Chapter 4740: Age is weird
"Auntie, there is actually no difference between three days and nine days." Yang Ruoqing said.
"If you are really worried, I suggest you pack two pieces of clothing and go to Zhang's house this afternoon. You go alone, don't make any noise, and won't burden Xiaojie. You stay here. The Zhang family took care of Xiaojie for two or three days and then came back. When the baby takes a bath, do you think it’s okay for us all to go give gifts together?”
Everyone who has given birth knows that whether it is a natural birth or a caesarean section, the most difficult part is The first two or three days.
The wound has not healed, the child has separated from the mother's body, and the body's center of gravity has not been adjusted. Moreover, the child will start drinking milk a few hours after it lands...
At this time, mothers are facing a huge transformation, whether psychologically or physically. This is the time when they need the most care, patient guidance and encouragement.
"You're going this afternoon? It's afternoon, isn't it against the rules?" Da Sun said with some hesitation, but her eyes were very eager.
Yang Ruoqing came over and held Da Sun's hand tightly with her oily hand: "Is the rules more important or Xiao Jie's?"
Da Sun didn't even have to think about it. He said directly: "It must be my Xiaojie who is important!"
Yang Ruo Qing hooked her lips: "That's right. Auntie's afternoon has passed, and Mother Zhang can be free to take care of little Niuniu. Auntie, you can concentrate on accompanying Xiaojie, and there are enough manpower. I believe the Zhang family's parents are aware of this. Reasonable people will only be grateful to you and will not find fault with you!”
Mrs. Sun waved her hand and said, "I don't care what they pick on me. All I want is that Xiaojie is in good health. That's it. I'll go home and pack now, and I'll leave after lunch!"< br>
Sun said: "Sister, you can stay at Zhang's house to take care of Xiaojie for these two days. , I am the one who has to worry about my father and uncle eating and washing."
Da Sun nodded, "Okay, then I will go and tell my father and the others."
The eldest Sun ran away in a hurry, leaving the three Sun sisters in the kitchen.
Mrs. Sun sighed softly and said: "There is an advantage to having a son, that is, you don't have to worry about him suffering. This is the disadvantage of having a daughter. I think when you gave birth to a baby, Qing'er, it was twins. When I gave birth to you, my legs were shaking with fear. I was even more scared than when I gave birth to you three siblings..."
Yang Ruoqing smiled, as the scene of that night seemed to reappear in front of her eyes.
"Mom, actually it doesn't matter if you think about it. God created humans and gave us women the ability to have children. Just like the melons on the vine, the melons ripen and fall off. This is God's arrangement. , so usually nothing goes wrong.”
“Look, I gave birth to twins, and things are going very well now. Although I suffered a lot during the birth, for the sake of the children, I didn’t suffer that much. I'm happy to suffer."
"Besides, during the nearly two months after giving birth, you, my aunt, and my mother-in-law took care of me like an eyeball. I don’t know how much I ate, but my body is stronger than before I gave birth to the baby!”
Hearing Yang Ruoqing’s words, Mrs. Sun looked at her rosy and fair face again and nodded with satisfaction.
Yang Ruoqing continued: "As for what you said about giving birth to a son without worrying about his suffering, that's not entirely true."
"Men do not have to go through the pain of giving birth early in the morning like we women do, but on men's shoulders It’s a heavy responsibility to bear, and it will last a lifetime.”
“In war, men go to the battlefield to test their merit. When the family seeks a way out, it is men who take care of the crops. Men are also the main labor force. "
"In a family, if the man who heads the family collapses, the whole family will collapse. So, It’s actually the same for boys and girls. It’s not easy from the moment we land in this world!” Yang Ruoqing lamented.
These words entered Sun's heart, and she couldn't help but think of her eldest son thousands of miles away, and her youngest son in Qing'an County... "It's not easy, it's not easy for everyone. !" Sun murmured.
“Mom, I’m still saying what I said, I don’t force you to have much success, I just hope that you will be well, safe, have less illness and pain, and live a stable life...”< br>
Yang Ruoqing put her arms around Sun's shoulders and asked Sun to rest her head on her shoulders.
"Mom, don't worry, we will all be fine. You and my dad should always comfort each other and don't worry too much about us. At your age, you should take good care of your own health. The greatest help to our children!”
After noon, Xiaojie’s father came to Yang Huazhong’s house to borrow a carriage and took the eldest Sun directly to the Zhang family in the town.
At sunset, Xiaojie's father came back from town. When he came to return the carriage, Sun and Yang Ruoqing hurriedly asked him about Xiaojie's mother and daughter.
Xiaojie’s father grinned stupidly and said, “I didn’t see Xiaojie, and I couldn’t see how she looked, but I said a few words to her through the door, and her voice must still be weak. Yes, she told me to rest assured and asked me to drive slowly on the way back. "
Sun joked: "A daughter is a daughter, and she still tells your father to drive slowly while lying on the bed. I can't say that Xiaojie is ignorant again."
< br>Xiao Jie’s father scratched his head and laughed.
Yang Ruoqing stretched her neck and asked curiously: "Uncle, can you see the little girl? What does she look like? Does she look like our Xiaojie or Zhang Ban?"
Xiaojie's father stopped scratching his head and thought about it carefully before saying, "I did see my granddaughter. She took her out and gave me a look. She was so small that I couldn't even see her wrinkled face. Which one does it look like, hehe..."
I almost didn’t ask anything. Well, men’s language skills are so lacking!
Yang Ruoqing stepped aside.
Sun said: "You can't see it right now after you are born. You will be able to see it after a while when the eyebrows and facial features grow. Don't worry."
At night. , Old Yangtou was having dinner at Yang Huazhong's house, and Yang Ruoqing also came over with Baby Luo.
At the dinner table, when I heard Mrs. Sun and Yang Ruoqing talking about Xiaojie giving birth to a baby, Old Yang said: "The growth of the past two years is a bit weird. Daughters are more prosperous than sons. Ever since Yongzhi's wife gave birth to a daughter, , Yongqing’s wife also gave birth to a daughter, and now Xiaojie also gave birth to a daughter. I walked around the village and listened to It was said that several wives in the village also gave birth to daughters, what a strange thing!"
Yang Huazhong smiled: "Dad, this may be a coincidence, some of them also gave birth to sons."
Didn't Li Xiuxin give birth to Xiu'er last year? It's just that Xiu'er had a short relationship and left when he was just one year old.
Yang Ruoqing also flashed her eyes. There was something on her lips, but she couldn't say it out loud.
The fetus that Li Xiuxin lost this year was a boy...
(End of this chapter)