Chapter 4875 Be principled in doing things
Xiaohua couldn't help but get a little excited and said: "Duo'er, you're asking a good question. Since the family is separated, there must be rules for dividing the family. "What did Shengnan say?"
Xiaoduo said: "Shengnan naturally swore that the Xiang family was really separated and there was absolutely no deception of our Yang family."< br>
“I Well, since the family is separated, it is a matter of starting a new family over there. They are relatives, just like the relationship between my natal family and my uncles. We have to move around and get close, but we must also have a certain limit. ”
“If we can find an excuse to make a fire together and cook together, why would we just live together together if we have an excuse every day? >
"Since the family is separated, there are rules for dividing the family. You are adopted into your uncle's name. Your uncle does not have to go to your mother's natal family, so naturally we don't have to go to them to pay New Year's greetings after we get married. Move around, unless something big happens with your uncles in the future. , let’s go for a walk, saying that this is okay, and we won’t go for the usual courtesy exchanges and New Year greetings.”
“So today Sheng Nan’s parents took Jin Nan to her parents’ house to pay New Year greetings, and Sheng Nan and I. I went back to my parents’ house to pay New Year greetings, and we have nothing to do with each other,” Xiaoduo said.
I said so many words at once, my mouth was dry.
There were three tea bowls on the small table in front of her. Xiaoduo didn't bother to distinguish who belonged to whom. She took one of the bowls and drank several sips. This is the advantage of being in her mother's family. Xiaohua doesn’t need to distinguish each other here.
Seeing Xiaoduo's appearance, Sun's eyes filled with warmth.
The daughter-in-law who is cold and distant in the eyes of Mr. Sheng is also a well-behaved and considerate daughter of others.
Everyone has two sides, different identities, and different ways of doing things depending on the identity. Mrs. Sun is very glad that she is from her mother's side.
But at the same time, Baozi's grandson was a little dissatisfied with Xiaoduo's approach.
"Duo'er, although you made an agreement before you got married not to go around with Shengnan's uncle, you can go there for New Year's greetings. Usually there are any happy events at home, or visits to the doctor or something like that. There is no need to go, you can go to pay New Year greetings, not to mention you are a bride, it is your first year in the family. , If you don’t go to his uncle’s place, they will definitely think that your wife is strong, arrogant, and has a bad reputation for you.”
Xiaoduo put down the tea bowl in her hand and said to Mrs. Sun: “Mother. , if my sister were at home, she would definitely agree with what I did.”
"Like the relatives from Uncle Katsuo's house, did you forget that we went to give gifts to Katsuo's family when they entered their new house last time?" Relatives, those people are like candies. If Katsuo and I go and provoke them, then they will come swarming over to pay New Year greetings. It’s hard to drive people away if we have no reason to do so, because after New Year’s greetings, they are relatives, and it’s not appropriate to drive away relatives, but if they don’t pay New Year’s greetings, they are not relatives, and they won’t find opportunities to come.”
Xiaohua thought about it for a while and said: "I also agree with Duoer's approach, although it will end up at Uncle Shengnan's house at first. A bad reputation is still beneficial to Duo'er in the long run. This is called cutting through the mess with a quick knife."
"Reputation, in fact, sometimes it's not that important, the main thing is to care about yourself. Live a comfortable life when you get home, just like what my sister often says, no matter how good you are, eight You have a beautiful face. Some people like you, and some people must hate you, so we don’t have to worry too much. It’s best to just follow Duo’er’s own wishes.”
Sun Shi smiled bitterly, “Okay. You three sisters have grown up, and each one has more ideas than the other. I won’t say anything, as long as you live a good life.”
There is really nothing to say. When it comes to being a daughter-in-law, Mrs. Sun is self-aware. I am a failure. I have been living under the control of my mother-in-law for more than ten years. I can't even go back to my parents' home.
If it weren’t for my eldest daughter Qing’er, who worked hard to separate the family and lead them to make a fortune, I’m afraid that I, an old wife in her forties, would still have to carry on. I have to live my life under the fingers of a longevity mother-in-law, and I can't even make a single decision!
Xiaoduo said: "Mom, don't say that, we are all your daughters, and our kindness is all based on yours."
Xiaoduo also smiled and said: " Yes, when I am the daughter-in-law of the Xiang family, I ask myself that I will not be harsh. I will be filial to my uncle, a cattle dealer, and live a good life with Shengnan. My mother taught me these things when I was in my parents' home."
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"But on some things, I have my own plans, especially the matter that Sheng Nan discussed with me. If I retreat, he will advance. If I make concessions from the beginning, then in the future, , I'm afraid it will form a bad habit. It's not that I don't believe that Katsuo is right My sincerity, what I don’t believe is human nature, it’s human nature to push beyond the limits!”
Xiaohua nodded again: “Duo’er is right, I seem to see the shadow of our sister in you.”
Xiaoduo smiled bitterly, "How can I compare with sister? Sister She is more capable than me and has better luck than me. Her brother-in-law loves her to death, and she meets such good mothers-in-law. It is a happy time for the whole family to live together."
"In fact, I also wanted it at the beginning. Be a good, filial and considerate daughter-in-law, be kind to your father and mother, and even I supported Brother Jinnan, but the incident between them and Cui'er later made me feel cold, and it turned out to be like this. This is everyone's fault, and I can't help it!"
Sun and Xiaohua! They all nodded, but that's right. It wasn't just Xiaoduo who felt chilled, they all felt chilled too.
Moreover, the last time Sheng Nan’s father came to the door with a basket of eggs, he wanted to find a leisurely job for Jin Nan in the Taoist temple.
After being rejected by Mrs. Sun, Shengnan’s father didn’t forget to take the basket of eggs with him when he left!
The impression is completely ruined.
"As long as you live a good life with Sheng Nan, that's better than anything else," Sun said with a smile.
"From the current point of view, I still like Shengnan's temperament. He is not talkative and hard-working. He treats you well. Don't bully others. You should be nice to Shengnan, but... Don't be too nice, and remember to be good to yourself. If you are not good to yourself, then he may not be good to you. This is also the way of husband and wife. Mom taught you, and also taught Hua'er, you both Remember it.”
Xiaoduo pursed her lips and smiled.
"Mom, you leave it to me to guard against this Sheng Nan, I understand this. But you teach Hua'er and ask her to let Brother Da'an go? I don't understand this." Xiaoduo joked.
Xiaohua smiled tenderly and said: "Brother Da'an and I are different from you. We are husband and wife and brother and sister. I can treat him well to death because I believe in him."
< br> Mrs. Sun looked at Xiaohua happily and said: "You can say this, mother is very relieved. Da'an is a man after all, and men are outside Doing a lot of things will inevitably make us women feel sad. From the present, it seems that Da'an is doing well in that regard. He is clean and self-respecting. If one day comes, don't worry, my mother will be here. You are the only eldest daughter-in-law in this family. There is no such thing as that!”
(End of this chapter)