Lin Feng: "Stop arguing, buddy, just talk about your problem."
Boy: "Actually, I don't have any special problem. I just like my eldest brother so much that I want to come up and talk to him."
Lin Feng waved his hand: "That's enough, we've said it, dad has called us, and our wish has been fulfilled, then I'll kick you out."
Don't, don't, don't.
The boy hurriedly said: "I've been waiting in line for a long time and finally got connected. Let me ask a question, brother, do you think love will disappear?"
Lin Feng smiled: "I just said there was no problem, but you are so cruel when I ask."
The boy said with a smile: "Because I have never been in love, but I see that all the buddies around me are in love, so I am a little afraid of falling in love now."
Lin Feng took a puff of cigarette and said: "Come on, buddy, listen to me.
Love never disappears.
It just gets calmer.
What can disappear and change is actually just love.
It may be a strong liking, very close to love, but it is not love.
Liking and loving are two different things.
Let me give you an analogy.
I liked this Apple 15 very much when I bought it.
I think this is my favorite phone.
But when 16 comes out next month, I will feel that 16 is my favorite again.
Do you understand?
I really like this thing, but no matter how much I like it, I can't help but buy it whenever a new one comes out.
Because I always have new needs.
If you like it, you can change it.
I like you very much today, and I like him very much tomorrow.
Liking is the same as those impulses when he was young. He just has a strong liking and a good impression, but it is not absolute.
But love,
It can be changed over time, and he will not replace it casually.
Even if we are separated, no matter what happens to us, I still think you are the best. This is love.
Just like many feelings of the older generation,
For example, my grandparents.
When they reach this age, they will no longer say I love you or what I have done for you,
You will no longer be able to express what love is as powerfully as you did when you were young? How much do I love you?
No.
Grandpa couldn't speak at that time, how could he still say I love you?
But he still remembers what my grandma likes to eat for breakfast and what flowers she likes.
Every time when the time comes, maybe three or four days, the flower gets old and my grandfather has to replace it.
Including buying breakfast.
When I was young, my grandfather said that when I bought you breakfast, you should get up early and eat it, and he would urge my grandma.
But not anymore when you get older.
Although my grandpa still buys breakfast for my grandma and puts it on the table every day, he will not urge my grandma to get up and eat it quickly.
My grandma won’t say, thank you for buying us breakfast.
I won’t express my love so strongly.
After my grandma got up, she ate her breakfast silently.
This is their ordinary morning, but do they really not love each other?
No.
Love just becomes calmer after the passage of time.
I just passed it by very calmly,
It has been integrated into the details of life.
If my grandma is not here today, or if my grandpa has something to do today, my grandma will call my dad in the middle of the night. Will your grandpa come back?
My grandma is in a hospital today. My grandpa told me not to lie to me. What's going on with my grandma? Is there something wrong? Said he wanted to take a look.
I called my dad at two o'clock in the evening to go see my grandma.
So you said love disappeared? ”
. . . . . .
On the barrage.
"I envy the love of my grandparents."
"On my 80th birthday, my grandpa even kissed my grandma and asked me to take a commemorative photo. I love him so much. They have known each other since they were young and have experienced war, poverty, and peaceful life and death. My grandpa has been gone for more than ten years, and my grandma still kisses me every day before going to bed. I would say good night to my grandpa’s photo, which is really loving.”
"I cried when I heard it." "I envy a loving family that will also nourish the younger generations (thumbs up)."
"So love will not disappear, it will only become calmer and blend into every detail of life. Brother said it so well."
. . . . . . .
Lin Feng: "Why do some people question love? It's because you have never encountered it.
When you meet them, you will know that they exist in the world.
Why do many people say that I broke my head because of love? It's because you have water in your head. They don't love you at all, you just love them.
Just like those sisters-in-law who come to Lianmai, you know that the man cheated on you before marriage and beat you, but you still want to get married to him.
In the end, he was hurt and said that there is no love in this world.
It's not nonsense.
That's not love, you're in a daze, you've got water in your head.
If you have not encountered love, you should not criticize its existence.
Because someone in this world has met him.
My grandparents are,
My parents are.
Because I have seen it, I will always believe that love exists. ”
. . . . . .
On the barrage.
"Why do some people question love? It's because you haven't encountered it before... Damn, I broke my guard and cried."
"Love is like a ghost. I have only heard of it but never seen it. For 35 years, I have been weighing the pros and cons (crying)."
"I heard a saying that true love is a very advanced dimension. It is when the energy fields of two people match each other, which is equivalent to finding another self. Therefore, it is very difficult and hard to find."
"I really want to cry, it's impossible to meet me in this life~"
"I can't find it either. My husband won't let me look for it (crying to death)."
ah?
Damn you,
Hahahahaha.
. . . . . . .
Boy: "Brother, I listened to what you said. Do you have any suggestions on how to make yourself more lucky and meet your true love?"
Lin Feng rolled his eyes and said: "I am fucking Yuelao, why did you come here to make a wish?
I’m single myself, and I’m still helping you find true love?
I really like it.
I can't help you.
Because love is never found, the prerequisite for falling in love is that you cannot fall in intentionally.
One last piece of advice:
When you meet a boy or a girl and they treat you unconditionally,
cherish!
Because he really may be the ceiling in your life.
Don’t do it,
Don't be mean.
Like some girls, she may not be very beautiful, but she can accompany you through the most difficult days in the world,
If you can meet her, the ceiling is already reached.
Missed,
It means you don’t have the ability to love and be loved. ”
. . . . . . .
On the barrage.
"When a person treats you unconditionally, he may already be the ceiling in your life..."
"I've lost my ceiling. (Cry to death)."
"Me too (ugh)!"
"I wish I had heard this earlier."
"It's useless. If you're under a certain age, you'll never understand unless you really lose it once."
"Really, I realized in hindsight, now the retribution has come (crying)."
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[Military Advisor’s remarks: When you were young, you thought you would be connected to many people’s hearts, but later you discovered that such a thing only happens once or twice in your life. 】(End of this chapter)