Chapter 8571 Heart-to-heart talk between mother and son (Part 2)
"Zhi'er, how can you be so pessimistic? You are both young, so what does it mean to have been treated for three to five years?" Dazhi still shook his head: "Mom, you I don’t understand. Xiao Qiao’s situation is special. The doctor said before that it would be difficult for her to have children even if her body is well-conditioned. "
"How is it possible!" Yang Ruoqing absolutely does not believe this statement, "Now that she has been treated, she is back to normal. She has everything that normal people have, and she can do everything that normal people can do. It can be done, unless..."
After speaking, Yang Ruoqing suddenly thought of something.
She really looked down this time, grabbed Dazhi's arm, and asked him seriously: "Are you hiding anything else from me?"
Dazhi shook his head.
"Don't lie to me like this, mother. I know exactly what you look like when you lie since you were a child!" Yang Ruoqing shouted.
"If you still think that I am your mother and I have given you a favor, just tell me."
"If you don't tell me, then I won't force you. From now on, you Just don’t say anything to me!”
After Yang Ruoqing said this, she turned her face away, deliberately not looking at him.
Seeing that Yang Ruoqing was serious, Dazhi suddenly panicked. His eyes turned red, and he slid off the stool and knelt down beside Yang Ruoqing's legs.
Holding Yang Ruoqing's knees with both hands, she choked and said: "Mom, don't ignore your son, don't want your son!"
Yang Ruoqing felt as if she was stabbed hard by a thorn in her heart. The pain caused her eyebrows to knit together, and she almost hugged Dazhi.
But she endured it.
Not only that, she also pushed Dazhi's hand away and turned her back.
Dazhi knelt in front of Yang Ruoqing and grasped Yang Ruoqing's hand tightly with both hands.
"Mom, it's your son's fault. He shouldn't satisfy you."
"It's just that my son also has his own difficulties. I promised Xiao Qiao that I would not tell her regrets to others. Say, because it's about her reputation, even if she's not. Even if the person my son likes is just an ordinary friend, if someone tells his son this secret, he should keep it a secret for them. I can’t do anything treacherous!”
Hearing what Dazhi said, Yang Ruoqing! Finally turned around again.
She took out her handkerchief and wiped the tears from the corners of Dazhi's eyes, "Remember, a man doesn't shed tears easily, and a man has gold at his knees. Get up and speak!"
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Dazhi was stunned for a moment, then nodded, got up, and stood there in shame.
Yang Ruoqing asked him to sit back on the stool before, and sighed, and said in a low voice: "Okay, my son is a principled person, and my mother is very pleased. What you did is right and deserves praise. , Mom won’t force you to tell Xiao Qiao’s secret.”
Dazhi’s face was moved. Rong, there was also a hint of relief: "Thank you, mother, for your tolerance and understanding."
Yang Ruoqing said again: "I won't force you to question you, and I won't let you destroy your principles, but I can guess, and my guess is close to yours. Just nod, okay?"
Dazhi hesitated and nodded.
Yang Ruoqing changed her sitting position and asked him: "Does Xiao Qiao have other problems, and those problems are related to the difficulties of the heir?"
Dazhi hesitated again and nodded.
Huh...
Yang Ruoqing's heart sank a little, and she had nothing to ask next.
"Zhi'er, let me ask you this, if you married Xiao Qiao, would you be willing to give up children for the sake of her?" Yang Ruoqing asked earnestly.
Dazhi nodded without hesitation, "Mom, I have a different idea. I married her because she and I have similar interests. She understands me and I understand her. I like that kind of tacit understanding." "I married her, It’s because I have someone around me who understands me and can chat with me to relieve my boredom. , can share my joys, sorrows, and joys, so that I will not be lonely.”
“As for whether I have children or not, I don’t care much about it, because I don’t need a childbirth tool.”< br>
Yang Ruoqing was stunned.
Even in modern times, it takes great courage to say this.
This is the feudal era, and Dazhi's thoughts... are very avant-garde!
But at this age, he himself is still a big boy of fifteen or sixteen years old!
Even if he obtains the title of Juren, it can only mean that he has a high IQ, is dedicated to studying, and is diligent.
It does not mean that his plans for life, life, and the future are correct.
"Zhi'er, I used to know a man. He was a very famous actor. He married a woman and swore to the world that he only liked her. Their marriage did not require children. As a result, you Guess what? ”
"What's wrong?" Dazhi asked.
“People’s thoughts will change with the passage of time and changes in age and temperament. At this time, he was serious when he made the declaration, but when decades passed, he was serious at that time. Suddenly he envied other people's children, who had raised children outside without telling his married wife."
"But after so many years, his married wife can no longer have children. In a fit of anger We broke up with him. When he made such an alternative and avant-garde statement, many people gave him mixed reviews, but his repentance many years later also made him the center of attention again and became the target of countless people's curses. "
“Do you think you can keep the promise you made when you were fifteen for the rest of your life?”
Dazhi fell silent and no longer agreed as he did before without thinking.
"Of course, when you marry Xiao Qiao, you don't have to imitate the actor's oath. If you want children, you can take a concubine. But the question is, do you think Xiao Qiao, with his temperament, will agree to let you take a concubine?"
This time, Dazhi was no longer silent. He frowned, but his eyes were firm: "Mom, you are really good at judging people. Xiao Qiao is indeed a character who would rather bend than bend. Taking a concubine is a shame. Absolutely impossible, and besides, I don’t have those extravagant thoughts. I just want to find someone I like and have a family with, and then work hard to gain fame!”
“Very good, you can stop being obsessed with women.” , focus on studying, mother is very happy, your father will definitely be very happy if he knows, our children in the Luo family are not mediocre people!" Yang Ruoqing praised without hesitation.
Dazhi’s gaze became firmer.
But then Yang Ruoqing poured another ladle of cold water on her.
"Even if you pass the Jinshi examination, you want to benefit the people for the government and do something practical to prove your worth, but you have nothing at your knees and a wife who has nothing to do. This alone is enough to make the censor in the emperor's position. I will impeach you a hundred times!”
“Da Qi governs the world with filial piety. Not only will they impeach you, but Xiao Qiao will also be implicated and accused of being unkind and intolerant. At that time, the perfect marriage you want to protect, the person you want to protect and care for, It’s all in vain.”
Dazhi’s face turned pale and shocked, and the hands on his sides were trembling slightly.
After all, he is just a fifteen or sixteen-year-old boy, young and energetic, and what he does every day is to stay in his study and study hard.
Youdao is a scholar who knows everything about the world without going out. He does not read poetry and books, and he pays little attention to external events.
However, he is immature when it comes to the dangerous world and some potential rules in the court.
Yang Ruoqing told him this not to scare him, but to tell him the truth so that he could think more about it when choosing marriage and a partner, and not be blind and impulsive.
This is also her painstaking work as a mother.
Although it was a bit embarrassing, she still had to do it.
(End of this chapter)