Speaking of which, this is what Hongye does. She thinks she has some knowledge about how to take care of children. But this child of my own cannot be analyzed according to common sense.
Hong Ye has also analyzed that a child born from such a pampered and indulgent family shouldn't be like Lu Manyue now. She probably has some temperament problems, and she doesn't have to endure hardships in studies.
But you said, forget it, just one Lu Manyue, even though his temper is really not good. But people learn to admit that they have never come down.
Then there are Lu Yiyi and Fat Ya. They are also spoiled children at home. They are good in temperament and studies.
You know, the family favored Lu Yangshang and Fat Ya even more than Lu Manyue. Hongye believed that their Lu Manyue would not be pampered by her at least.
Hongye feels that she should not be prejudiced against anyone in the future. She should not have preconceived ideas and should learn more about them. What she summarized doesn't work.
Hongye didn't dare to tell her second sister-in-law, Fang Yuan, about this knowledge, for fear that her second sister-in-law would think she was prejudiced against Lu Manyue.
Only when chatting with Ding Min did Hongye dare to sigh. She had never thought that their Lu Manyue would be like this.
Ding Min said very seriously: "You have to admit, regardless of whether you are spoiling or controlling, our family has never lacked attention to our children."
No one dares to deny this. Who can do this in their family, where the whole family revolves around their children.
The second sister-in-law is so precious about money. In the years when Lu Yiyi was young, the second sister-in-law was focused on Lu Yiyi. No matter whether she kicked Lu Yiyi or took her child to the construction site, it was all a matter of course. Lu Yiyi puts it first.
The second sister-in-law's thoughts were all about Lu Yiyi, and it wasn't until Lu Yiyi went to elementary school that the second sister-in-law started to take off again with the little money she had.
In their family, Lu Manyue has been hanging around Lu Chuan since she was a child. Her mother-in-law usually takes her with her, and her father-in-law can ride a tricycle with her grandson and grandson, and the child can go wherever he wants.
Not to mention Fat Ya, there was a large group of people surrounding her. Otherwise Hongye wouldn't have said that their children were spoiled.
In contrast, she, the mother, pays the least attention to her children and spends the least time with her children. Thinking about it, Hongye felt very ashamed.
Hongye: "Sister-in-law Wu, you are right. I can't just look at one side. Speaking of which, I still have to lament that my daughter is better than me. I am very ashamed that I am the one who spends the least time with her and pays the least attention to her in my family. I also I’m jealous that she grew up with so many people around her.”
Ding Min sighed, this was both right and wrong: "I was born happier than you. After all, I grew up next to my biological parents, who also have several brothers. As long as I can't get along with Fang Yuan, I have to be in the same family as Fang Yuan. Basically everyone admits that my life is pretty good.”
This is true, Hongye nodded. Who can compare with my sister-in-law for her status in her parents' family? Not an ordinary person.
Ding Min continued: "But compared with Fat Ya, I feel like I am nothing. Just talking about being spoiled by my family makes me jealous of my own children."
The two couldn't help but laugh. It was at this time that they could be so candid about their backgrounds. Otherwise, Ding Min would never speak out.
Even a girl like Ding Min, who had been pampered since birth, couldn't compare. Hongye suddenly felt more relieved: "There are some things that you can't fight for."
Ding Min: "Fang Yuan is right when she says that reincarnation is a technical job. My daughter is more skilled than me. Your daughter is also more skilled than you."
When Father Lu saw these two people talking about this issue, he began to think about going there to learn this technology: "Feudal superstition is not good. If this technology really exists, I don't think it will be spread to others." The old man thought If he has this skill, he will definitely not pass it on casually. Where to study is a question. The Lu family is persistent in their pursuit of technology.
What Father Lu didn't say was that he also envied the small life of his grandchildren. Isn't it because they had a hard time growing up that they treated their children hard? They had to make up for the good life they didn't have for their children.
Hongye looked at the serious expression on her husband's father's face and felt that some flowers should not be said nonsense: "Ahem, Dad, you are teasing me."
Father Lu didn’t dare to say, I really want to learn. Doesn't that look timid? He chuckled twice: "It's okay, I'm just kidding. Don't worry, I really want to learn this technique, but I don't have the equipment."
Ding Min was really confused. Someone was really promoting this thing, right? "Do you need any other equipment?" Ding Min was ready to catch the liar.
Father Lu spread his hands: "Why don't you die first? I don't want to die yet. Don't worry, I don't care about this technology."
Hongye's face turned dark. Why did you say this? Pulling my husband and dad to bah bah bah at the door. That technology is not there, but this technology is proficient.
Father Lu quickly got out of the way. Lose your share. If he really said that he wanted to learn, he would probably make people laugh.
Hongye and Ding Min were left. They looked at each other and smiled, but they did not dare to discuss this issue randomly. Isn't this just looking for something to do? My daughter is growing up well. They are just so blind.
When Qian Baobao came back, he was carrying a pocket full of books. Hongye took a look at it, but none of them were idle books, and some of them she couldn't understand.
I must admit that when other people’s children go out to play, they play better than other people’s children. Children can play better than others. You cannot compare children with children. It is rare for them to see such self-disciplined children as Qian Baobao.
Ding Min muttered to Hongye: "Do you know how this child is treated at home?"
Hong Ye nodded. Qian Baobao raised this child with support. Under the supervision of Wang Cuixiang, if you treat my granddaughter a little bit, I will take the child back to my hometown. The Qian family does not dare to treat this little ancestor badly or neglect it at all. . Because if the granddaughter is taken away, the daughter-in-law and uncle will have to follow her.
Hongye: "I still know. I think maybe our family has good feng shui." It's still feudal superstition.
Father Lu just opened the door and came out. He happened to hear this sentence and actually agreed with it. Then he looked around at his yard. He said to Hongye quite seriously: "I don't think this is feudal superstition, it's true."
Ding Min scratched his scalp and didn't know how to continue.
Speaking of which, my uncle-in-law seems to be a little out of touch recently, as if he suddenly looks younger. He is still mature and prudent, but there are some changes.
It turns out that the people who are less willing to express themselves and talk less are the ones closest to them who are less silent.
Ding Min was not the only one to notice this change in Father Lu. Lu Chuan and Fang Yuan also discovered it. Even Hongye now realizes that her husband seems to be different from before.
The Lu family not only paid a lot of attention to their children, but also paid a lot of attention to the elderly in the family. This matter should not be taken lightly. (End of chapter)