Chapter 384: Think about it yourself
Ning Xiaorong’s unexpected death was unexpected by everyone.
And it was such a disgraceful way of death that left people speechless.
I believe that before he died, he must not have thought that one day he would die so frustrated and unexpectedly.
He was rich and still young. He would definitely have more money and more women in the future, but he died so hastily and unexpectedly. He must be very unwilling.
But life is so full of surprises and unpredictability. When you are smug and full of confidence in the future, an accident will end your life. Who can I talk to to reason with you? The Lord of Hell can't control this.
Originally, the two women were thinking of spending a few more days in Xiuzhou. After all, the matter had been clarified and the personal threat was no longer there. However, they did not expect that this would happen.
Yu Xiaohui must leave, and must return to Lushi immediately. Once she left, it would be difficult for Lou Xiaojiao to stay here alone. What's more, the two are good sisters. If such a big thing happened in Yu Xiaohui's family, she would definitely go back to help and share the burden.
So, Chen Feng drove them to the hotel to pick up their luggage, and then sent them directly to the train station. There was a direct train to Lushi, and they could reach Lushi in about three hours. Although not as good as flying, the nearest flight to Lushi is in three hours.
Seeing the two women entering the train station, Chen Feng breathed a sigh of relief. This burden is finally lifted.
After sending them away, Chen Feng would of course not have to take care of their affairs in the future, and it would not be his turn to take care of them.
Chen Feng's happy life seems to be back on track, and he continues to be his homesteader leisurely every day.
On this weekend, Qin Zhen invited Chen Feng to remember the last time he had a big meal and he didn't respond to the invitation, so he casually invited him and his girlfriend to have a nice meal together at Wenhua Residence. Qin Zhen did not refuse.
At 11:30 noon, Chen Feng and Qin Zhen met at Wenhua Residence, and then took him into the antique Wenhua Residence.
This Wenhua Residence is considered an ancient building. Most people really don’t know that there is a private restaurant inside.
Qin Zhen was not surprised, but Pei Lei was amazed.
Every dish here is carefully crafted, and the rare thing is that the portions are quite generous, and the taste is not to mention, it is not the kind of food that you can’t appreciate but not eat.
Qin Zhen and Qin Zhen were full of praise for the food. Of course it is expensive.
After the three of them had almost eaten, Qin Zhen asked Chen Feng in his hometown dialect: "A Feng, what do you think of her?"
"Her?" Chen Feng glanced at it and lowered his head to eat. Pei Lei, "How about what?"
"Do you think she is suitable for me?" Qin Zhen asked with an embarrassed smile.
Chen Feng was speechless and said, "You have to ask yourself this. Only you know whether the shoes you are wearing are suitable."
Qin Zhen quickly corrected him: "That's not a good thing for you to say. , She is a person, not a shoe."
Chen Feng rolled his eyes at him and said, "That's me. It’s a metaphor. It’s you who is living and falling in love with her, not me. How do I know if she is suitable for you?” , what do you think of her? Do you think he is worthy of me? ”
Seeing Qin Zhen's solemn look, Chen Feng came to his senses and asked directly: "Are you planning to formally settle down with her? Is it too soon? How long have you been together?"
Qin Zhen didn't hide anything, and said helplessly: "Isn't this right?" Is it because my family is urging me? And her family is also urging me. Besides, I am not young now, and I will be thirty next year. According to our opinion, getting engaged at the age of thirty is not good. I got engaged at the age of 29. I decided to get married first. If I got married, it would be done in the evening. It doesn’t matter if it’s two years.”
Chen Feng glanced at Pei Lei again and saw that she was also looking at the two of them curiously. Although she didn’t know what they were talking about and couldn’t understand their hometown dialect. , but I could roughly guess that he was talking about her, so I He smiled generously and asked: "What are you talking about?"
Qin Zhen said with a smile: "We are talking about topics between men, so you don't have to listen."
" Then you can tell me." Pei Lei smiled and continued eating casually.
"I've only met her a few times in total, and I really don't know her very well. If you ask me to express my feelings about her, I'll say it all at once, or it may just be superficial and not objective. Let me ask you, you Are you happy spending this time with him? "
Qin Zhen quickly replied: "You must be happy."
"What are her advantages and disadvantages in your eyes? "Chen Feng continued to ask.
Qin Zhen also said immediately: "She has many advantages. In terms of personality, she is mainly considerate, not strong but gentle. During the time I have been with her, we have never had any quarrels. Even when we quarrel, she is not aggressive at all and her tone is gentle. With her personality, even if we quarrel in the future, we will definitely not quarrel.
In addition, she can cook. Although the taste of the food is relatively average at the moment, this is much better than other girls who don't know how to do housework. She did a pretty good job. She has been cleaning my house during this time, and my house is much cleaner and tidier.”
"What about the shortcomings?" Chen Feng said with a serious face, "Seek truth from facts, don't think that she has no shortcomings, that is impossible."
Qin Zhen thought for a while before saying: "If we talk about shortcomings If so, maybe she has some mysophobia. You know my personality is usually quite slovenly. Plus, I’m quite busy at work, so I don’t do much at all. Pay attention to personal hygiene, she has said this many times. Also, she is a bit talkative, and sometimes I think she is a bit verbose."
"What about her consumption? Spending too much, spending too much, or something like that?”
“That’s not true. Her salary is almost fifteen thousand a month. , except for the rent of 3,000 yuan, the rest of the daily expenses are only 3,000 to 4,000 yuan per month. She does not deliberately pursue those famous brands and luxury goods.”
“This is a big deal. Extra points." Chen Feng affirmed sincerely, "It is very important for women not to spend money randomly. Otherwise, no matter how much you earn in the future, it may not be enough for her to spend. What's more, your career determines that you can't make too much money in this life, otherwise it will be very troublesome. Therefore, your wife's view of money and consumption is very important. Many public officials are upright and honest, but But something went wrong with the wife and children, and in the end they themselves didn’t end well.”
Qin Zhen nodded frequently and agreed, and then asked: "Then tell me, should I settle the marriage first?"
Chen Feng frowned slightly and said in deep thought: "I still think you two The time we've been together is too short. It hasn't been a month since we met, right? Are you so anxious?"
"It's been almost a month," Qin Zhen corrected with some embarrassment, and then explained. , “The main reason is that our parents are urging us more urgently. , and we are both very satisfied with each other now." Chen Feng still shook his head and said, "I still feel a little anxious. It's only June. You can wait a few more months. If you think it's appropriate then, It’s not too late to get engaged to her again before the end of the year.”
If it were anyone else, Chen Feng would definitely not say this, but Qin Zhen is his best friend and brother, Chen Feng is sure. Look at the issue from his perspective and standpoint.
After Qin Zhen was silent for a while, he slowly nodded and said, "What you said makes sense. Maybe I'm too anxious. After all, I'm not too young, and Xiaolei is the most attractive woman I've met so far, so it's inevitable I was a little impulsive."
Chen Feng asked calmly: "Have you ever checked her identity since you have known her for such a long time. There is some other relevant information about her family background. "
"Of course not." Qin Zhen shook his head and said, "I am dating her sincerely, and you have met her parents. It doesn’t look like a bad person at first glance. What’s there to investigate? She and her family are not criminals.”
But Chen Feng is. He said solemnly: "You must check it out. In the past, you just fell in love with her and you only cared about her. So of course you don't have to care too much about her parents and relatives. But when you want to get engaged and get married, it's not just you. It's not a matter between you and her, but a matter between your two families. You must find out some details. Find out. Only then can you feel at ease.
This has been the case since ancient times. How can we just marry each other without asking about the family situation? Isn’t it true that in our hometown, we have always had a marriage proposal? Find someone to inquire about the other person’s family situation and character, don’t you know?”
After hearing these words, Qin Zhen nodded after thinking about it: "Okay. You are right, then I will take the time to check."
Chen Feng smiled and joked: "Fortunately, you At last you haven’t been carried away by love. You have been in love many times. Why do you act like a seventeen or eighteen-year-old boy this time?”
Qin Zhen looked happy. , smiled and said: "Didn't I just say that? I finally met my true love this time. She is the most attractive woman I have ever met in my life. And...she is a young lady. You know, she gave me the most precious thing in a woman. I must shoulder the responsibility that a man should have and give her an explanation. "
Of course Chen Feng understands that as a man, let alone not caring about his wife for the first time, it's because the deal is settled and you don't care anymore. how? This is the social reality. How many women are marrying you for the first time?
If it is the first time, the average man will definitely be very happy about this. Not to mention that he takes great care of this woman, but at least he will not have any knots in his heart.
Therefore, for the sake of her lifelong happiness, it is best for women to respect themselves and love themselves.
Pei Lei is not ugly, and she is twenty-four or five years old. It is really rare that she has not lost her virginity before meeting Qin Zhen.
"Then you are very lucky. I can understand your thinking. However, it is not the first time for those people you have talked about before, right?" Chen Feng smiled. ask.
"Fuck you!" Qin Zhen glared at him angrily and did not answer his question. But there is no doubt that the answer is obvious.
"Since you are very satisfied with her, after you have investigated her family background and some relevant information, if there is no problem, you can get along with her for a few more months. If you still think she is very good, then Just decide on the wedding before the National Day.”
"Okay, I'll listen to you."
After the two of them finished talking about this matter, they stopped speaking their hometown dialect. Qin Zhen even pushed Chen Feng aside, chatting and laughing with Pei Lei, and even fed each other, stuffing Chen Feng's mouthful of dog food, which made Chen Feng secretly scream at his mistake.
If he eats with them next time, Chen Feng must bring a female companion, otherwise it will be really uncomfortable to watch them having sex with each other.
In the blink of an eye, the next afternoon, Qin Zhen suddenly called him and asked him to have a drink with him in the evening at a food stall where they had been several times before.
When Chen Feng heard that his tone was a little low and he went to a food stall to drink, he knew that something must be wrong with him, and it was probably related to Pei Lei.
Things were just as Chen Feng expected. After the two of them got together at the food stall in the evening, they were eating skewers and drinking wine. It didn't take long before Qin Zhen told him everything.
As expected, it's Pei Lei's matter. Specifically, Pei Lei's family situation is a bit complicated.
Pei Lei's current mother is not her biological mother, but her stepmother, and her biological mother is still in a mental hospital and was admitted to the mental hospital more than ten years ago.
As everyone knows about mental illness, some of it is hereditary. It just so happens that mental illness like her mother's is hereditary.
In other words, his and Pei Lei's children are likely to inherit mental illness in the future.
Pei Lei has always suffered from depression, and she began to receive related treatment when she was fifteen or sixteen years old. When she was twenty years old, she was hospitalized for nearly two months because of this, and she continues to receive related treatment to this day.
Everyone knows that if depression is severe, there will be suicidal tendencies, which is a bit scary.
Pei Lei had never mentioned these things to him before.
After finding out these things about his girlfriend, Qin Zhen certainly felt very uncomfortable, so he came to Chen Feng to drink and complain.
"A Feng, why do you think I am so unlucky? I finally found someone I really like and am attracted to, but the result is like this."
After Qin Zhen finished speaking, he looked up to the sky and drank a whole bottle of beer in one breath. When he put down the empty bottle, his expression was indescribably depressed and sad.
It’s just a man who doesn’t shed tears easily. I think of him as a dignified and straight man who would not frown even if he was stabbed by a gangster, but when he encountered such a difficult emotional problem, he couldn't help but feel sad.
"A Feng, what do you think I should do?"
Looking at Qin Zhen's confused look, Chen Feng couldn't help but lament for him. My buddy's love life has been really bumpy.
Before, neither Wang Xuelin nor Ning Wei was suitable for him, so he was frustrated for a while. Now he finally met someone who satisfied him, but this happened again.
"Let me ask you first, or ask yourself, apart from depression, is she suitable for you? Do you think she is suitable to live with you for the rest of your life? Think about it for yourself, consider it carefully, and don't make a decision easily. Conclusion. ”
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