Chapter 10841
Whether it’s talk or reasoning, ten Suns tied together can’t defeat Yang Ruoqing.
It would be okay if Sun did not refute it. This refutation would easily lead Yang Ruoqing into thinking. In the end, step by step, she would fall into a loop that Yang Ruoqing had set up in advance, inside and out. It's all what Yang Ruoqing said.
The final result is to be thoroughly convinced, brainwashed, and accept new ideas.
Of course, the premise is that these principles are not too inconsistent with Sun's most fundamental principles.
What is Sun's most fundamental principle?
For example, Sun's most fundamental principles are kindness, enthusiasm, generosity, and a dumpling's heart.
In this regard, even if Yang Ruoqing was lying on the ground, kneeling on the ground, holding a knife on Sun's neck and forcing reasoning, it would be impossible to convince Sun to change these characteristics, let alone persuade Sun to do it A cold, selfish, even cruel person!
The well-educated Sun took Fuwa to the bathroom to wash up, because Fuwa was sleepy and wanted to sleep.
The only ones left in the room were Yang Ruoqing, Xiaohua, and Jun'er, who had eaten and drank enough and was still touching the stool and playing with toys on the ground.
Xiaohua said to Yang Ruoqing: "Sister, just say this to me and Brother Da'an."
Yang Ruoqing smiled, "That's because you two have different personalities from me, and you are considered a family. Talk to each other politely and carefully Wing, for fear of making the other party unhappy. "
"I am different. I am outspoken and say whatever I want. I am not afraid that my mother will be depressed. "
But the premise is that the things I say never stop. It makes sense and is tenable in the long run.
"Hua'er, when it comes to educating children, I have already made it clear to my parents that they will no longer protect their children in front of their faces. We must preserve your dignity, otherwise the children will have nothing to rely on. , there will be trouble if you don’t obey discipline.”
Xiaohua nodded repeatedly, as if she understood this deeply.
“But in your case, I have to say,”
“Sometimes Daan is a little strict when he teaches his children. For example, Daan randomly checks Feng’er’s homework and punishes him. He has some punishments, such as starvation, being made to stand for half an hour, or hitting the palms of his hands with a ruler, etc."
< br>"As a mother, you look on and feel distressed. I completely understand this."
"But no matter how distressed you are, you have to hide it in your heart. You can't show it in front of your face, let alone jump out. Discourage Daan from lowering the punishment. This is a disruptive behavior and will have a bad impact on the children over time. ”
Yang Ruoqing's words made Xiaohua blush, because this kind of thing had happened several times in Daan's study.
She was afraid that Daan would accidentally hit the wrong place in his anger and hit an important part of the child.
I am also afraid that the growing child will suffer from hunger after a meal...
"You have to know that Da'an is not an outsider, he is the biological father of the children."
“No matter how angry he is, he can’t really beat the child up by mistake!”
"Again, it's okay to be hungry for one meal, and the next meal will be more delicious."
"As for being punished to stand for half an hour, it's not a bad person. Think about the children of our farmer's family, at such a young age I would work in the fields with my parents for several hours.”
“Especially during the autumn harvest, my little feet would run back and forth in the muddy fields, helping the adults to pick up the ears of rice. run Even after several hours, she is still strong!"
Xiaohua lowered her head in shame and said softly: "I understand the truth, but my heart doesn't listen to me..."
< br>"You have to endure even if you don't obey orders, don't let Daan's efforts go to waste!" Yang Ruoqing's firm tone made Xiaohua feel that she really couldn't joke about this matter and had to be very serious and rigorous.
"You feel sorry for him, wait until the matter is over, and then add some of his favorite things to the child's food." "You feel sorry for his leg and hand pain, and wait until afterwards to apply some medicinal wine on him. Sometimes you can coax him to say some words of encouragement to calm his mood."
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"As a parent, isn't it just like one is a good person and the other is a bad person? But they have to be arranged in order. After the good person sings, the bad person will finish."
If so. If two people make a fool of themselves together, they will not be able to control their children, and they will lead them to lead them.
If two people are both popular, then the family will be a powder keg, and they will scold and fight if they disagree.
This coercive, high-pressure, violent and arbitrary family atmosphere is even more unsuitable for educating children.
Over time, children will develop corresponding psychological problems.
Speaking of children's psychological problems, Yang Ruoqing couldn't help but think of the mother and daughter from later generations who were troubled in her dreams a while ago...
Mother is right, she hopes that her children will be well and have good health. Make a fortune. I hope that I can take care of my children at an age when they are ignorant and prevent their studies from going to waste.
It’s just that the mother’s methods were a bit extreme and ignored the psychological endurance of children of that age, so in the end, the mother’s love became the last straw for the child, leading to an irreversible tragedy. ……
So for a long time now, whenever Yang Ruoqing has free time, she will start to think about this issue...
Yang Ruoqing estimates that she has already made Xiao Hua dizzy.
She stopped as soon as she was good, and said a few extraneous words to Xiaohua. She heard the noise outside, and it seemed that Yang Huazhong and the others were coming.
So Yang Ruoqing asked Xiaohua to stay in the house to take care of Jun'er, and sleep when she felt sleepy. She went out to meet Yang Huazhong and the others.
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Half an hour later, after meeting Yang Huazhong and Yu Zhong, Yang Ruoqing arranged for a table of food and wine to be delivered to the guest room where Yu Zhong and the others were staying tonight.
She and Yang Huazhong came to the door, and the father and daughter spoke a few words alone.
"Dad, let's have a good rest at the inn tonight. After breakfast tomorrow, we will set off home."
"At this time tomorrow, we can have a rest at our own home!"
Yang Huazhong couldn't believe it when he heard that he would be setting off tomorrow.
"That's not possible, Qing'er? Isn't it snowing over there?"
"It's snowing heavily! It's almost up to my knees when I step in!" Yang Ruoqing said truthfully.
Yang Huazhong took a breath, "It sounds like the closer you get to home, the heavier the snow will be?"
"On our side, the snow is not that heavy. But it’s been raining for two days, and we can’t walk! We can’t leave tomorrow!”
Here, we still spent a lot of money to mobilize dozens of villagers to shovel the snow.
Fortunately, the distance to shovel the snow was not too far, twenty miles away, and there were enough people, so we reluctantly sent them from Yuqian Village to the inn.
But there is eighty miles to the back!
"Dad, are you too busy to be confused?" Yang Ruoqing covered her mouth and laughed.
"Look at me, your daughter and I are standing here well, what does that mean?"
Yang Huazhong was stunned for a moment, looked at the daughter standing in front of him, and suddenly reacted, He patted his head and laughed.
(End of this chapter)