Lin Feng: "Okay, brothers, it's almost three o'clock,
There are many people in the live broadcast room today chatting with you until now,
We can't talk anymore.
I saw many people laughing so hard that they couldn't sleep when they said they were going to bed.
You can't fucking fall asleep listening to cross talk.
Got it!
The last three wheat!
Even after sleeping.
Come
Ding~
"Hello, big brother."
It's a girl.
Lin Feng: "Hey, hey, why are you crying right after you come up? The platform has a mechanism. Douyin will be removed for you later."
The girl quickly wiped away her tears and said, "I'm sorry, brother, I was beaten by my mother today. I'm very sad."
Lin Feng smiled and said: "Hey, what do I mean?
I'm telling you about my sister,
My parents also beat me when I was a child, but I dare say that it didn’t hurt at all when my mother beat me,
That's just for scratching,
Sometimes my mother might feel that she had beaten him very hard, so she would pull my father and say, "Look, his hands are all red from the beating."
What is red?
A fall outside would be worse than this,
I was just pretending to be in pain.
Of course,
It would be different if my dad beat me. My dad really beat me.
The belt made a jingling sound to me.
That's really a father's love. . What a landslide.
Now I feel a little scared when I think about it.
Sister,
Let me ask,
Your mother only beats you, but your father didn't. ”
Girl: "No, my mother beat me."
Lin Feng nodded: "That's okay, sister."
. . . . . . .
On the barrage.
“My mother’s beating didn’t hurt at all, I was just pretending.”
"Mom: It's better to be gentle."
Ha ha ha ha.
"Father's love is like a landslide. Who understands this nonsense? It makes me laugh so hard hahahahaha."
"My father is different. My father's love is like a mountain falling apart (dog head)."
6
. . . . . .
Lin Feng: "Tell me, why did mom hit you?"
Girl: "Brother, I am no longer a child. I am 23 years old, but I am still beaten by my mother.
Woohoo. .
The thing is like this, our family runs a small business, selling clothes.
Then I didn't do well in my undergraduate degree, so I went to study for a master's degree in English for a year and came back.
My major is Ui design,
I originally wanted to find a job in this field, but I couldn’t find one during the spring recruitment this year.
I think I might update my portfolio or something and wait for the fall recruitment before continuing.
Now my parents ask me to help them in the store,
But I don’t get along with them. My mother is the kind of person who says one day you don’t wear makeup, and then tomorrow she says your eyes are swollen from sleep, and the day after tomorrow she says you have some minor faults, how about you being short,
So sometimes I don’t want to listen to him,
The conflict has intensified recently, so I blocked my ears.
When I go to work, they give me some living expenses, the salary is about 6,000 yuan, and then I run around the store,
I have indeed had some problems recently. I may have spoken a little harshly, I may have been lazy, and I went quite late at night, so they got very angry and said something.
Sometimes people say angry things, and I would also say it’s because of bad genes,
But that's because he always compares me with other kids.
I talked back to her and she hit me. ”
Lin Feng: "What was used? Where was it hit?"
Girl: "Just slapped me several times with my hand."
Lin Feng nodded: "Okay sister, I understand everything.
Now wipe your tears and listen to me slowly wipe them away for you.
It doesn't matter whether you are 23 or 13, it is wrong to hit someone.
But sister,
I tell the truth,
Your mother is quite tolerant of you.
With a family like yours, I believe many people are envious of you. ”
? ? ?
The girl looked confused.
Lin Feng took a puff of cigarette and said: "If you often come to my live broadcast room, you should know that I hate parents who use violence.
Even a lot of times I would criticize them in the room.
Therefore, some anti-fans will say that I am causing antagonism between children and conflicts in my original family.
Actually not,
Attentive brothers can find that the parents I criticize are definitely not just as simple as spanking their children,
He has no care and no love yet.
This is what I often say, do it if you don’t have money or love.
Then you say that your parents should not be criticized?
But your situation is different from those.
Because you just said a lot, my overall feeling is that your parents don't express love, but they must have love for you.
For example,
If many people do not do well in the college entrance examination, they will not be able to go to university.
But your mother also sent you to the UK to study for a master's degree for a year, which costs a lot of money.
You definitely need 300,000 a year.
Then, if you don’t find one in spring recruitment, many parents don’t care about him,
But your parents will give you 6,000 yuan, just to let you run around the two stores. Occasionally, if you are lazy and arrive late, people will just say a few words and then forgive you.
If you go to work normally, if you are late, not only will your salary be deducted, but your boss will punish you severely.
You have the same problem and you don't know how to express love.
You clearly want your parents to care about you, but instead you use stimulating methods to deliberately anger your parents,
Then your parents are really angry, they can't control their temper and attack you, and you cry so hard that your father doesn't love your mother anymore.
I'm not targeting you, sister. Do you think so?
You said that your family is in the clothing store business, so you can work in the store normally, even if you are working for someone else,
Your boss will also suggest you put on light makeup first, which is actually a little better,
Because in store business, people always need to have an image.
You said you didn’t put on makeup today, why were your eyes swollen from sleeping last night?
If you are a customer, you should always look at your image to look better.
These are obviously details that you should pay attention to when working normally. If you don't do it, your mother will give you a normal reminder,
If it comes into your mouth, it means that your mother can't stand you and is picking on you?
Is this really the case?
In fact, your mother has been keeping you in check.
Whether you go to college or not, or find a job, isn't your mother always keeping you in the loop?
Normally, many people’s parents cannot give their children the benefit of the doubt.
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They also scolded the children and even beat and scolded them.
So I say compared to many people, sister, you are already very happy. ”
. . . . . . .
On the barrage.
"My parents have been keeping her in the dark, and my eldest brother can see through her true nature at a glance (amazing)."
"Watching this guy's live broadcast, I suddenly realized that I don't have enough brains (cover my face)."
"Really, you thought he was going to be a naughty child, but he ended up criticizing his parents. You thought he was going to criticize his parents for domestic violence, but he suddenly told you that your parents just don't know how to express love, and you feel like a fool (laughing to death)."
"The parents that Big Brother criticizes are all ordinary people who force their children to become great."
right!
"The host's brain is not only big, but also very well-informed. I only heard that this is a problem with their family interaction model. No one is right or wrong. You must learn to accept it. But when the host said it, there was no word acceptance, but everything was clear. Acceptance, awesome.”
. . . . . . .
Lin Feng: "Really sister, your parents are very good and have always been there to protect you. It's just that when both sides have tempers,
There are times when you can't help yourself.
You really don’t know what to do, my brother can give you some advice,
It’s now July, and autumn recruitment is about to begin.
No matter what kind of work you are doing, whether you are satisfied with it or not, you have to do it first.
If you don't want to live with your parents, just rent a house outside.
As our financial capabilities improve, our right to speak will gradually increase.
Once your parents know that you have the ability to live independently from them, they will slowly realize that you have an independent personality and will slowly respect you.
Similarly, when we have our own careers and become busy at work, we will know what real work is like.
It doesn’t mean that you can get on the subway every day without wearing anything but slippers. It doesn’t mean that you can go to work later today because you were tired of watching dramas yesterday.
No,
If you are a little late, your salary will be deducted, and your boss will give you a hard time.
No one out there can tell you the truth.
Only after you have experienced it, you will find that your family is actually very good to you, and you will also know that it is not easy for your parents to start a business, and it is not easy to keep a business,
We can feel a little relieved in our hearts. ”
The girl was silent.
Lin Feng: "Of course, this is my advice to you after you find a job. What about the period before you find a job?
I'll teach you a trick.
You can't preach either.
Let me tell you from some of my own experiences, hoping to give you some inspiration.
My mother would beat me when I was a child, but my mother was easily beaten by me.
I can't laugh when I say this.
The merit of a smile for ten years is gone.
Be serious.
My mother has a very soft personality. Every time she criticizes and educates me, I will PUA my mother.
I would say, Mom, do you love me or not? You just want me to learn. You just like the way I look in your eyes. You don’t love me at all.
After saying that, I pretended to cry.
My mother would explain very nervously, "No, mom, she really loves you, why doesn't she love you anymore?"
The more I will irritate my mother, you just don’t love me, why would you beat me, why would you say that I am not as good as other people’s children?
In fact, my mother just patted me lightly,
It doesn't hurt at all.
But I pretended to be in pain, and I cried and said that you just hit me, and you didn’t respect me at all.
My mother started crying.
I can't stop crying.
So I'm very comfortable at home.
Extremely comfortable.
If I don't do my homework, my mother will only cry if she dares to say something about me.
Later, a sister from my mother came to live at my house for a while and told my mother that your child is too lazy and she shouldn't care about it.
My mother started to control me. If I didn’t do my homework, I would be punished by standing still.
But I'm not afraid, I can pua.
I told my mother that if you gave birth to your own child, let others take care of it.
From then on, when my aunt is nice to me, I will call her mom.
My mother was so worried at the time that she cried and explained quickly.
My life is comfortable again.
Can you understand me, sister?
If your mother beats you, the sky is not falling.
With some wisdom, you can live as comfortably as I do. ”
. . . . . .
On the barrage.
"But I'm not afraid, I can PUA (dog head)."
"This is the first time I heard about PUA mom. Hahahaha."
"What's going on? The worst it can do is make my mother cry (cover her face)."
"What a special talent! If I had learned such a trick earlier, why would I have been beaten (crying to death) for so many years."
Hahahahaha. (End of chapter)