Chapter 4340 Youth
Yang Ruoqing paused her work, raised her head and looked at Xiaoduo, and said: "Let me tell you this, not to mention that Brother Zuo has high standards for choosing a mate, let's just say Yu On Er's side, Yu'er had already made a vow in front of her parents' spiritual tablets for some special reasons, and she would never get married in this life. "
"Huh?" Xiao Duo opened her eyes in surprise. Big eyes.
"Is there anyone else in this world who would make such a poisonous oath? Could she have difficulties?" Xiaoduo asked again.
Yang Ruoqing said: "Of course there are difficulties, but we can't help, so all we can do is respect Yu'er's choice."
"What's more, Yu'er went out to do business and would not be able to come back until the first lunar month. And after Zuo Zhuangzhu sent the old lady to him, he himself had to leave for Changhuaizhou to do business. The two of them had never met at all, so for this matter, you Just talk about it here, don't mention it elsewhere!" Yang Ruoqing warned carefully.
Although the sound was confusing, Yang Ruoqing's cautious expression made Xiaoduo dare not neglect her. She nodded quickly, did not mention this again, and turned to talk to Yang Ruoqing about picking in the mountains behind the village today. Here comes the plum blossom thing...
"Sister, you know, we are going to pick plum blossoms today... ..."
Yang Ruoqing interrupted Xiaoduo and asked: "How many of you are there?"
Xiaoduo said: "I, Xiaohua, Sister-in-law Huangmao, are you still here? There was Xiaojie, and by the way, I met Mianmian, Xiuxiu, San Yatou and Huahua from Sister Ping'er's house."
Yang Ruoqing was surprised, "My dear, all the girls from our old Yang family and related relatives and friends' families have gathered together. It's so lively just thinking about it!"
Xiao Duo said: "That's right, let's go Once we were in the plum forest, wow, we all felt like fairies from the sky descending to the mortal world. Xiaojie joked that we were the fairies under the Queen Mother in the sky..."
Yang Ruoqing couldn't help but smile.
Among these girls, Huang Mao is the oldest, and they are all mothers.
But even so, Huang Mao is only nineteen, not even twenty.
As for the others, Xiaohua, Xiaoduo and Xiaojie are all seventeen or eighteen.
The three girls, Mian Mian Xiu Xiu, are even younger. The three girls and Huahua are the eldest. After the New Year, they will eat the meal of thirteen years old, but they are not yet thirteen years old.
Mianmian is twelve years old, and Xiuxiu is a little younger than Mianmian...
They are all girls of the same age as Huaguduoer. They are young and the sun is shining.
Listening to Xiao Duo telling interesting stories about when they were picking plum blossoms, Yang Ruoqing could not help but recall that when she had just traveled through time, she was not much different from Mianmian, more than twelve years old...
At that time, Xiaoyu and I often went to the bamboo forest behind the village to dig bamboo shoots to improve food for the family...
At that time, neither of the two little sisters expected their fate and life in the future. environment, at that time, the sky was so high, so blue, and I was so hungry...
At that time, the future had infinite possibilities, and I was full of fantasy and longing for everything!
Now, fourteen years have passed, and she is twenty-six years old and the mother of several children.
My husband is my childhood sweetheart. He is very promising and is a powerful general who protects the country.
He held her in his hands as a treasure...
And Xiao Yu, who was a country girl back then, also married Ning Su, a wishful man, because of fate and her own efforts.
Having given birth to two sons, she is the young lady of the Ning family, a prominent family in Qing'an County. She has no worries about food and clothing, and her husband and wife are loving.
Everyone has achieved a good harvest in love and career!
"Sister, are you listening?" Xiaoduo suddenly raised his hand and waved it twice in front of Yang Ruoqing. Yang Ruoqing suddenly came back to her senses and realized that she was distracted.
She laughed sheepishly and said: "I was so fascinated by what I heard that I couldn't help but think of the time when I was your age and got distracted a little bit. Just keep talking!"
"I asked, does this woman lose weight in the early stages of marriage?" Xiaoduo asked.
Yang Ruoqing said: "Generally speaking, no, you have to be fat. Take me as an example. When I got married to your brother-in-law, I obviously gained three pounds and my face was round. ”
Xiaoduo said: "Then why did Xiaojie lose so much weight? Is it because the Zhang family didn't give her enough to eat? Or her mother-in-law was torturing her so hard that she was left to do all the dirty and hard work alone. ?”
Yang Ruoqing was surprised, "Has Xiaojie lost a lot of weight?"
Xiaoduo said, "That's right, her face used to be round, but now she has a pointed face,"
"We asked her if the Zhang family was not treating her well, and she said no. She said that her parents-in-law treated her well, and they always looked after her and Zhang Ban first when there was anything delicious to eat, and Zhang Ban also let her go. In addition to washing her and Zhang Ban's clothes, She doesn’t even need to do anything for her parents-in-law.”
“Her mother-in-law takes care of the cooking, so Xiaojie doesn’t need to get involved, but she still lost weight.”
< br>Yang Ruoqing said: "Maybe I have changed to a strange environment, and I have to adapt to it. It is a bit tiring. And when it comes to food, after all, I am not as free as I used to be at home. After eating, I just go to the pot to put the rice."
"When you're at your husband's house, you have to be reserved when it comes to eating. You're always 70% to 80% full when you eat, so it's not surprising to lose weight."
Hearing Yang Ruoqing's analysis, Xiaoduo nodded, "That's right. Logically speaking, there is a difference between the mother-in-law’s family and the mother’s family. When a new daughter-in-law comes over, she must not open her belly to eat and drink.”
"You can't fall asleep anytime and anywhere when you want to sleep. You have to hang around and serve your parents-in-law every day. Even if your parents-in-law love you and are reluctant to let you do heavy work, it is because they are polite to you when you first come in."
"But the new daughter-in-law has to be aware of herself, so she will lose weight even if she works hard, right?" Xiaoduo asked again.
Yang Ruoqing nodded: "Yes, children can indeed be taught."
"Even if the new daughter-in-law's natal family is powerful and has a strong background, she can do whatever her husband's family wants after she marries. However, the parents-in-law and husband dare not speak out because of the power of the new daughter-in-law's natal family, so they can only make do with it."< br>
“But in the long run In the past, the relationship between the new daughter-in-law and her uncle must have drifted apart!"
"Since you have married and spent your whole life living with someone else, you must want a harmonious relationship between the couple. Everyone has business "If one party has to compromise due to the power of the other party, is there any real love between the couple? That kind of marriage is meaningless. He will not be your husband, but you. a slave of That’s all!”
“It’s not worth spending your whole life with a slave, so now that you’re married, you should position yourself as a new wife, be filial to your parents-in-law, and be a husband and wife!”
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After Yang Ruoqing finished speaking, she found that Xiaoduo didn't move.
When she turned around, she found that this girl was staring at her dumbfounded.
"What's wrong? What's that expression? Did I trick you?" Yang Ruoqing asked.
Xiaoduo came back to his senses and shook his head like something.
(End of this chapter)