Sometimes it is difficult to take care of two children, and sometimes it is easy to take care of them.
There is also a time for "competition" among children.
For example, when Erbao received a compliment for eating, Dabao also wanted it when he saw it, so he sat upright and concentrated on eating with big mouthfuls.
Lu Miao has gained some experience in raising a child alone for so long.
She is reluctant to discipline her children, but she cannot always praise them.
Everything in moderation and moderation is really important.
Lu Miao felt reassured about Dabao and Erbao, but Tang Mei couldn't help but look at them from time to time.
For a while, I was worried that the child was thirsty and had no water to drink.
After a while, I was afraid that the chair would fall or something if it turned over.
Lu Miao saw this and could only shake his head.
There is no way to explain this. We can only wait until Tang Mei gradually develops awareness after getting along for a while.
When everyone at the table was seated, Lu Miao spoke appropriately and brought up what he had just discussed with Fu Jingyou upstairs:
"Auntie will help take care of the child tomorrow. You and I will Brother, go out for a walk and buy some for school. If you need anything, let’s take a look at the house.”
Tang Mei just nodded after hearing what she said. When she heard that she wanted to look at the house, Tang Mei raised her head and asked:
“Look at the house? What house?”
Lu Miao had already expected it, and said what she had just said to Fu Jingyou, and said it again at this moment.
Tang Mei said: "I heard from your dad that Xiao Fu was admitted to Beijing Renmin University, and you were admitted to the Military Region University."
"The two schools are close to each other. The place where you work is where your dad currently works. "
"He has a car, he knows the area well, and he goes to work every day. Then you can just take your dad's car there."
"And buy a house... It’s hard to live in your home? What kind of house should you buy?”
Tang Mei disagrees.
Lu Yuanzheng also disagreed, but he remained silent for the time being.
Lu Miao said: "Can dad go to work the same as us going to school? The morning class teacher is the same as the classmates. He is the principal. He only needs to arrive at school at nine o'clock and gets off work at five o'clock in the afternoon..."
"Let's not talk about the morning classes, what about the evening classes? What should I do if I have to study in the evening? Are you going to let him wait in school?"
It's okay to have two days a day, but it takes three years to go to college.
Like the English major she plans to study, the new policy will come soon, and she will have to study for four years.
This is a way of getting along with each other without any embarrassment. Isn’t this just looking for a quarrel instead of fighting?
Tang Mei felt that what she said made sense, so she paused and said:
"There are dormitories in the school. If you don't live in the dormitory, it's okay. Why do you need to spend money to buy a house?"< br>
“I have a family now. Brother You and I can be separated temporarily. What about the children?”
Lu Miao frowned, feeling a little unhappy.
"You want me to be separated from my child? This is absolutely impossible."
"Miaomiao."
Fu Jingyou held her hand and whispered to her Don't talk like that.
Lu Miao had a bad temper and was impatient. Tang Mei also noticed that she was unhappy, so she coaxed her and said:
"Isn't this a discussion? I just did it without saying anything...don't be angry."
Lu Miao pouted and emphasized:
"Some things can be discussed, and some things are not discussed. "
All her wishes were filled out here in Beijing, wasn't it just to be with her children?
What's going on now if she leaves her child behind and goes to live in a dormitory?
A dream she had while pregnant made Lu Miao completely integrate into and accept this family.
Tang Mei treats her as her own child, and she also treats Tang Mei as her mother.
But whether it is "Lu Xiaobao" in this life or the reincarnated Lu Miao in later generations, they are both pampered and pampered children.
She can't hide her true character.
In front of the two elders Tang Mei and Lu Yuanzheng, at certain times, she always showed the irritable side after being spoiled.
"It's not like you don't have money. You can buy your own land and live in it. Why do you want to live in a dormitory? Don't you know my temper?" Tang Mei loved her, and she had her own ideas. Naturally, she would do whatever she pleased. How come.
Tang Mei nodded and stopped talking.
There was silence at the table for a while, and Lu Yuanzheng, who was silent for a while, suddenly spoke:
“You don’t have to worry about your aunt. Now they are all public housing, and the leasing is under the management of the housing management. No buying or selling is allowed. .”
Lu Miao paused.
This is indeed something she didn't consider, but it doesn't matter.
"Let's go and have a look tomorrow. If it doesn't work, we can rent it. If we can't buy a house or land, it's okay... It's okay to run around during the holidays, but it's definitely not okay to go to class during the week."
Lu Miao said. As he spoke, he turned his head and glanced at the two children on the other side of the sofa.
Everything else is negotiable. It is absolutely impossible to separate her from the child.
Tang Mei saw what she was thinking, nodded and said:
"You two can decide what to do. If there is a suitable place, it can be rented or sold. When the time comes, I will go over and take care of your children."< br>
Lu Yuanzheng glanced at Tang Mei.
Tang Mei looked at him and said: "What do you think I am doing? It must be mainly about the two children. Isn't your school over there?"
"Arrived If the place is big enough, you can live there together. If you can’t live there, you can live in the staff dormitory nearby. The place where the principal lives is not comparable to ordinary houses.”
"..."
Lu Yuanzheng was speechless and silent.
Tang Mei continued: "If you don't like eating in the school cafeteria, just go home and eat at lunch. It's the same."
When the children are not at home, Tang Mei does everything. Mainly land expeditions.
Now that the children are back, Tang Mei's focus has gradually shifted.
Lu Yuanzheng understood her, so he had nothing to say.
But I always feel weird and a little uncomfortable.
The matter is settled for now.
After the meal, Lu Miao filled some noodles to feed the eldest child and the second child. The water in the pot in the kitchen was boiling. Lu Miao asked Fu Jingyou to fetch water and prepare to take the children to wash up.
Lu Yuanzheng suddenly came out of the room and nodded at the table for her to sit down.
Just as Fu Jingyou came back from fetching water, Lu Miao handed the child to him first.
"Wash your face, buttocks, and don't forget to wipe your hands and feet."
"Okay."
Fu Jingyou opened her arms to the left and right, holding Dabao one by one. Erbao went to the bathroom under the corner of the stairs.
Lu Miao sat down at the table, Lu Yuanzheng stared at her and said:
"You should do what you should do at home. Your husband is a man. He can just help you with some things once, and you can always let him do it?"
What was it like in the south in the past, Lu Let’s not talk about the expedition, let’s just start by getting off the car today.
He can see how arrogant this girl is.
How can a wife treat a man as a servant or nanny?
This means that there are no adults in the Fu family.
"That's all you asked me to say?"
Lu Miao was a little unhappy.
"Men and women are the same, what's wrong with men? Is it great to be a man?"
"Besides, this is our own business between husband and wife. He doesn't want me to do it and wants to help. I can’t do it anymore?”
Lu Yuanzheng frowned and scolded in a low voice:
"Don't be ashamed!"
"..." Lu Miao was speechless, "You are ashamed!"