Chapter 10939
How to put it, Daan is the joy of a top student.
What Yang Ruoqing advocates is the happiness of poor students and even ordinary people.
The happiness of a top student is not something that low-achieving students and ordinary people can experience.
Especially in front of Feng'er, Yang Ruoqing certainly can't suppress Da'an too much. This will not be good for Da'an's strict father image, and he will not be able to control his children in the future.
So Yang Ruoqing said to Feng'er: "What your father said makes sense. You have to listen to your father and study hard."
"But now it's time to go back to my hometown for the New Year. Let's enjoy the New Year's holiday. You can You don’t need to restrain yourself like that.”
“Tell us what you want to drink. Your father is a sensible person. He must understand.”
“Really?” Still a little doubtful.
“Of course it’s true, you silly boy, when have you ever told a lie?”
Xiao Hua on the side also smiled and nodded gently: "Seriously, your father loves you. He hopes that you won't put too much energy on eating and drinking. But think about it carefully. Growing up, what have you wanted to eat? , Is your father really that unkind and never satisfied with what you want to play with? It’s definitely not the case, right?”
Feng’er tilted his head, thinking carefully, and then his face revealed. An innocent smile.
Yang Ruoqing and Xiaohua also looked at each other and smiled, and after giving some instructions to the children, they went to the kitchen together.
On the way to the kitchen, Yang Ruoqing said to Xiaohua: "Over there in Da'an, I have to talk to him some time later."
"He has requirements for Feng'er. I understand this, after all, he is the eldest son.”
"But children love to play by nature. After a few years, if you give them some things to play with, they won't want to play with them anymore. We can't deprive children of their childhood."
"Oh, that's right. "Er, when you are in the capital, you should talk to Da'an in private, don't let him be too strict with Feng'er," Yang Ruoqing suddenly said to Xiaohua next to her.
"Sister, it's better for you to say these words than for me to say them." Xiaohua lowered her head and said.
"You are my sister, Da'an listens to you, I told you, he said that my loving mother has many failed children, but she will be more harsh on her children, I can't say it."
Yang Ruoqing turned her head. Looking at Xiao Hua, Yang Ruoqing could probably guess something when she saw the shameful and troubled expression on Xiao Hua's face.
"Hey, this Da'an, he has been motivated and self-disciplined since he was a child. He never needs supervision from others when it comes to studying. He relies entirely on himself.
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"But people are different from each other. It’s different, some people are suitable for that kind of hard work, but some people are not suitable..."
小Hua suddenly became a little nervous. She looked around to make sure that Da'an had not come this way. She lowered her voice and said to Yang Ruoqing: "Sister, you can't say this in front of Da'an. He will be unhappy. He will think that we are I want Feng'er to be a salted fish."
Yang Ruoqing held Xiaohua's hand and calmed her nerves.
"Don't worry, I'm not stupid. How could I go to Da'an and say it! I just whispered to you in private."
"I was just thinking that it is impossible to say anything about Feng'er's studies. Not urging at all ”
“But anything. Things should be done in moderation and within your capabilities. A son born to a No. 1 scholar may not necessarily be a No. 1 scholar. Don’t force anything, as long as the children grow up and have the ability to earn money. "
There are some things that Yang Ruoqing cannot say directly.
That is how high everyone can climb. In fact, the clues can be seen from the beginning.
Take Da'an as an example. He was born in the countryside. He first studied in a school halfway up the mountain behind the village. His first teacher was an old scholar Yang Ruoqing invited back from the town. With this kind of teaching force, he went all the way to the capital, became the number one scholar appointed by the emperor, and became the disciple of the emperor.
You can imagine how many strong people he will meet along the way. There are so many smart people all over the country. Some of them are even inherited from the family, from a scholarly family. They have been in that kind of society since they were young. The atmosphere was immersed and influenced.
But those people still became Daan's defeated generals.
What does this mean?
Explain that sweat and dedication are important, but talent is the key.
With such talent, others can’t memorize the same text in a day, but you can remember it with just a glance.
Many things are so magical sometimes, don’t be unconvinced.
Comparing Da'an's career history with Feng'er's, to be honest, Feng'er really lacks a lot of enthusiasm.
So, if Daan wants to copy the path he took on Feng'er, it is bound to be impossible.
In the end, not only Da'an himself was disappointed, but Feng'er was also exhausted physically and mentally, and her self-confidence was greatly reduced!
"Sister, it's my fault. It's because of my stupid mother that I'm holding Feng'er back..."
"Hua'er, don't say stupid things. "Yang Ruoqing gently patted Xiaohua's arm and interrupted her words.
"The dragon gave birth to nine sons, each of whom is different. Even among the princes of the emperor's family, there is always only one who can become the emperor and inherit the throne."
"And often That one is not the best, but it is the most suitable one.”
"We are aunt-in-law and sisters, so we don't hide anything when we speak,"
"You also grew up with Daan, and you also know the progress of Daan's studies along the way,"
That’s really a plug-in.
According to Yang Ruoqing's understanding, it was like studying all the way from the poor mountains to the magical city of Beiqing, such as Harbin Institute of Technology...
And after entering the school, he was still among the top three in grade. , otherwise it would be impossible to see the emperor's face and walk up to the Golden Palace...
"We all know that Feng'er's talent in studying is not as good as Da'an's. However, this does not mean that Feng'er is not good at it, nor can it be said that your stupidity is holding Feng'er back."
"We Feng'er My son failed to pass the exam , you can also pass the Jinshi examination, no matter how bad you are, it’s still good to pass the examination.”
“In short, whether you are good or not depends on who you compare with.”
“Sister, you said so. Feeling a little better again After a while, sometimes I was sorting out the clothes for the father and son, and I heard Da'an lecture Feng'er, saying that he was not like himself... I felt very ashamed."
Yang Ruoqing felt sorry for Da'an again! After scolding a few words, he continued to comfort Xiaohua: "Da'an must have said the angry words when he was a little superior during the training. You said you were the same. How could you take his angry words into your heart? You are so stupid. ! ”
The two of them had already reached the door of the kitchen while they were talking, and they both tacitly agreed to stop the topic.
Because if this topic is heard by Mrs. Sun in the kitchen, another person will appear who feels sorry for Feng'er and will condemn Da'an.
Furthermore, unlike Yang Ruoqing and Xiaohua, who are controlled by rational intelligence and can protect Daan from Feng'er and the others, Sun is the grandmother of Feng'er and the others.
The cross-generational relatives are very fierce, and they will make the Sun family protect the calf until they can no longer distinguish right from wrong, and then things will go wrong.
"Anyway, I'll talk to Da'an about this later. It'll be fine." At the last moment before entering the door, Yang Ruoqing gave Xiaohua another reassurance.
(End of this chapter)