Chapter 543: Hit with one punch to avoid hundreds of punches
“No one bullies me.”
Shi An shook his head and said truthfully:
“The teacher taught me how to sing. , and also taught me how to count and write big characters.”
Lu Miao’s lips curved and she asked with a gentle smile:
"Then our baby Shi An can count to how many now, eh?"
"I can count to one hundred, auntie, and I can also calculate that eight plus six equals fourteen."
>"Oh, it's so great? You have to keep working hard, you know?"
"Yeah!"
Shi An looked at his little face and nodded seriously.
Lu Miao kissed the side of his little face and turned to look at Tang Mei:
"I'm usually busy and don't have time to keep an eye on the little ones. Auntie, please pay more attention when you take care of the kids, especially It’s Shi’an.”
“Speak immediately if you see any bumps on your body. , Don’t be bullied by other children. We adults don’t know.”
Tang Mei said with a smile: “Isn’t it normal for children to push each other? How can there be such a big fight? "
Lu Miao disagreed:
"Don't think that children are fine just because they are young. Some children are bad, and you are sure that adults will not care, so they catch the weak ones and bully them."
"We don't bully others, but we can't let others bully them either. . ”
Lu Miao touched Shi An’s head and gave more instructions on the topic. A few words:
"You must make good use of your own strength and learn to protect yourself."
"Don't be afraid of causing trouble. Take action when it's time to do it. If someone hits you, just hit him back. If I push you, push me back. If you can’t beat me, run to the teacher.”
"When I need to apologize, my aunt will apologize. If I need to pay for it, then we will pay for it. We must not make people think that we are easy to bully. They will catch us for bullying in the future. Do you know that?"
Shi An He was still young, and he shook his head in confusion and couldn't understand, but he still nodded seriously:
"I know, auntie."
"You're so good."
Tang When Mei heard this, she retorted:
"How can you teach children like this? Isn't this a fight?"
"This is called self-defense, how can it be a fight? Is it right to just stand and let others hit you?"
< br>"You can't be so arrogant, just stand there and let others beat you... You can still hide and run. Can you tell the school teacher? "
"Running will only make others think you are scared. Besides, if you run this time, you can run again next time."
< br>Lu Miao shook his head:
"Punch away with one punch to avoid hundreds of punches. Show your fist when it's time to show it. Compete with whose fist is harder. If you know you can't beat it, you will naturally not do it again in the future."
When you click, you can feel at ease. Lu Miao said:
"Listen to your aunt, not your grandma."
Shi An scratched the side of his head, looked at Tang Mei, then at Lu Miao, and finally pecked his little head and said seriously:
“I know, aunt~”
Lu Miao smiled and kissed him again, then turned around and said to Tang Mei:
"From now on, just teach as I said. You can teach children to endure hardship, but you are absolutely not allowed to teach children to suffer losses and get beaten. It is not allowed to teach children too honestly." Good thing.”
Concession step by step.
I was bullied at school when I was a child.
When you grow up and step out of society, you will still be beaten.
Lu Miao educates children and advocates the rule of force.
It partially refutes the elders’ concepts of humility, courtesy, being merciful and forgiving, etc.
Tang Mei didn’t have much culture, but she was quite open-minded.
If Lu Miao can tell the truth, she can accept it.
Anyway, there is a sentence that is definitely good.
It is not good to teach children too honestly.
They are all babies raised carefully.
You are loved and protected at home, so how can you be willing to let others bully you outside your home?
It would be better to have a more powerful temperament.
Like their little treasure,
Tang Mei nodded:
"Then I'll listen to you. I'll do whatever you say." Lu Miao said "yes", let go of Shi An, and let Shi An eat well.
She turned her head and kicked Fu Jingyou lightly with her toes:
“Why don’t you speak?”
Fu Jingyou agreed and clapped his hands twice, "I'm listening to what you said. I think what you said is very good and right. I support it very much."
Lu Miao rolled her eyes at him, "You look like a ghost!"
Fu Jingyou hummed and laughed.
He actually understood what Lu Miao wanted to express.
She does not advocate letting children bully others.
But if she had to choose when necessary, she would rather have her children bully others and have their parents come to apologize to them.
I don’t want others to come to apologize to my children because they have bullied them.
Most people are selfish.
If I have to choose, then Fu Jingyou must have the same idea as his wife.
But the premise is that they will guide and educate their children well and will not lead them astray.
Fu Jingyou thought about it, patted Zhou Shi'an on the head, and said in a deep voice:
"No matter what happens outside, you must first protect yourself before considering other things."
Xiao Shi'an is serious. Nodding, trying to remember what his uncle and aunt said.
......
Lu Miao recovered well, and Fu Jingyou subtly stopped forcing her to go to the hospital.
After coaxing the three children to take a nap, Fu Jingyou quietly returned to the room:
"Let the aunt take care of the children. Let's go for a walk, okay?"
"Where to go for a walk? ?”
“I went to the department store yesterday and saw a new Peking Opera movie on the square. Do you want to watch it?”
Lu Miao pouted, showing no interest:
"Forget it, what's so good about Peking Opera?"
"Then take the keg, and I'll take you somewhere else."
"Where to go?"
Where can I go for a walk without carrying a bucket?
Fu Jingyou was afraid that she would not go even if he told her directly, so he stood up from the edge of the kang and said coquettishly:
"Get up and clean up first. You'll know where you are soon."
After saying that, he opened the door and went to the courtyard.
Lu Miao lazily climbed up.
I just go out for a walk, and I don’t go to any formal occasions.
She didn't tidy up so neatly. She just rearranged her low ponytail and was done.
Lu Miao went into the kitchen and picked up the smallest iron bucket.
Fu Jingyou dug around in the vegetable patch, then picked up a small bag and pushed her on the bicycle to take her out.
After the Mid-Autumn Festival, there is a slight temperature difference between morning and evening, but it is still hot during the day.
Lu Miao was so anxious that she actually didn't want to go out.
But seeing that the child's father was in high spirits, and thinking that it had been a long time since they had gone out for a walk together, she softened her heart, took his hand and sat on the back of the bicycle.
The bicycle clanked.
Walk through the alleyways.
We passed through the long boulevard of Sophora japonica trees.
I rode back and forth for more than half an hour.
Lu Miao's buttocks were shaking so hard that she finally reached the place.
The second west moat, and a little further over there, is the current boundary of suburban rural areas.
Lu Miao got off the bicycle, stretched lazily, and slowly looked around.
The moat has been renovated intermittently.
Many places are the same as the flood control slopes of later generations.
Construction on this section has not started yet.
Looking around, you can see that in some areas the shore is paved with ancient blue bricks.
In some places, due to collapse, they have broken free from the shackles of history and become an ordinary slope.