Chapter 8637 Thinking
"Meier, please don't say such depressing words. Third brother will tell you this. As parents, we don't live exclusively for our children and grandchildren."
“Life is short In just a few decades, we ourselves have to live happily. Our children and grandchildren will have their own blessings. Let’s do our own thing and leave the rest to God.”
Yang Huazhong came forward and put his hands on it. Yang Huamei touched the back of his head gently.
I am twenty years older than this Yaomei. They say they are brother and sister, but I basically treat her as my daughter and have watched her grow up.
Seeing her like this, he felt... like an old father, really uncomfortable, otherwise he wouldn't have been able to grit his teeth and say he didn't care about her business every time, but in the end he couldn't help but do it.
"There is no obstacle that cannot be overcome, and the same is true for Xiao Hei. Perhaps, this is also a disaster destined for the child, or perhaps it is fate."
Yang Huamei is immersed in her own In frustration, she slowly raised her head after hearing Yang Huazhong's words. Looking at him: "Third brother, what do you mean by this? You don't want Xiao Hei to marry that Xu Qiaohong, right? That's impossible, they have already married!"
Yang Huazhong is a Men, men don’t think like women, they think too much and think far ahead.
Especially when certain things are not completely killed with one shot, there will always be a slight possibility left.
"Mei'er, I can't say it for sure. Qiaohong may not be as easy as Qiaohong. More importantly, we have to consider Xiaohei's feelings. It doesn't matter even if we've been married before. Our Daqi people have open customs and widows can remarry. , if she gets divorced, it’s not impossible to marry her. !”
I don’t know if Yang Huamei listened to Yang Huazhong’s advice or not, but no matter what, she no longer cried or made trouble, and she seemed to be much calmer, sitting there. , holding his temples with his hands, as if thinking.
Seeing this, Yang Huazhong struck while the iron was hot and continued to comfort her: "Today is the Chinese New Year. It is rare that all the children have returned home, and a grandson has been added. A new house has been built this year. Let's make this New Year lively first. After the New Year, we can discuss Xiao Hei’s affairs.”
Yang Huamei thought. After thinking for a while, he nodded, "Third brother, I listen to you. Let's not mention this matter for now. We will talk about it after the New Year." The boy regretted it again and didn’t want to continue with the daughter of the Xu family? Wouldn’t that make me more worry-free?”
Yang Huazhong nodded, "Yes, so there are some things that we can't rush. If we rush, we will get into trouble. Maybe the things that make us scratch our heads right now will be solved after a few days of cooling down."
Yang Huamei He wished that was the case, nodded repeatedly, and even showed a smile that he hadn't seen in the past two days.
Seeing that Yang Huazhong was about to leave, she stood up and said, "Third brother, what about that? I want to tell you that tomorrow is the first day of the Lunar New Year. Will you go out to pay New Year's greetings on the first day of the Lunar New Year?"
Yang Huazhong thought for a while, “In past years, on New Year’s Day, I We didn’t go out in the morning. In the morning, the whole family went to your third sister-in-law’s house to pay New Year greetings. What do you mean? Is it because the eldest grandson came to visit?”
Yang Huamei smiled and nodded, “Yes. Ah, I want to come to you!”
The eldest grandson has visited Tan's house in the east room of the old house since he was one month old. He has not officially visited any of his uncle's houses yet.
Although for some reasons I was carried to the fifth and third bedrooms, and even slept at the third bedroom’s uncle’s house last night, the sense of ritual has not left yet!
And Yang Huamei is a very particular person, so she discussed this with Yang Huazhong eagerly.
"Third brother, we want to go to your house to pay New Year greetings in the morning. It's too early in the morning and I'm afraid that the child won't be able to get up. Moreover, he has to stay up late at night and won't sleep well. I want him to sleep more in the morning. In a while." Yang Huamei discussed with Yang Huazhong again with a smile. Yang Huazhong nodded without thinking: "Okay, then you guys come over in the morning. I will discuss it with your third sister-in-law and the others later in the morning, and go over in the morning to wish the Sun family New Year's greetings."
Naturally, Yang Huamei was most happy with this result, and she clasped her fingers and said to Yang Huazhong: "This is how we arranged this trip, because third brother, you are the oldest brother in my natal family, so I went to your house to pay New Year's greetings on the first day of the first lunar month. Go four in two days Brother’s house, go to the fifth brother’s house on the third day of the lunar month, go to the eldest grandson’s aunt’s house on the fourth day of the lunar month, and see you again on the fifth day of the lunar month.” When Yang Huazhong heard Yang Huamei’s arrangement, he wanted to remind her, that is. When Dabai got married, the fourth bedroom didn't give any gifts.
At that time, because Dabai was fighting with his fourth uncle, Yang Huaming, the fourth room announced that he would not move around with Dabai in the future, but he would still keep moving around with Yang Huamei and Xiao Hei.
Yang Huazhong really wanted to remind Yang Huamei not to arrange this matter unilaterally. The fourth sibling Liu might not agree, but seeing Yang Huamei's happy look, Yang Huazhong couldn't bear to pour cold water on her. .
"Meier, you have arranged it well. However, the third brother still recommends that you go and confirm with your other two sisters-in-law in advance, so as not to let them know when they go out to visit relatives. It's a waste of time." Yang Huazhong couldn't say it directly, so he could only remind him vaguely.
"A waste of time?" Yang Huamei was also a little suspicious.
Yang Huazhong added: "You also know that now the children in each house have grown up, and everyone has gained new relatives. Either the new relatives have come to pay New Year's greetings, or they have gone to visit the new relatives, so It’s safer if you agree in advance!”
Yang Huamei accepted Yang Huazhong’s description very well.
"That's for sure. I'll make some free time later to talk to my fourth brother and my fifth sister-in-law."
"You still have to talk to your fourth sister-in-law." Yang Huazhong reminded again. .
Yang Huamei was stunned for a moment, then curled her lips, "I'll just ask my fourth brother. It's hard for my fourth sister-in-law to shave her head, and it's hard to talk."
Yang Huazhong smiled bitterly, "The male is responsible for the outside and the female is responsible for the cooking. Block thing You have to ask your fourth sister-in-law, your fourth brother is a man.”
“A man is God, the backbone of a family, God has agreed, what else can I do? Sure "The fourth brother and I are siblings. He really loves his nephew and his great-grandnephew. The fourth sister-in-law is a foreigner. I don't even ask her!"
When Yang Huamei said this, he shook his head repeatedly: "Don't think like that, you listened to the third brother right!"
Yang Huamei was thinking about interrogating Xiao Hei and Xu Qiaohong in the hall, and didn't want to get entangled with Yang Huazhong on these topics anymore.
So he said perfunctorily: "Okay, okay, I'll just tell the fourth sister-in-law. Third brother, you go home and do your work first!"
When Yang Huazhong left, he took Lao Yangtou with him by the way. On.
At the same time, he did not forget to say to Mrs. Tan: "Mom, come here for New Year's Eve dinner at night, and I will pick you up then."
Mr. Tan glanced at Old Yang, and said Turning aside: "I won't go. When I see some people's faces that are darker than the bottom of the pot, I will vomit whatever I eat!"
(End of this chapter)