Chapter 305 Everyone likes polite people, but they will not respect polite people
Woman: "As for my brother, I suggest we go back to live, right?"
Lin Feng nodded: " Yes, you don’t have to cook for yourself anyway , enjoy a meal if you can.
Just calm down and solve problems when they happen.
Don't try to escape, just get tougher. Get your groove back.
Unless you don't want to let it go and you really want to make a clean break. "
The woman suddenly fell silent.
Lin Feng frowned and said solemnly: "Sister-in-law, you are severely unsocial. Your daughter will be ostracized and isolated by other classmates at school. Maybe even now Being bullied.
Let me say it again, she is not so beautiful because of how dirty her grandfather was.
It's because you didn't teach her the ability to solve problems.
They say a mother is strong!
After being weak all my life, can I stand up for my daughter? ”
Being bullied?
The woman suddenly remembered those campus 80 videos she had watched during the day...
My daughter...
The woman's heart suddenly felt like a heavy blow, but her eyes gradually became firmer.
She said solemnly: "I understand, thank you, brother."
Lin Feng then smiled and nodded: "Okay, let's go. At this point, my daughter may have just finished her homework and gone to bed.
Go over and kiss her forehead,
Hug her,
By the way, I want to tell my daughter: Mom is very powerful now, and no one, not grandpa or anyone else, can hurt you in the future. ”
“hhao~”
A very brief word, but almost everyone heard the vibrato and crying.
But this time it is not cowardice,
It’s awakening.
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On the barrage.
“Mom is very powerful now.. Damn, I burst into tears for no reason!!”
“What the hell, what are you talking about are trivial things, why am I moved? What the hell (crying to death).”
“As a mother, I will fight with anyone who dares to make my daughter suffer.”
"Since I listened to Big Brother's live broadcast, my tears have become lower and lower, but my internal friction has become less and less, and my heart has become stronger and stronger (Rose)."
"I am 18 years old and almost male, but I actually love listening to Big Brother My sister-in-law’s family is short-lived, am I abnormal? (Crying to death).”
“I am a 14-year-old girl in the second grade of junior high school, and I also like to watch it (cover my face)”
Hahahahaha.
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The woman left.
Lin Feng took a puff of cigarette, leaned back on the chair for a moment and said, "Isn't this the case now?
Who doesn't have an ignorant old man in his family?
It's easy to say, escape, move out, or stay away.
We say out of sight, out of mind.
But in fact, how many people can truly be out of sight and out of mind?
Most people stayed away and were still internally consumed.
There is no way,
You are not saying that you are divorced, you really just don’t live with him, then you two families, you don’t have to think about this, it won’t cost you. .
As long as we are a family, if something happens, they will still call you. Can you stay away?
Just like this sister-in-law,
she is far away now and has moved out with her daughter.
Do you think she is okay?
Are you tired of it?
If I didn’t bother her, I wouldn’t stay awake in the middle of the night to connect the microphone.
So use your brains and think about what the problem is?
Don’t avoid problems, but learn to teach your children to solve problems.
It is also said that character is difficult to change.
How difficult is it?
That's because you haven't had any pain.
Remember,
People are never woken up by anyone, they are always woken up by themselves.
It was a good life back then, and he would definitely not change.
He won’t change even if he has a little money in his hand.
Life is very comfortable, and he will not change.
Unless a person is pushed to the same point, he will not change.
When will it be changed?
Your wife and children must have separated.
When you returned home, your parents disowned you.
The boss fired you,
Wherever you go, people look down on you.
At this time, you will definitely change.
So there is only one premise for change, which is to be forced into helplessness.
Both women are pretty good,
One is severe and the other is moderate.
Still not changing?
Waiting to die.
I have always emphasized that many times people just have too strong a sense of morality and their lives are very burdensome.
As long as the sense of morality is low, life is actually quite easy.
If you are as thick-skinned as I am now, I will not suffer any loss no matter where I go. ”
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On the barrage.
“You are so thick-skinned like me that you won’t suffer anywhere (dog head).”
“I have seen people scolding netizens, but this is the first time I have seen someone scolding my own anchor. It’s so funny. Hahahaha. ”
“Brother, come on, my eldest brother is crazy every day (sunglasses)”
Ha ha ha ha.
“Indeed, it’s hard to change your personality. That’s because it never hurts (thumb).”
“People are never woken up by anyone, they are all woken up by pain. It’s so essential. (Cow)"
"Brother. You are absolutely right. I was forced to come out. My relatives and friends looked down upon me, and my brother also looked down upon me. I left my hometown in the Northeast to work in anger and did not return home for five years. I now have a savings of 100 W.”
Niubi buddy!
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Lin Feng: "But sometimes there is no need to be too extreme. It's like someone on the barrage said that my sister-in-law went back to fight hard and was beaten by her father-in-law. What should I do?
I have actually taught her the method. Yeah.
The weak use the Tao, and the opposite is the Tao.
What kind of person you are, use what kind of method.
Make good use of your character.
Be sure to defeat your opponents within your own areas of advantage.
What does that mean?
I have a strong personality and I will be tough.
Do you like to curse?
Then I scolded you worse than you.
Do you like breaking things?
You can smash it, and I will hand it over to you. Whatever is expensive, I will hand over to you. Do you like to hit people?
I may not be able to beat you, but I can scratch your face twice and let you go out and be laughed at for a week.
That's my personality, I'm just tough, let's see who gives in first.
If you have a weak personality and you scold me, I will cry.
Open the door and sit on the floor crying.
As long as you are not afraid of embarrassment, he will be the embarrassment.
Cry twice more and you can still handle it.
The weak use the Tao, and the opposite is the movement of the Tao. This is where it comes from.
We say that a saint handles things with humility, the best is like water, and the light is like dust.
How can we be like the light and the dust?
That is,
Be harmonious with its light, be with its dust, dampen its sharpness, and resolve its confusion!
No kidding, brothers, this is the principle summarized by the saints two thousand years ago, and it is still applicable today. "
...
On the barrage.
"A sage handles things with humility, his superior goodness is like water, and his light is like dust (Niubi). ”
“Be harmonious with its light, be with its dust, dampen its sharpness, and resolve its confusion. . . Brother is so knowledgeable. ”
"Confused, I seem to understand, but I don't seem to understand (confused)."
"Isn't that how Heguang Tongchen explained it (grin)."
"I remember it was sunshine. Shining into the house through the window, we can see that the beam of sunlight is full of dust. The fusion state of sunlight and dust is that of light and dust. "
"Haha, the translation is really good, so, this is an adjective? (dog head). "
" The elder brother said that he knows the truth, but he doesn't know how to use it. Not knowing is false knowledge. Having your own understanding and putting it into action is called the unity of knowledge and action.”
Hiss~
“I’m taught!”
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Lin Feng: "For example, I,
some relatives in my family just don't speak well, have very low IQ and low emotional intelligence,
Many people will walk around when they see them in the village.
But I'm not afraid. As long as you mess with me, I will definitely fight back.
With my talk, he will definitely not be able to defeat me.
So when I went to their house, he was quite polite to me.
What does this mean?
People still serve food separately.
If you have really been in contact with people, you will know that no one is a fool.
That's what his character is, he just depends on others and what to eat.
Isn’t he a straight-tempered man? Doesn’t he speak rudely? When I speak more rudely than him,
Look at the next time he sees me, will he still dare to talk nonsense? Already?
Aren't you drunk and crazy? Don’t you like to get drunk and curse people?
If I were his leader, would he dare to drink madly at me when he was drunk at the wine table? Do you dare to scold the leader?
Anyone who has drunk alcohol knows that it is just to use the strength of alcohol to make things difficult for those who are less capable than him.
Remember brothers,
In this society, everyone likes polite people, but they will not respect polite people.
Because it is human nature to watch others prepare food. "
...
On the barrage.
"Everyone likes polite people, but they will not respect polite people. . I’m really convinced! "
"It is human instinct to look at what others are eating, and the eldest brother is telling the truth again (grin). ”
"It's so true. I just arrived at a new company, and I was bullied by a colleague. Every time I spoke to others, he had a gentle attitude. When he spoke to me, he had a commanding attitude. He didn't even call me by my name. I endured two "Yue, my boyfriend asked me to talk back, and I started talking to him, but he actually became honest later (smile)"
"It's exactly the same. I'm like this too (lower head)."
"Don't be afraid. If you are bullied too much, you will rebound. Just like me, now I am the leader of the unit (dog head)."
"The shrew in my neighborhood (sunglasses)."
"The gangster in my dormitory (raised eyebrows)."
"I am Shenjing Bing of No. 3 Middle School (laughing and crying)."
"I am new here, so I would like to ask if there are any good people in this room. (Shivering)"
Pfft~
Hahahahaha.
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Lin Feng glanced at the barrage and said: "Good people may not be good, and bad people may not be bad.
I said,
People are three-dimensional.
I can have many sides.
In the face of bad people, I am worse than him
When facing good people, I treat them sincerely.
A contradiction?
No contradiction!
So don’t worry about good guys and bad guys, you have to see through the phenomena to see the essence.
If you have to keep your sense of morality very high, if you continue to consume yourself internally, you will cause problems.
There are a lot of rotten people in society, and it’s not just a problem of relatives.
So it’s OK if it doesn’t matter.
Some people say that what should I do if my father-in-law beats the child when he goes back?
This is the bottom line of principle.
No matter how weak-tempered you are, you can't just cry. I must fight you.
You said you couldn't beat him, but you have nails, right?
Whether you can beat me or not, I have to scratch you twice.
You said I would scratch you, how serious is this thing?
That’s not the case either.
Maybe not even a minor injury.
But if you scratch him on the face and make him suffer, it will stay for at least a week.
In the village, let’s be honest, those old ladies love to chew their tongues.
One by one, they will crickets behind their backs. After drinking, they will go to their daughter-in-law’s room to harass her. This is not a serious thing, but it ended up making my daughter-in-law scratch her face. Damn it!
I tell you, he will no longer be able to hold his head up in the village.
See if he dares to do it again. ”
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On the barrage.
"If you can't beat him, just scratch his face, let him lose his glory, and let the villagers cricket him behind his back hahahahahaha"
"This old crooked thing is so dirty that he has to jump into the Yellow River to wash it off Hahahahaha.”
“Shrimp pig heart, it has to be my brother (laughing)”
"This guy has so much social experience, he knows better than me, an authentic rural person (thumbs up)."
"Big brother is really comprehensive, no matter in love or life (amazing)."
< br>"I would like to call you a friend of women (dog head)."
"Strategist: Get out!!"
Hahahahahaha.
(End of this chapter)