Chapter 10901
Represents ‘the water thrown by the married daughter’.
After Yang Huaming finished splashing, he looked at the water on the ground. He didn’t know what he thought of, and the corners of his mouth twitched.
Next to her, Yang Ruoqing understood Yang Huaming's thoughts and couldn't help but twitch her lips.
This ladle of water from He'er was poured out before and then taken back. This is the second time it has been poured out.
There are two other people in Lao Yang's family who are in a similar situation, namely Mei'er and Xiuxiu.
So, the rules and customs left by the older generation are sometimes not easy to use. It is difficult to collect the wool when it is covered with water. If the wool should be collected, you have to bite the bullet and take it back.
"Fourth Uncle, you should really throw the water out this time." Yang Ruoqing said with a smile.
Yang Huaming came back to his senses and said with a smile: "I think it's about the same. The more I look at Li Laoer, the younger generation, the more satisfied I am. It's very to my liking."
Yang Ruoqing nodded: "It's good for your appetite. A son-in-law is like a son-in-law. This is also fate."
The fourth son-in-law had four sons-in-law. Leaving aside Yu Jinbao, the former eldest son-in-law, this was the existence that the fourth uncle would gnash his teeth in hatred whenever he mentioned it.
Let’s talk about the remaining sons-in-law. Between Chen Biao and Liu Xueyun, the fourth uncle is obviously closer to Chen Biao.
The reason is because of Chen Biao’s family conditions and personality. In the eyes of his fourth uncle, Chen Biao is a relatively easy-to-get-together young man.
As for Liu Xueyun, although the latter is also very filial to Yang Huaming, after all, Liu Xueyun's ability, status, and character are all there, so for the fourth uncle, eating and drinking with this young son-in-law is relatively reserved. .
In addition, Liu Xueyun came to Changping Village less often, so the sense of distance naturally increased.
Now that Li Laoer appears, things are different.
They were craftsmen from Lijia Village, and their family conditions were not as good as those of the Chen Biao family back then, so Yang Huaming instinctively felt a sense of superiority.
Secondly, Li Laoer's character also made Yang Huaming feel more approachable and casual.
Before we built a house together, we ate, drank and worked together almost every day for more than a month and did all kinds of household chores.
After building the house, Li Laoer has been running to Changping Village a lot in the past six months.
Helping my father-in-law with various tasks, cleaning the yard, carrying water, carrying toilets, shoveling pig pens...
After collecting firewood, I also delivered it to my father-in-law's house by the truckload. New rice came out. For a while, they would send gifts to the father-in-law, and during festivals and festivals, they would buy wine and deliver it to the father-in-law's house...
Drinking with the father-in-law, the relationship between the father-in-law and son-in-law had long been established.
"If He'er disobeys and gets angry with Li Laoer over there, I will help my son-in-law!" Yang Huaming added.
Yang Ruoqing was happy, "Yes, this father-in-law is enlightened..."
"Ah...my son, my heart and my flesh..."
A long and melodious cry suddenly came from a room in the yard behind me.
Everyone who was still standing at the entrance of the hospital to watch the wedding procession was collectively shocked.
Everyone turned around and looked into the yard in horror. They didn't know what happened in the yard and why there was such a tragic cry.
As a result, Yang Ruoqing rubbed her eyebrows and said to Yang Huaming and everyone: "Don't panic, everyone, it's my fourth aunt who is belatedly marrying..."
I thought I had made a mistake this time and did not judge Liu accurately.
Unexpectedly, my level of prediction was still very stable, but Liu's cry for marriage was much slower...
Everyone listened a few more times after hearing Yang Ruoqing's explanation. Liu's continuous cries and howls were heard, and neither one of them was smiling, nor was they not smiling.
Yang Huaming, who was holding an empty basin in his hand, turned black and said angrily: "Don't cry when you should cry, cry hard when you shouldn't cry, how pretentious!"
< br>Yang Ruoqing said: "I guess I didn't have a good mood before."
Ju'er explained awkwardly: "Maybe it's because there are so many people and I can't keep my face." Liu Jinchuan said with some envy: "Hearing my mother cry like this, I really can't bear to let my eldest sister get married..."
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I remember when I got married, because I didn’t have a biological mother, only an aunt.
My aunt has always hoped that she could find a good family and a good home, so she smiled when she got married.
I am also looking forward to it.
However, in the final analysis, it is still a bit regretful.
No matter how kind my aunt is, no matter how well-off my husband’s family is, without my mother’s encouragement and reluctance, I always feel like I’m missing a lot.
Especially on a wedding day like today, when your daughter’s family is getting married, all the guests coming and going are laughing, but your mother is crying.
Those who laugh may not necessarily have true feelings, and most of what they say is superficial, but the one who cries for you is sincere.
It’s just that sometimes, because of my personality, I am embarrassed to express myself, just like my mother-in-law and eldest sister...
"I'll go and persuade mother." Liu Jinchuan left these words and went straight to Liu's house.
……
The guests dispersed.
This is how it is to marry a girl, noisy in the morning.
When the daughter came out of the palace and the guests dispersed, the house suddenly became deserted.
But the man's house was different. It was noisy at noon and in the evening. It was full of guests all day long.
So, this is also one of the reasons why many families in this era like to have sons.
Not only because the son wants to inherit the incense, support the family, and become the strong labor force of the family in the farming era.
Also, because the son marries a daughter-in-law and the daughter-in-law gives birth to grandchildren, this is a major event for adding children to the family, making the family more lively and prosperous.
As for girls, no matter how you train and teach them, when they grow up in the future, no matter how promising they are, they will be married to other people’s families, and the children they give birth to will also bear the man’s surname.
That's why many people distinguish between daughters and grandchildren, and prefer sons over daughters.
However, this is the mainstream thinking, which does not mean that everyone thinks so.
There are still some people who are as open-minded as Yang Ruoqing and Luo Fengtang.
It is the responsibility and obligation of parents to train their daughter and give her a good material life.
Teach her to be capable and cultivated, and to become a generous, confident and optimistic person. This is also for the sake of your daughter's future, not to train a daughter-in-law for her husband's family.
If your daughter is excellent, the main person who benefits is the daughter herself. As a parent, you can also get praise from others.
Even if you don’t care about the false fame and praise, as long as your daughter is good, that’s better than anything else, right?
So now, Yang Ruoqing and Wang Cuilian took the children back home.
The children are full of energy and are not idle when they get home and continue playing.
Wang Cuilian and Qiu Rong accompanied them.
Yang Ruoqing took the time to hide in her dormitory and looked through her account books for a while. She probably started the banquet in the morning and ate a bit too much.
Now my blood sugar rises and I start to feel sleepy.
After closing the ledger, Yang Ruoqing undressed and lay down on the soft couch, pulled the blanket over her body, closed her eyes and took a nap...
While she was dazed, she seemed to hear the trumpet and suona. The sound came from a very ethereal place.
Her eyelids were heavy and she couldn't open them, but her brain hadn't completely fallen asleep and she could still continue thinking.
(End of this chapter)