Chapter 10553
Wanghai County, Changping Village.
Afternoon, Luo family.
Yang Huaming came to visit, and Blacksmith Luo received him.
The two of them were sitting in the ventilated and cool hall, watching the white sunbeams shining on the bluestone floor in the Luo family's front yard. The stone slabs reflected a layer of dazzling white light.
In the afternoon like this, many villagers in Changping Village stayed at home and did not dare to go out to work, because this time is the hottest time of the day.
"Hey, brother blacksmith, life is difficult. There are some things that you have to pay back later!"
Hearing Yang Huaming sigh, Blacksmith Luo was a little puzzled.
"Why do you have to pay back the debt later? As far as I know, you saved all the money to build your four-bedroom house by yourself, and you didn't pay a penny of foreign debt!"
Yang Huaming waved his hand, "It's not a foreign debt, it's a love debt."
Love debt?
Now Blacksmith Luo was even more puzzled. Not only was he puzzled, he also looked at Yang Huaming, with an expression of disapproval and even condemnation gradually appearing on his face.
"Fourth, you shouldn't say this casually. You are no better than a young man in his early twenties who is about to become a grandpa. You must be steady and don't provoke those who shouldn't be provoked..."
When Yang Huaming was young, because of his good looks, he was one of the most handsome boys in Changping Village and even Shiliba Village.
In addition, the old Yang family has many brothers and a strong population. No matter whether they are working in the fields or arguing with other people in the village, the old Yang family has many brothers, and their momentum can intimidate people.
Therefore, Yang Huaming was very popular in the village. Not only did he have a lot of playmates around him, but all the older girls and younger wives in the village also liked to get close to him.
He was a promiscuous person, which caused many young couples to quarrel and fight, but he himself stayed away from the incident, neither admitting nor denying it, and just went along with it without anyone getting caught. People hated him so much that they couldn't vent it.
Blacksmith Luo knows all these things, so he reminds me like this.
Yang Huaming shook his head, looking like his intestines were green with regret.
“Brother blacksmith, my old brother, I have washed my hands in a golden basin a long time ago!”
"Just wash your hands in the golden basin!" Blacksmith Luo said.
"Then why did you say you owed a love debt?" Blacksmith Luo asked again.
Yang Huaming said: "When I was young, I provoked others, and I didn't know how many tears I made from young ladies and young daughters-in-law."
"At that time, I was young and energetic, a little arrogant, and ignorant. Ah, I don’t know that these things will be repaid in the end.”
“If it’s not on me, it’s on my children.”
When Blacksmith Luo heard this, he thought of He'er's infatuation with Li Laoer, and suddenly understood what Yang Huaming wanted to express.
"Don't think too much about it, old four. There is no retribution. He'er is sick due to the cold. There is no fight with that..."
Yang Huaming shook his head again, "Blacksmith Brother, for the sake of this, I’ll just tell you the truth!” , purely because of Li Laoer, he deliberately abused himself, took cold showers, stayed up in the middle of the night and sat outside all night, which made him sick!"
"And yesterday I sent Wang Sheng out! , Wangsheng told me privately that if this medicine doesn’t work, let me think of other methods.”
"I'm afraid this girl is suffering from lovesickness. Heart ailments need to be cured by heart medicine! Oh, it's so sad!"
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While having dinner, Blacksmith Luo had no choice but to relay the contents of his chat with Yang Huaming during the day to his wife and niece-in-law at home.
Wang Cuilian heard that He'er might be suffering from lovesickness. At that time, her face turned pale and her mouth was so surprised that she couldn't close her mouth. She even forgot to put the cabbage vermicelli on the head of her chopsticks into her mouth. And Yang Ruoqing was also dumbfounded.
"If it's really lovesick, it would be a bit troublesome." Yang Ruoqing said.
To put it in modern terms, this is a paranoid personality who gets into trouble after suffering emotional setbacks and loses interest in daily life, study and work. Finally, he commits some self-mutilation under the dominance of such turbulent emotions. behavior.
The initial self-mutilation behavior may be to attract the other person's attention to oneself, so as to continue to obtain the warmth and love from the other person.
In the middle and later stages, this kind of self-mutilation may be a denial and rejection of the self.
I feel that I am not good enough or outstanding enough, so I cannot attract the attention of others.
Then I became very angry. The angrier I became, the more I liked to make fuss about myself, making myself black and blue. I was drunk and dreaming of this kind of pain, and I was in a trance.
In serious cases, you may even go crazy.
He became crazy from then on.
Even, commit suicide.
“There are two girls in our village who are crazy because of this.” Wang Cuilian finally recovered from the shock and found her voice.
"There is a girl who is not too crazy. She sits at the entrance of the village and talks to herself every day. She always likes to wear flowers on her head and dreams about being a bride."
About this madman, Yang Ruoqing, of course I have the impression that the other person is about the same age as Xiaohua Xiaoduo.
Several attempts to get married failed, and one time they both left the government. Halfway through, the wedding parties from the two families quarreled over the bride price and dowry.
In the end, the man who was welcoming the bride stopped accepting the bride, and the woman who was sending her the bride also stopped seeing her off. People on both sides withdrew, leaving her, the bride, standing in the middle of the road crying.
She has been a little crazy since then. The only reason is that her parents are too calculating about money. From the engagement to the wedding, they have been whispering in the girl's ear almost every day for the three melons and two dates. The invisible mental pressure will sooner or later overwhelm these girls who have never been to school since childhood and have never escaped from their original families.
It would be weird if you weren't crazy.
Another female madman, Yang Ruoqing, also had some impressions. She was a few years older than Yang Ruoqing. It was said that she was close to her childhood sweetheart's cousin, but the two families firmly disagreed.
The two made an appointment to elope, but their plan was revealed and they were caught up by two families halfway.
Both families are very conservative and old-fashioned people. After catching them, they were locked up in their clan's small ancestral hall and detained separately.
As a result, one of the guards, a man from his clan, was an old bachelor, and he became lustful when he saw the girl's messy clothes tied up with ropes.
The girl was ruined by the guarding relative.
Later, her childhood sweetheart’s cousin took a hatchet and chopped the relative of the family.
My cousin was arrested by the government and imprisoned for three years.
Originally the girl wanted to wait for the boy to come out, but within half a year the boy died of illness in prison.
The girl also planned to sell her to the mountains, but as a result, the girl went crazy.
She went completely crazy, stripping off her clothes and running around the village. Her family locked her in the woodshed and prohibited her from going out to make her look embarrassed.
One year when farming was busy, her family didn’t watch her and she ran away.
She ran away for three months, and her family thought she was dead.
(End of this chapter)