Chapter 583: Mental Health of Pregnant Women
The first is the pregnancy reaction in the first trimester. Lu Miao will suffer from frequent morning sickness.
By trying to ensure a normal dietary intake, instead of gaining weight, people become thinner.
The time has entered November, and the weather is gradually getting colder.
The first three months are about to be completed, how can Fu Jingyou feel at ease?
After cooking for He Hongjin, Fu Jingyou hurried back and took Lu Miao to the People's Hospital in front of her home for a check-up.
The person who received them was Dr. Liu from before.
Fu Jingyou guessed that the baby in the belly absorbed more, so Lu Miao became extremely thin.
It was directly rejected by Dr. Liu.
It is said that although the fetus needs nutrition, because it is still too young, the nutrition it needs is quite limited.
He pricked his fingertips and gave Lu Miao a blood test. After Dr. Liu learned about the latest situation, he asked Lu Miao to wait outside.
She chatted with Fu Jingyou alone for a while:
"Your lover came over before. I think he really wanted to keep this child. Why did he suddenly not want it again?"
Fu Jingyou paused for a moment. The doctor didn't dare to hide anything in front of him, so he explained in detail the previous difficult delivery in Lu Miao's hometown, and then said:
"This baby didn't come in time, and her physical condition is not suitable. Removing it is the best option." Okay.”
Dr. Liu considered it for a moment and shook his head seriously:
"That's not necessarily true. The body can handle it, and the pregnant woman's thoughts are more important than your thoughts."
I'm afraid Fu Jingyou won't understand, Dr. Liu In-depth analysis:
“She Although she agrees with your idea of not wanting this child, she still wants it in essence. It is human beings who agree with you, and psychology is the one who resists.”
“You can recall that you made your decision after discussing it. Have you ever seen her smile in the future?”
Fu Jingyou thought about it for a moment, pursed her thin lips slightly, and then frowned.
No.
Lu Miao doesn’t smile very much.
Although I eat well and rest well every day, I feel melancholy, don’t like to smile, and I don’t have much energy.
“……”
Fu Jingyou was silent.
“The mental health of pregnant women has always been a serious issue. She has a resistant mentality. No matter how many dietary supplements and medicines are taken, the effect will be minimal, not to mention that she still has a small mouth in her belly to eat. Emotional issues need to be paid attention to. , and she is seriously anemic, so she needs to buy more blood supplements when she goes back."
Dr. Liu put on his glasses and scanned Lu Miao's test up and down. The blood list said:
“Embryos that are about three to four months old can be aborted with medical injections. If you want to abort them when they are one month old, it may involve dilation and curettage.”
“Let’s not hide this. You said that dilation and curettage is relatively painful and causes great damage to women’s bodies, so you’d better discuss how to deal with it as soon as possible after returning.”
Fu Jingyou's Adam's apple twitched, and she lowered her eyebrows and asked:
"Her current constitution is not suitable for medical abortion, right?"
"Yes, but if you insist on having an abortion, the hospital can also do it. ”
Fu Jingyou shook his head.
He didn't want this child because he was afraid that Lu Miao would be in danger again.
Who would be willing to forcefully abort Lu Miao's body without caring about her health?
Taking a long breath, Fu Jingyou rubbed his forehead in sorrow and tried to think of countermeasures.
Dr. Liu saw that he was in trouble and suggested reasonably:
“I have learned some of your experiences through your lover. If she can adjust her psychological quality, her physical condition will be better. The situation may be solved.”
"Medical conditions are also improving. If you want to have a child, you can trust this aspect. On the other hand, if you don't plan to have a child, the couple must take complete contraceptive measures. Nowadays, gay sterilization and lesbian IUD surgery are available. They are also very mature.”
Fu Jingyou wiped his face and nodded absently.
After pondering for a long time, he suddenly asked deeply:
"If I discuss with her and agree to her giving birth, will her condition definitely improve?"
"This Not necessarily, it can only be said that there is a high probability.”
“…”
Fu Jingyou nodded worriedly and learned something else, such as the difference between female childbirth and male and female sterilization.
I heard that if a woman gives birth to an extra cesarean section, she will have a knife in her belly.
Fu Jingyou shook his head after hearing this, becoming more and more resistant to having children.
Dr. Liu looked at his expression and joked that those who didn’t know would think he was the one going into the operating room to give birth. Fu Jingyou's thin lips twitched, but he couldn't smile.
Also learn about some daily maintenance and what to eat for anemia.
Fu Jingyou received Lu Miao’s ID and blood test form, and said he would come back to check again in a few days.
Dr. Liu nodded and did not leave him alone.
Lu Miao has been sitting on the bench in the corridor waiting.
As soon as Fu Jingyou came out, she immediately stood up and asked anxiously:
"What did the doctor say?"
He would push her away, probably to tell her something that was not convenient for her to listen to.
Thinking about this, Lu Miao couldn't help but become nervous:
"I have been eating normally recently. Is there any other problem?"
Fu Jingyou's heart is heavy. , lowered his eyebrows and looked at her for a long time, then suddenly raised his eyebrows and smiled.
"No."
There was no one on the gynecology floor. He leaned over and hugged her, breathed a sigh of relief, quickly adjusted his expression and said:
"We were just talking about the issue of contraceptive sterilization for gay men. The doctor was afraid that I wouldn't be able to let go if you were there, so he sent you away."
Lu Miao was suspicious: "Really?"
Fu Jingyou nodded and led her downstairs. Go:
"Really, they said you are a little anemic and should eat more pork liver and red dates when you go back."
Lu Miao tilted her head and looked at his profile carefully.
Seeing that he always had a relaxed smile, I couldn’t help but believe it:
“I’ll go back and take a look later, it’s still early, maybe I can buy pork liver.”
“Yeah.”
...
I bought a small piece of pork liver at the market. When I got home, Fu Jingyou asked Tang Mei to cook it alone for Lu Miao to eat.
Lu Miao felt uncomfortable after eating the pork liver noodles made by Tang Mei.
I feel like it has a fishy smell no matter what. If you hold it close, you will retching when you smell it.
Fu Jingyou cut some shredded ginger, put it back into the pot and served it to her.
She stuffed a few mouthfuls of noodles into her mouth, and after swallowing them for a while, she turned her head and spat them out with a "yue" sound.
Before this, Fu Jingyou always felt that the "emotions" frequently mentioned by doctors were not a big problem.
Until this moment, when he saw Lu Miao retching and vomiting, unable to eat, he became depressed, riotous, and depressed, and wanted to flee the scene without stopping.
It’s like I realized something.
It turns out that emotions can really affect a person's mentality and state.
Lu Miao's eyes turned red with discomfort, and she held the bowl and tried to eat.
Fu Jingyou wiped his face and took the bowl from her indifferently:
“Forget it, if you can’t eat it, just don’t eat it. It’s the same thing if I get you some red dates to eat. "
Lu Miao hesitated:
"Will it be a waste?"
"No, wait a while and I'll deliver the medicine and I'll take it."
Lu Miao could only nod.
She was really feeling a little uncomfortable.
Before eating, my chest felt tight just by smelling it.
After eating it and vomiting it out, I feel a little bad.
The pain is in Xiaobao's body, and the pain is in Xiaofu's heart. Come on, come on, come on!