Chapter 10218 Multiple Constraints
As for being annoyed?
That is even more impossible!
Luo Fengtang is not that stupid to be angry with his wife because of the child, because it is simply a matter of being in trouble with himself and making himself uncomfortable.
The reason why he made so many suggestions today was mainly because he felt distressed watching his children being beaten.
If someone else had beaten his youngest son, he would have done nothing.
But the perpetrator is the daughter-in-law, so there is nothing we can do.
"Qing'er, don't be so serious. Just because other people's children are like that doesn't mean our children are like that."
"No matter what, I'm still very optimistic about it. Our two children are good-natured children, but they are a bit greedy! It’s just a little naughty!”
Yang Ruoqing said: “I admit what you said, the two little guys are good-natured, but people in this world are inherently good, even my cousin Yang Yongxian. , he used to be a scholar with a strong sense of justice.”
"There are also Dabai and Xiaohei. We have watched their brothers grow up. When they were young, one of them was clever and could always say things that adults couldn't say. He was regarded as a child prodigy by my aunt and the others!"
< br>“There is also a tiger-headed guy with a tiger-like brain. He is very lovable just by his appearance, and he is also everyone’s happy baby.”
“So all kinds of pampering and flattery are given to Dabai Hei said hello, but what happened in the end? The sapling grew crookedly, and it was too late to correct it in the end! The children are also twins, two boys.”
“Tuantuan has a quiet personality, but likes to observe more, and is more intelligent than Yuanyuan.”
"Early wisdom is a good thing, but it's not a good thing. It depends on how we guide and restrain it!"
"As for Yuanyuan, he actually doesn't have as many tricks as Tuan Tuan."
"But Yuan Yuan Yuan is easy to be used as a gun, so be careful. Think about it, have you ever had that kind of thing happen when the two of you were together?"
After Yang Ruoqing reminded him, Luo Fengtang carefully thought back to the time when he returned to the village and what he had done with his two children. Living together, touching, seeing with the eyes and hearing with the ears.
“As a father, it’s not easy for me to judge whether Tuantuan is too conceited or not.”
"But I know that, for example, Tuantuan wants something, and Yuanyuan happens to want it too. Maybe the impulse that Yuanyuan wants is not as strong as Tuantuan, but Tuantuan will find ways to encourage Yuanyuan and let Yuanyuan want it." Yuanyuan took the initiative to say that she wanted that thing."
"Similar things happened more than once or twice."< br>
Yang Ruoqing snapped her fingers: "So, these two children have to be corrected at any time. If they don't correct themselves a little bit, they will both run wildly on their own paths and develop wildly. When the time comes, they will be dragged away. You can’t even come back!”
In Yang Ruoqing’s view, the way of raising boys and girls needs to be adjusted.
When I raised Baby Luo in the past, I was more lenient with her and not very restrictive. As long as it was something she liked to do and eat, as long as it was not excessive, her wishes would come true.
That's because she is a girl and wants to rebuild her courage and courage, and expand her horizons and structure.
There is no need to cultivate hard-working people, because as a girl of the Luo family, as long as she does not commit suicide, she is destined to basically never suffer hardship in this life, and she will always have good food and clothing.
But for the boys of the Luo family, it is different.
Boys, it is your shoulders to take on small families, big families, and even more and heavier responsibilities. You have to protect your wife and children, you have to protect your family and parents, and you have to stand firm in this world by your own abilities.
Therefore, for boys, it is necessary to sharpen their minds from an early age.
The warmth of the family and the upbringing without worries about food and clothing are the most basic prerequisites. In addition, we must also strengthen education and not be doting. The more doting you do, the more sissy you will be, otherwise you will become a mama's boy.
“The most important thing is,” Yang Ruoqing then told Luo Fengtang, “the reason why I don’t give Yuanyuan lunch is because I don’t want him to eat too much and stuff himself. ”
“For breakfast in the morning, I brought him food with my own hands. Fried rice, egg noodles, poached eggs, hard-boiled eggs, and six steamed dumplings, a small half bowl of vegetables..."
"To be honest, this is really enough for a one and a half year old child. I must not eat it anymore, my stomach will be damaged if I continue to eat it.”
"Besides, we are still celebrating the New Year today, and the New Year's Eve dinner will definitely be a big table of food, with chicken, duck, fish, meat, all kinds of oil and meat."
"And for those who are celebrating the New Year, I have to give them something less. Let the children dip the tips of their chopsticks into some rice wine and fruit wine to taste it.”
“Do you think his little stomach can handle it? It will cause indigestion and big stomach problems.” New Year's Eve You still have to go to the hospital. Don’t worry about it. The key is that the child will suffer the consequences, Tangyazi, don’t you think so?”
Luo Fengtang nodded repeatedly, “Qing’er, you are absolutely right. That’s right.”
“For a child, sometimes it’s better to be hungry, not to mention that he has eaten so much that he can’t be hungry.”
In this case, the couple stopped worrying about this matter and went to work quickly.
Posting couplets, cleaning up the house, etc. Later, I have to go to the ancestral hall to burn incense, and to worship at the Tutu Temple in the south of the village. There are a lot of things.
Then Yang Ruoqing had to make arrangements to give the two little ones a bath, so that they could put on new clothes for the New Year.
Otherwise, I won’t have time to do that when I’m running around at night to say New Year greetings.
The small second bedroom across the road.
Cao Bamei and Xiuhong were also busy preparing for the New Year's Eve dinner in the kitchen, while Yang Yongjin, Yang Yongqing and Yang Yongzhi were posting couplets in the yard.
The brothers sat together and made calculations three years ago, although the eldest brother...right?
However, as brothers, the eldest brother is ruthless, but they cannot be unjust.
So they plan to celebrate the Chinese New Year this year. Instead of pasting red festive couplets, they will replace them with green ones.
Green is very particular in this area. Whenever there is a funeral at home this year, couplets of this color will be posted on the door.
This is a way to mourn the loss of loved ones.
At this moment, the brothers are helping to stick up in the yard. There is no laughter and laughter among everyone, and they are doing all this in silence.
However, the children did not understand and still enjoyed the New Year atmosphere. Several children ran around in the yard, shouting and yelling.
This scene couldn't help but remind the brothers of their childhood. During the Chinese New Year, the old Yang family had not yet been separated, their father was still alive, and the eldest brother was still a motivated scholar...
In the end, Yang Yongjin came out to speak: "Don't think so much. Everything is fate. There is no other way. Cheer up. Today is the New Year!"
(End of this chapter)