Chapter 261: See you again in the next life
The breakdown of many marriages is not because the relationship between the two people is not good enough, but because of the many trivial matters and small conflicts in life, which wear down each other day after day, and eventually even change. became a negative number.
Of course, there are many reasons why the two of them have conflicts over trivial matters in life. Affairs and changes in financial status account for a large proportion.
When a man or woman has a new love outside, when they return home, they will naturally start to compare themselves with their mistress. Many of the problems and shortcomings that the other party could tolerate in the past will suddenly disappear. It's unbearable. This is especially obvious for women.
If a woman has an affair, her heart is basically no longer at home and with her husband. She may feel guilty at first and become nice to her husband out of compensation, but this is definitely the case. Won't last long. Slowly, they feel that their husbands are not as good as their mistresses. I will think about divorce.
And if a man has an affair, unless he and his wife are at odds early on, they rarely want a divorce, especially after having children.
From this point of view, men have a much stronger sense of responsibility for their families than women.
After having an affair, many women have given up their original sense of responsibility for their husbands and their families. This may not be the case for men.
Another issue is the very real economic situation.
In real life, a large part of the reason for divorce between men and women is the change in family economic status, which of course mainly refers to the man.
If men become rich, they will become bad. Even if this is not 100% correct, it is at least 80% correct.
In reality, too many men, after making money and becoming rich, abandon the woman who has shared the same joys and sorrows with them and find a young and beautiful one. Or after you have money, even if there are no mistresses outside, you will often go to the club for health care.
Of course, if a man loses money, he will not be able to float. His wife, who seemed to be in love with him at first, is likely to leave him.
Since ancient times, it seems to be natural for men to make money to support the family, while women can just stay at home and look after the children and do housework. If it were the other way around, the man might be stabbed in the spine.
So, when it comes to family, in many cases, men naturally pay more than women.
If a man cannot make money and support his family, it means failure and lack of ability. Women will naturally dislike them, and then it is natural for them to get divorced. Now it is even more commonplace.
This is also the main reason for most divorce cases in China. The so-called emotional discord and personality incompatibility are undoubtedly excuses.
Chen Feng felt that his previous divorce was mainly due to this aspect. He used to have a successful job, a salary of nearly 10,000 yuan, a good career prospect, and he and Shen Lin were very affectionate.
But later, his job was not going well, and his monthly salary was only three to four thousand, which was almost twice as low as Shen Lin. And Shen Lin seemed to have lost confidence in his future.
Then, Shen Lin disliked him in every aspect of her life and made all kinds of criticisms. Of course Chen Feng couldn't help but talk back at first, then the two of them quarreled, and then the two of them had a cold war. .
Then, because of this quarrel and cold war, the relationship between the two slowly faded away, and there was not much left.
Until Chen Feng found out that he was terminally ill and his conscience was still intact, he filed for divorce from her. Although Shen Lin said at the time that she could give him a chance to restore their relationship.
But Chen Feng did not say that he was terminally ill at that time. Even if he was not terminally ill, he would have thought of divorce. Because at that time he was very disappointed with Shen Lin, and also very disappointed with himself, feeling that he could not give her the life she wanted, and Shen Lin was no longer the innocent girl she admired and loved.
To put it simply, people's hearts have changed and their feelings have changed. How can it be so easy if you want to restore it? It doesn't make any sense either.
The relationship that was restored under that situation, at least in Chen Feng's view, was no longer perfect. It was patched, incomplete, and full of flaws.
It’s okay not to have such feelings.
Back to the present, Shen Lin wants to start over with him, or even want to remarry, which means nothing to Chen Feng.
He and Shen Lin were silent for a long time. Shen Lin just looked at him, and then tears slowly fell from her eyes.
Chen Feng finally avoided her sight, turned around and looked at the road coming from Hongshu Bay.
Not long after, he finally saw the white mini driving not far away. He quickly arrived and even beeped twice to pull over and stop in front of them.
"I'm leaving. You should go back quickly."
Chen Feng immediately stepped forward and opened the door of the rear compartment. Before getting into the car, he finally turned to Shen Lin and said this.
Getting into the car, Wu Mengting just glanced at Shen Lin standing stupidly on the side of the road through the car window, then quickly started the car and drove away.
After the car drove for a while, Wu Mengting asked: "Brother, where is your car parked?"
Chen Feng then remembered this and looked out the window for a moment to identify it. Said: "It's right over that convenience store, just a little further over."
"Okay." Wu Mengting agreed and drove over there.
Chen Feng took out his key and handed it to Sun Xiaorui, the co-pilot: "You can help me drive back later, is that okay?"
Sun Xiaorui has a driver's license, but has never had a car. I didn’t drive much.
"No problem, I always drove my dad's old Sutter during the Chinese New Year."
"That's fine."
Soon the car drove to the convenience store, and Sun Xiaorui got out of the car and drove Chen Feng's car.
Wu Mengting started the car again and drove back, and then finally couldn't help but ask: "Brother, how is the matter? What did your ex-father-in-law and mother-in-law say?"
Chen Feng leaned his head on the backrest On the phone, he weakly replied: "It's solved."
"How was it solved?" Wu Mengting asked curiously.
A faint smile appeared at the corner of Chen Feng's mouth, and he continued to say feebly: "How else can we solve the problem? Use money."
"Money? Yes, money is indeed everything. How much did you give?" Wu Mengting asked with a mocking tone.
"Not much, one million."
"...It's not much. Compared to your current worth, it's really nothing." Wu Mengting pretended to be relaxed and said, "Is it true that if you give this money now, you will have nothing to do with them in the future. Including... your ex-wife?"
Chen Feng smiled bitterly and said: "I hope so, but my ex-wife seems to regret it."
Wu Mengting quickly said: "What did you do earlier? What's the use of regretting now? She hurt her After you, even if the scar is healed now, it will still leave a scar.”
Chen Feng smiled and said: "You are right."
"Then what do you mean now? You won't hesitate anymore, right?" Wu Mengting said while observing Chen Feng's face through the rearview mirror.
"What is there to hesitate about? I am free now and there is no shortage of women around me. Why should I crawl into the grave of marriage again?" Wu Mengting breathed a sigh of relief when Chen Feng said this. He smiled and said: "Marriage is not necessarily a grave, it can also be heaven. As long as two people love each other enough."
Chen Feng did not argue with her, but just smiled and said: "What you said makes sense."
Wu Mengting smiled and said nothing more. She just needed to make sure that Chen Feng showed no signs of getting back together with his ex-wife.
After returning home, Chen Feng went to wash up first, and then he lay down on the bed and fell asleep. He drank more than half a bottle of Maotai before, which still had a lot of stamina.
When I woke up the next morning, it was still bright and Sun Xiaorui, who was lying next to her, was still sleeping.
Chen Feng went to put the water first, then returned to the bed and lay down.
At this time, Sun Xiaorui woke up in a daze and asked: "Brother Feng, are you going to get up for morning exercise?"
"Not yet, go ahead and sleep."
Sun Xiaorui snorted and fell asleep again. Chen Feng turned sideways and looked at his phone. It was around five o'clock in the morning. An unread mobile text message is also displayed on the screen.
Chen Feng subconsciously opened it and saw that it was from Shen Lin. It was almost two o'clock in the morning.
Her WeChat account Chen Feng has deleted and blocked her. This is also an attitude given to her by Chen Feng, but Chen Feng on her mobile phone has not blocked her.
[Chen Feng, I have thought a lot about everything we had in those years. We had happiness, quarrels, and pain, but I have never regretted meeting you, getting to know you, and marrying you. I have always been grateful for the happy time you gave me in those years. I will never forget it as long as I live.
I now roughly know the reason why you took the initiative to divorce me. At that time, you were not going well at work and had a sensitive and fragile heart with a strong self-esteem. But I just quarreled with you and then had a cold war with you when you needed my encouragement and comfort the most. , causing you to be hurt twice and making you very disappointed in me.
I regret treating you that way, but my original intention was not to hurt you. I just couldn’t see you sinking yourself and losing your fighting spirit. I hoped to force you to cheer up through quarrels and cold wars, but obviously I This method was stupid and directly ruined our marriage.
When you filed for divorce from me, I was very angry and angry, but I still planned to give you two more months. Unfortunately, you did not accept it. My self-esteem could not allow me to continue to treat you. I gave in and ended up making the wrong decision. My mistakes accounted for most of our failed marriage. It was me who ruined my happiness with my own hands.
I thought I would be happy after leaving you. But for the past six months, I have not been happy at all. Even though I thought you were an asshole at the time, I still thought about you all the time, and there were many times I wanted to make the decision to move out of the apartment we rented, but in the end I never did. Because there are so many memories there, I am afraid that after I move away, the best memories in my life will slowly fade away in my life.
I'm sorry, Chen Feng, I'm in pain now. I don't know what you will think after seeing this text message of mine. Maybe you will also think that I am a bastard, right? When you needed me the most, I was cold-blooded and violent towards your family, making you worse. But now that you are making money and prospering, I am starting to regret divorcing you.
I feel like a clown right now!
If there is an afterlife, I hope to meet you again, preferably on an afternoon with plenty of sunshine, when you are in your prime and I am young. By then, I will never let you disappear from my life again. I will definitely hold on to you tightly, and hold on to our relationship and marriage. I will grow old together with you and stay with you for life.
Chen Feng, I’m sorry, I’ll see you again in the next life! 】
Chen Feng looked relatively calm at first, but after all, she was a woman who had lived with him for five or six years and was married. His emotions were inevitably affected when he saw her. In the end, even though he had no feelings for Shen Lin for a long time, his mood was ups and downs and his eyes were hot.
Although Chen Feng guessed that Shen Lin was deliberately sensational, deliberately letting him recall the beautiful and happy times between the two of them, and playing the emotional card to him, he had to admit that Shen Lin's move made it difficult for him to completely immunity.
After all, the two of them fell in love at the beginning, and it was the best golden years of each other's lives.
Chen Feng sighed secretly in his heart, and for a moment he didn't know whether he should respond to her long text message.
Then...he suddenly realized something was wrong. The long paragraph in front is fine, but what does the latter paragraph, especially the last sentence "see you again in the next life" mean?
No! No way?
The more Chen Feng thought about it, the less at ease he felt, and the more he thought about it, the more panicked he became.
After struggling on the bed for a few seconds, he finally could only curse "Fuck!" and then immediately turned over and got out of bed.
Sun Xiaorui was awakened by the sound of "grass", opened her eyes and looked doubtfully at Chen Feng who was standing by the bed and getting dressed quickly.
"What's the matter? Do you want to go out to exercise?"
"Yes. You can continue to sleep."
Chen Feng said casually, then put on his pants and even I didn't even put on my socks, so I took my phone and hurried out of the room.
Sun Xiaorui looked confused, opened her eyes, and was stunned for a while. Look out the window, it's still dark.
Chen Feng trotted downstairs, then called Shen Lin and quickly ran to the entrance to put on his shoes.
After he opened the door of the villa and came out, the call was not connected until it hung up automatically.
Chen Feng called again, then quickly ran to the carport, opened the door and got into the driver's seat, while quickly starting the car.
Press the remote control of the villa door.
The second time I called, there was still no connection.
Chen Feng could only put down his cell phone resignedly, turned the steering wheel hard, and drove towards the gate of the villa.
Ten minutes later, Chen Feng once again came to the gate of the community where he and Shen Lin had rented for several years.
It was almost 5:30 in the morning, many people had already gotten up, and the street was quite lively.
But Chen Feng was not in the mood to care about this at this time, so he drove directly to the gate of the community.
The security in the community here is pretty good. There are two shifts. The person on duty now is a middle-aged man in his forties, surnamed Liu, a veteran, and has been working here for several years. Chen Feng and Shen Lin had lived here for several years before, so of course they knew him.
Chen Feng got his head out of the car window and shouted to him: "Brother Liu, please raise the railing."
While speaking, Chen Feng had already handed over a hundred yuan. . It was the best time to hand over a pack of cigarettes, but unfortunately Chen Feng didn't smoke and didn't have the habit of smoking in the car.
There were not many people coming in and out of the community at this time in the morning. The surname Liu first recognized Chen Feng, and then quickly took away the big red ticket and said with a smile: "It's you. It's been a while. See you, I heard that you and your wife divorced. Do you want to come back and try to get her back?"
Chen Feng didn't have time to explain to him, and urged: "I have something urgent, please hurry up. ”
The security guard surnamed Liu was not angry when he saw this. After all, he took the money. Instead, he smiled and quickly raised the railing.
Chen Feng stepped on the accelerator and drove into the community. He stopped the car below the unit where he lived, then quickly got out of the car, ran to the door of the unit building, and skillfully opened the electronic code lock. He opened the door and ran upstairs quickly.
Thanks to: Liu Yusheng buaa6 monthly tickets for your support! ! !
Thank you: Pomegranate 4 monthly tickets for your support in 2003! ! !
Thanks to: Fatty Feng, Ghost Crying God Howl, and Hollow Paper for voting 2 monthly votes! ! !
Thanks to: DOGGP, Wind and Rain Qiankunjian, Huhuhululu, Book Friends with tail number 2150, Blue Flame of Amethyst, Jiangnan Xiaoxiao, Book Friends with tail number 4452, Yuexiadupo7, Xiaoku FLM, Book Friends with tail number 4980, Keep up the good work and wait for book friends’ monthly support! ! !
(End of this chapter)