Chapter 10711
“Even Qing’er’s mother admitted frankly this time that the new house built by the Wang family was almost made up of the houses of our old Yang family!”
“The coffin of the second elder” , which filled the holes for Meier one after another."
"Every time the two elders said, This is my coffin book, but why don’t we make up for it again afterwards?”
“So I’m going to say something bad, our brothers from the Yang family, especially the third family leader. , the sporadic financial subsidies over the years have been used to support Meier’s marriage several times!”
"So this time she remarried Xu Yuanming. I don't care what other people do. Anyway, our four-bedroom house will not pay a dowry of one cent!" I brought two pieces of cloth to add makeup.”
“ If the second elder and Meier dislike the shabby appearance of our fourth bedroom, then that’s fine, we won’t show up and won’t drink from her at the wedding. That’s fine!” Come on!" Blacksmith Luo patted Yang Huaming's shoulder considerately to indicate that he was not too excited.
However, Yang Huaming could not calm down for a long time.
"Brother Blacksmith, I'm really not excited. These are all from my heart!"
When the topic comes to these old Yangtou and Tan family, they go to Mingli with the money and belongings paid filial piety by the children and grandchildren of the old Yang family. When secretly commenting on Yang Huamei's topic, Tiejiang Luo, as an outsider, could not participate in this topic.
At this time, Yang Ruoqing spoke again: "Fourth uncle, see through but don't tell the truth. In fact, everyone turns a blind eye to these things,"
"Because you guys What I think about is that the two elders are already at this age, and they are not going to shed their skins in the world after eating the longevity grass.” That’s it.”
"Yes, Qing'er, your idea is also what we have always thought. We don't care about that little thing. If Xiaojing goes out, it belongs to your grandparents. We won't ask them to get it back. Let them arrange it as they please!" Yang Huaming also said.
"But," Yang Ruoqing changed her mind, "if my aunt gets married and my grandpa wants everyone to contribute to the dowry, then I'm sorry, but I can reject this request on behalf of the third room."
"This is moral kidnapping, it doesn't exist at all. Our third wife can add some dowry appropriately, but we will never collect dowry."
To add dowry, you can do it according to your ability, it can be a piece of cloth, or It's a pair of shoes.
If your friendship is good and your financial conditions permit, you can also provide money to the other party to keep the bottom of the box.
But collecting the dowry is a heavy task. Unless they are the bride's direct parents, there are no other brothers and sisters.
Unless her parents are gone, the bride will live with her elder brother and sister-in-law as a daughter in her parents' family. The eldest brother is the father, and it is her first marriage. Then her elder brother and sister-in-law will have to collect a dowry for her.
For examples of this, you can refer to Cao Bamei and Xiaojie’s father, Da Sun.
When Cao Bamei married Yang Yongjin, the dowry came from the Sun family. So after so many years, Cao Bamei never regarded the other brothers and sisters-in-law of the Cao family as her natal family. She only regarded the Sun family as her natal family. This is the reason.
If you meet a brother and sister-in-law who have no conscience, they may be sent away with two quilts.
There are also examples of this, such as when Bao Suyun married Yang Huazhou.
It's not that Bao Suyun's brother has no conscience, but that Bao Suyun's brother is soft-hearted and is manipulated by his sister-in-law.
As for his sister Bao Suyun, he was full of ambition and power.
When Yang Huaming heard Yang Ruoqing directly and clearly stated her attitude, and even refused the dowry proposal on behalf of the third room, and drank a lot of wine, Yang Huaming's blood boiled immediately. He patted his thigh and said, "What Qing'er伱 said is great, and my fourth uncle thinks so too."
"Your grandparents, they can use all their money to support your aunt. No matter how many times she gets married, she is still their daughter and they have to take care of it. That is also their business!"
"Yes! For us relatives, just adding some makeup will be enough to satisfy her!”
“Your father hasn’t made this suggestion yet, but based on our understanding of him and your grandma, this topic will come up sooner or later! Want to mention "
"Your master said that when the Hungry Ghost Festival is over, we can all sit down and chat together to discuss your aunt's marriage."
"Nine times out of ten, it's about this. I'll leave it until then. If I raise it in front of everyone, what if someone is soft-hearted and agrees? Then the others will be too embarrassed to refuse. It will cost a lot of money. What is this called? ! ”
"Fourth uncle, this is called moral kidnapping! You have caught the herd mentality and let everyone follow suit!"
Looking back on many things that happened in the old Yang family, Yang Ruoqing saw many clues in this regard.
The old man knows his sons and daughters-in-law very deeply and thoroughly. If he wants to call on everyone to do something collectively, but is afraid that the opinions will be difficult to reconcile, Lao Yang will tell a certain person in advance. The son who is easiest to talk to starts with.
Pua is performed on that son first, and then through that son, continue to radiate other sons.
Even if there are one or two left who are reluctant to cooperate, when most of the others obey, the remaining two can only passively obey.
And the 'lucky guy' who was chosen by Old Yang has always been honest and honest, the third son Yang Huazhong, who is very cheerful and righteous, and regards suffering losses as blessings.
But this time, this honest man was no longer in the village and went to the capital, which put Lao Yangtou beyond his reach.
So I went to the fourth room today just to test, and I didn’t dare to show my trump card easily.
When everyone is gathered together, even if Yang Huazhong is not present, as long as the two old men, Yang Huazhou and Yang Yongjin, are present, Old Yangtou can still use his super pua method!
But I'm sorry, now Yang Ruoqing and Yang Huaming have figured out the old man's plan in advance.
"I will send a letter to my fifth uncle and second brother later and let them know about this matter in advance." Yang Ruoqing said.
Yang Huaming said: "Don't be in such a hurry, right? Just wait until they return to the village to celebrate the Ghost Festival in two days, and then call them home to talk about it. Wouldn't it be fine?"
Yang Ruoqing did not Think so.
"I'm afraid I won't be able to make it when I get back to the village. My master is always watching over me!"
So, we must act first and say hello to them in advance to show ourselves. attitude.
If after knowing all this, they are still willing to respond to the call of the old man and the old lady to collect a dowry for Yang Huamei, that is their own choice.
Anyway, the three-bedroom and four-bedroom apartments are not confused.
Before Yang Huaming left, he thought of something and sat back down.
But this time he was talking to Blacksmith Laluo.
“Brother Blacksmith, to be honest, if someone asks you to be a matchmaker one day, I can give you a message in advance.”
(End of this chapter)