There were no outsiders at home, so Chen Guifen didn't mince words and said bluntly:
"You have seen how dangerous it is for a woman to be pregnant and have children. She must have contributed a lot to giving birth to three children for you. But the child..."
< br>Chen Guifen patted Fu Jingyou, her eyes were deep and her tone was even heavier:
“We can’t just be happy for ourselves, we should also consider the situation and feelings of your father-in-law and mother-in-law.”
Fu Jingyou put down the bowl Chopsticks, sit upright.
He listened very carefully, but the more he listened, the more confused he became.
Chen Guifen simply had no intention of showing off, and directly pointed out:
"Miao Yatou has no sisters, she is the only child in the family, and your father-in-law is well-known..."
“Obviously it’s not easy to pay attention to these things, but If there is no one to inherit after you die, the end of the road will be broken in the future. Your father-in-law will feel better in his heart, and the gossip outside may not be pleasant..."
Don't look at the reform and opening up, now is the new China and the new society. , but the continuation of the incense is still regarded as extremely important.
No matter how talented a person is, he will always be looked down upon and looked down upon in the eyes of the public if he has no children or descendants.
A person has a face, and a tree has a bark.
In most cases, ordinary people cannot bear the strange looks from the outside world.
Not to mention a decent family like the Lu family?
At this point in Chen Guifen's words, Fu Jingyou and He Hongjin both knew what she meant.
Fu Jingyou frowned and thought seriously, but He Hongjin became anxious and waved his hands repeatedly:
"What do you mean by this, do you mean to spread the child over one by one?"
"No, no, this is Fu How can we send the seeds back and forth? Besides, what if the in-laws think too much about it and think we are giving away a child? What about their family..."
Chen Guifen frowned and said:
"Why do you say it so harshly? Children are not objects, they are just given to the young couple in Beijing. Just living with the in-laws and mother-in-law, except that the children’s household registration is not in the same book, there is nothing wrong with them.”
"That's not possible. If your child doesn't register with your own household registration, but goes to someone else's family? Then should the child call them parents, or aunt and uncle? It's really a mess!"
"This Aren't you discussing? You always think about the incense. Without the girls from the Lu family, how can you have the incense from the Fu family? You can't just perfect yourself. , so that the whole family was poked in the back by being teased."
The old couple had a heated argument. Fu Jingyou finished the noodle soup in silence, put down the bowl and chopsticks and said:
"Don't worry about this. I'll discuss it with Miaomiao and we'll make up our own minds."
He Hongjin frowned and stared at him, saying nothing.
Chen Guifen slapped him back and said:
"Don't worry about your uncle, he is just a stone in the pit, two hundred and fifty, smelly and stubborn!"
The Lu family spared no effort to take care of him! Two children.
Compared with others, Chen Guifen is also willing to consider more from their perspective.
"You should discuss this matter with Miao Yatou and see what she means first. The youngest is still young and is still a few years away from studying. There is no rush to register now."
"Yeah."
Fu Jingyou nodded.
He Hongjin rubbed the back of his head and sighed:
"How can such a thing happen in the countryside? If this matter spreads out, won't people laugh?"
Marry a wife My son is not a bride-in-law.
If a child doesn't take his own surname, doesn't that just give people something to talk about?
He Hongjin had a lot of concerns and felt that this matter was not appropriate from any angle.
Chen Guifen didn't listen to what he said, and Fu Jingyou also told him to leave it alone.
He Hongjin was full of worries and anxious.
In the end, I could only sit down at the big table anxiously and annoyedly, sighing and sucking on the cigarette rod without saying a word.
Lu Miao's consciousness was advanced, and Fu Jingyou rubbed her ears and temples day and night.
After a few years, my personal ideological consciousness has already surpassed that of my contemporaries by a dozen steps.
Fu Jingyou has an open mind and pursues happiness and perfection.
I am not stubborn about the fact that my children can only have their own surname. He had never thought about the matter mentioned by Chen Guifen in the past.
Now that we have reached this point, it actually makes sense if we think about it carefully.
I just don’t know what the exact thoughts of my wife and father-in-law are?
It’s not easy to draw a conclusion rashly, so Fu Jingyou thought that when he went out to do errands in the past two days, he would stop by the county and call back to ask.
Anyway, whatever happens is fine.
After all, children should be fed, drank and educated in front of them.
It doesn't mean that if he changes his name or surname, his son is no longer his son.
I felt sorry that he had been in the car for so long. After he finished eating the noodles, Chen Guifen said that she was going to clean up the side room in the courtyard so that he could rest.
Fu Jingyou didn’t give in.
Chen Guifen said: "You are coming back alone, do you have to go to the trouble of going back there to clean up? Just listen to me and live here!"
Fu Jingyou nodded, "I You can live here, but you don’t have to worry about cleaning up.”
He pointed to the bamboo bed against the wall in the main room and said:
"I will sleep here at night. It is cool to walk here because of the draft."
"I will not sleep if there is a serious place to sleep. "What do you mean when you fall asleep?"
Chen Guifen still wanted to clean up the place, but Fu Jingyou stubbornly pulled her and shook her head.
He Hongjin, who was sighing for a long time next to him, knocked on the cigarette rod and said:
"He can do whatever he wants. If you don't follow his will, he will go there after a while."
Chen Guifen paused for a moment, thinking of the troubles caused by housing a few years ago, and then thought of Fu Jingyou. Because of his temper, he could only relent and give in.
Coming back this time, Fu Jingyou didn’t bring his family with him.
There was nothing to concentrate on along the way. He came back from a peaceful sleep in the sleeper workshop, feeling very energetic.
Chen Guifen thought that he was tired from riding in the car and wanted him to take a rest and lie down to sleep.
He doesn't.
He and He Hongjin took the keys and ran to the east threshing floor to look at the old house.
It is the time when the busy farming season alternates. After the early season rice is harvested, the mid-season rice and late rice are harvested again.
After the millet has been cut, the millet must be threshed.
We are threshing millet, and at the same time, we are busy planting double-season millet seedlings for the second season of this year.
In the south, rice is the staple food, and most of the crops grown are rice.
Fu Jingyou walked on the bank of the pond and looked along the road.
The sun is scorching hot, and the temperature is still high at this point.
The heat wave smell is getting higher and higher, and there are not many people in the farmland with colorful harvest colors.
In the area near the bamboo forest, there are still people busy on the threshing floor next to the house.
Looking at it from a distance, it seems that they are trying to catch the dust and gravel in the grain pile when there is a slight breeze at the moment.
Several figures of old and young were intertwined and busy.
Fu Jingyou headed that way back to his home. People on the threshing floor recognized him and stopped.
I walked curiously to the shade of the jujube tree in front of the door and chatted with him:
"Xiao Liu is back?!"
"I heard that your wife just gave birth to another baby for you. Are you coming back to celebrate the full moon party this time?" (End of Chapter)