Lin Feng: "If you don't have a bottom line, you can't win the respect of others. If you hit you, you won't go away, so he will take advantage of you.
I guess if you keep putting up with it, you’ll still get beaten in the ping pong,
Although the word ping-pong sounds cruel, it is definitely like ping-pong when playing,
Because you think, if he hits you, you will definitely hit the furniture and tableware at home, which must be ping pong.
They are all raised by their parents,
As for that?
I don’t have to pay any price for beating you. You still want to reconcile and forgive him,
You are what the Master calls a saint.
You are so big-hearted that even if someone beats you with a ping-pong, you won't get angry.
You have entered the realm of saints.
I am just a mortal,
So don't bother me with this kind of thing in the future. ”
Next one.
Ding~
"Hello, big brother."
It's a girl.
Lin Feng: "Come on, sister, tell me your problem."
Girl: “I went home to visit my grandpa a while ago, and I bought him a pair of Huazi, and then the elderly would be more reluctant to smoke them,
He might just take some out and scatter them when guests come. Basically, he just puts them in the cabinet.
Then my uncle’s daughter was in the rebellious stage in junior high school. She took the flower to the school to smoke, and then the teacher caught her.
Maybe the teacher’s words were difficult to hear when communicating with my uncle,
Because my cousin is rebellious and not sensible at school, this kind of thing often happens,
So my uncle exploded that time, but instead of scolding his child, he came over and scolded me.
He said that I shouldn't buy that cigarette, that I was good for nothing, and that no one in my family loved me. It was just a very unpleasant thing to say, and I was really crushed at the time. ”
Lin Feng said speechlessly: "I'm not my sister. What's the use of just collapsing? You had to fight back.
You said you didn't fight back at the time, but now you're here to review it.
I was convinced too.
Let me tell you, what is the most embarrassing thing for people is that you didn’t win the quarrel at that time, and you go back and review it,
If you don't resume trading, people will scold you.
When you review the game, you hurt yourself four or five times, which is equivalent to others scolding you four or five times.
Think for yourself whether this is true.
Originally, your uncle scolded you once, saying that people didn’t like you and that everyone hated you. Originally, the scolding was over, but you didn’t take it seriously, so it just passed away.
But you can't let it go in your heart. Every time you think about it, every time you go over it, it's like your uncle scolded you twice.
What your uncle said once hurt you four or five times.
Your uncle is Bian Que,
The one with the poison, one layer, two layers, three layers, four layers, five layers of poison,
If someone is a level A, you will have a fucking big move. ”
. . . . . . .
On the barrage.
"Your uncle Bian Que added five layers of poison to you, hahahaha."
"If you don't review the offer, they will scold you once. If you review the offer, they will scold you four or five times... That's right, it's me (crying to death)."
"I don't know how to quarrel, and I always feel uncomfortable reviewing it (grin)."
"I found that people in the Dragon Kingdom like to review the match whenever they lose (covering face and laughing)."
"That's how much content there is in the Dragon Kingdom's more than 5,000 years of history? There are two thick volumes of modern history, both of which are bullied accounts (dog heads)."
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Ha ha ha ha.
"Five thousand years of civilization are covered in one stroke, and a hundred years of humiliation are written in three volumes (sunglasses)."
"It has a long history, this is called traditional style hahaha."
"No, then don't foreigners need to review it? (laughing and crying)"
"Mainly in foreign countries, all living beings are equal instruments. If you win, your opponent's life will restart. If you lose, your own life will restart, so there is no need to review it at all (Wang Chai)."
Absolutely.
Hahahahaha.
. . . . . . .
Girl: "No, the reason why I didn't scold her back at that time was because I was afraid that it would be difficult for my grandmother to do it because the family relationship in the whole family is quite complicated.
And my mother didn’t defend me at the time.
Then I suddenly realized something, that is, he said something, and what he said was quite right, that is, none of my family members really loved me. ”
Lin Feng rolled his eyes: "I love you, you are a hammer, you are a soft bag.
If you don't fight for your own rights, you still need others to support you?
If you can't do it yourself, blame your parents, you are really useless. ”
Girl: "..."
Lin Feng knocked on the small blackboard: "Let me tell you sister, I have understood a truth since I was a child. When relatives quarrel, parents always get along with each other. What does that mean?
No matter who wins or loses the fight, the outcome is the same.
For example, if my cousin snatched my toy today, what can my mother say as her aunt?
It must mean that my cousin is young, so please let him go.
Then you feel wronged.
But to be honest, if my cousin snatched my toy, I would beat him up right then and there.
What would his cousin’s mother say?
Damn, whoever asked you to steal your cousin's toys should be beaten.
The worst thing is that she told her cousin behind her back that your cousin is bad and don't play with him in the future.
Your mother won't really beat you because your cousin cries, so she will only comfort her with a few words of comfort.
But I snatched the toy back and beat him.
Do you understand what I mean?
All things between relatives and family members are nothing but harmony.
If you lose the fight, you will be in trouble.
You win the fight, but you're still on the same page.
Because there is conflict on both sides, I have to stand up first to protect my own rights. ”
. . . . . .
On the barrage.
"That little thing about relatives, if you lose, you will be with Xini, but if you win, you will still be with Xini..."
Damn it!
suddenly see the light.
"I didn't know this until I turned 32. The last time my aunt said something to me, I didn't dare to say anything to her because she was concerned about the other person's face. But when I got home afterwards, my mother said I was useless and that my second uncle's sister had a bad mouth. It’s the kind of scolding with elders. I thought to myself at that time, aren’t they all elders? What can I do? That’s what it meant (covering face)”
"Because there is peace and harmony on both sides, it is so quintessential (strong) to say that you have to stand up first to safeguard your own rights and interests."
"No wonder he is called Big Brother. He is really clear-headed, reacts quickly, and hits the point directly. (Thumbs up)"
. . . . . .
Lin Feng: "So don't say that your mother doesn't protect you. That's because you don't protect your own rights. What can your mother do?
Uncle is her brother.
Only if you win the argument can your mother have an angle to defend you and stand on your side.
Then she would say to her uncle, "Oh, she is a junior. You are such an adult, why are you arguing with your child?"
So now that you don’t dare to scold or fight for yourself, how can your mother support you?
You are holding back your tears and dare not speak. You are like a doormat. What can your mother say to you?
If I were your mother, I would curse in my heart, you useless thing.
If he scolds you, you won’t scold him?
But can I say this clearly?
Didn’t I just teach you how to do the following and disown your relatives?
What will others say about me then?
Now that you are not fighting for your own rights and interests, who will protect your rights and interests from others?
Between relatives, I told you, they are all in harmony.
You loser, you originally had a grudge against your uncle, but now you have brought this grudge into your own home, affecting your family relationship.
Uncle Fool, just say a word, and you will start to have civil strife in your own family, and you will start to doubt whether your mother really loves you.
So I said if your uncle gets a flat A, you'll be fine with your fucking big move.
You are such a waste! ”
. . . . . .
On the barrage.
"At the age of 38, I have benefited a lot from listening to this little boy's words."
"Suddenly I thought of myself. My parents both love me, but they are all in silence, as slow as I can't understand at all (crying to death)."
"If I had heard this before, I would not admit it, but since I had children, parents have really had this kind of mentality. When children have conflicts with relatives, even though I argue with them, in my heart I hope that my children will win. But this thing can be used to teach children openly (cover their faces)”
"This may be the difference between the north and the south. If I were my cousin, my mother would not reply to the letter, and you would probably give me a slap (grin) on the spot."
"Maybe your mother is too concerned about face, but let me ask, did you beat your cousin, and will your cousin not dare to fight with you in the future (dog head)."
Damn it!
Enlightenment. (End of chapter)