to find a well-matched family in Huguang County to marry. What about the third young lady of a wealthy businessman in Yangzhou, or what about a maid who goes out? I don’t care about the group of children, I really don’t care about them!”
Yang Ruoqing nodded: "We girls, it's best not to marry too far away. Your original idea was correct."
Perhaps some girls will say that fate is linked by a thin thread, as long as we love each other, we will be together. So what if he goes far away?
Home is where there is love. With him, everything is enough.
For this statement, Yang Ruoqing could only smile.
Some things you don’t understand when you are young, but when you get a little older, you will naturally understand them.
I understand why your mother tried so hard to prevent you from marrying far away. She didn't really want to break up the couple and break up the lovers. What your mother considered was that after you married far away and became a mother yourself, you would naturally Understood.
No matter how much others say, you can't listen. You have to experience it yourself.
If you are married far away, and the man you meet regards you as a treasure, and your family has a comfortable life, and your children are complete, cute and healthy, then you are very lucky.
But if that man doesn’t care for you as much as before after marriage, the financial conditions are tight, and the people around you are ostracizing you.
Your natal family is thousands of miles away. Every time you quarrel with a man and open the door to find that you have nowhere to go, you will regret your original choice.
Okay, let’s go too far. While listening to Zuo Yingchun’s experience, Yang Ruoqing took a sip of tea, pulled back her thoughts, and continued to be a quiet listener.
Zuo Yingchun said to Mrs. Zuo: "Aunt, I am really ashamed today. My niece came back only five or six years ago to pay you New Year greetings, but she made her cry and cry. It is very unlucky and also causes trouble for you. Got it , the niece felt very ashamed...
Mrs. Zuo waved her hands and smiled lovingly: "Silly boy, although you and I are aunt and nephew, you have grown up beside me since you were a child. I treat you like My daughter comes to see it. "
"Now that you are not living your life as you wish in your husband's house, my aunt is not feeling happy either. She looks at your bloated face and becomes anxious. Dad Doudou is sick, what is it? Do you need to see a doctor to diagnose your problem? ”
Hearing this, Yang Ruoqing also focused her attention on Zuo Yingchun again.
Zuo Yingchun is indeed a little swollen, with a greenish tint under his eyelids and chloasma on his face. He may have an endocrine disorder and menopause may come early.
The whole delicate flower looks like it is about to wither.
Zuo Yingchun shook her head: "I don't need it. I know my own situation. As for Doudaddy's illness, each doctor has a different theory. My parents-in-law may know it, but they don't know it here. Tell the truth."
"Your parents-in-law are really selfish. You are the daughter-in-law, and you have to rely on your husband to survive! How can I hide this from you?" Mrs. Zuo said a little angrily. Zuo Yingchun looked sad: "Although Doudou's dad was fooling around with men when we first got married, he has been pretty good to us mother and daughter in the past two years, and I don't want him to die young. But if he really dies of illness, then we, the two of us, will Life is really sad.”
Mrs. Zuo said: "In such a wealthy family, it will be difficult for you to gain a foothold in the house if a man doesn't support you and make the decision. The maids and servants are all human beings, and they only have to look at the chopsticks to order the food."
"If a man is If they leave, then the orphans and widows left in this room will really How pitiful.”
“For some mean people, it’s not surprising to be kicked out!”
“Stop crying, what’s the use of crying? You two need to think about it sooner!” This is the best way!" Mrs. Zuo said this to Yingchun Niang.
Yingchun Niang stopped crying and looked at Mrs. Zuo: "My daughter is having a hard time, and I am definitely not happy as a mother. However, my in-laws are also famous in Yangzhou. A wealthy family with the same surname.”
"I won't hide it from you, sister. When I was not married, my family and their family were related to each other. Although they were the same family and cousins, to put it bluntly, my mother's family and my cousin's family were from the same family. During the holidays, we rely on catching the autumn wind to make ends meet.”
"So when they came to my place and said that the two families were getting married, I seemed to see pie falling from the sky!"
"After a long time, it didn't matter that my uncle had a broken sleeve, he was still a body. Bad short-lived ghost, maybe you can point to your uncle There was something wrong with her that couldn't be cured from the beginning, so my cousin came to me and asked me to marry my daughter off. This must be the case."
Mrs. Zuo was so angry that she raised her hand! The tea bowl inside hit the table with a heavy thump, "Let you I’m thinking of ways to think of you, I didn’t want you to curse me like this!”
Yang Ruoqing couldn’t help but said: “Yes, now that the rice has been cooked, we have to look to the future, not the future! Go and pursue your previous mistakes!”
Zuo Yingchun shook her head: "Don't say that to my mother. If she understood, she wouldn't have forced me to marry far away."
"My own life, my own heart Of course, I have arrangements, so I don’t want to count on my parents anymore,” she said.
“As a woman, what arrangements can you make?” Mrs. Zuo asked again.
Zuo Yingchun said: "I have a dowry. Even if Doudou's father is gone, Doudou and I can still live with that dowry. When I get Doudou old enough, I can let her get a new one. Even if a husband comes to the door, he can hold up the door . "
Mrs. Zuo shook her head: "You are still too young and think of everything too simply. Qing'er, help me talk to her. She is as simple-minded as her mother. .”
Yang Ruoqing's head was covered with black lines.
Zuo Yingchun looked at her expectantly: "Mrs. Luo, my aunt is right. I am just simple-minded and impulsive when I was young. I also regarded you as an imaginary enemy. Now that I think about it, it's me. I misunderstood you, I apologize to you!”
Yang Ruoqing curled her lips: "Forget about the past, I didn't take it to heart at all. But now, your situation is really bad, it's time to think about it."
(End of this chapter)