If Fang Min is a love-minded person, she would be sure to identify Meng Jun even if she beat him to death, which would be really troublesome.
Chen Feng is her cousin, and he has a relationship with her mother, so it is impossible to ignore him.
"Xiao Min, tell me the truth, do you still want to contact him and try to fall in love with him?"
Chen Feng asked directly.
Fang Min was silent, obviously not denying it or intending to lie.
Chen Feng couldn't help but sigh in his heart. At the age of eighteen or nineteen, he is both love-minded and stubborn. It's really difficult to deal with.
“You wouldn’t still think that he is a good person. If he becomes sincere to you after falling in love with you, and then get engaged or even get married after graduation, right?”
Chen Feng deliberately spoke in a sly tone. asked sarcastically.
Fang Min was indeed provoked and immediately retorted: "I didn't think that far ahead, and I don't really care about whether I can marry him in the future, but I really like him and want to fall in love with him. What’s wrong with this? ”
Yeah! What a love brain!
If it were anyone else, or even other relatives, Chen Feng wouldn't bother to care anymore.
As the saying goes: let go of the need to help others and respect the fate of others.
She wants to be scumbag by a man, she wants to be dumped by a man, and experience the pain of emotional torture, what else can others do?
The legs are growing on her body, and she is an adult. Not even her parents can control her, let alone his cousin, who is not usually close to her.
But there is no way. He doesn't have many relatives, especially those who are close to him. It just so happens that Fang Min's mother, Chen Xiaoxia, is one of the few relatives he cares about, his aunt.
Aunt Chen Xiaoxia had told him quite solemnly before that she should take care of her cousin Fang Min as much as possible.
And I just happened to be hit by him today, so I really can’t ignore it.
Otherwise, it cannot be justified in terms of human feelings and it cannot be justified in terms of conscience.
"If he is a scumbag, do you want to fall in love with him?"
Chen Feng asked angrily.
"He is not a scumbag!" Fang Min also defended Meng Jun angrily, "He has always been very good. In addition to his good academic performance, he also plays basketball and guitar very well. In addition, he is also good at taekwondo." I got to the black belt level and was very good. I was my high school classmate for two years. , He has never been in love, how could he be a scumbag?”
“What about it, it’s been almost a year since he went to college, has he never been in love?”
Meng Jun is a bit handsome, otherwise Fang Min wouldn't like him. Although Chen Feng didn't know him well, judging from his judgment of him today, he was not an honest character, let alone a little boy who didn't eat meat.
In high school, he might have been too nervous to fall in love because of his academic stress, but after reaching college, many boys like him immediately let themselves go.
Chen Feng was like this at the beginning. When he was in high school, he ignored everything outside the window and studied hard all the time. He had no idea of falling in love at all. It was not until he was admitted to college that he suddenly became enlightened overnight. , fell in love with Liu Ying at first sight when he was in school, and began to pursue her.
Women understand women, and men certainly understand men.
The school year is almost over, and Chen Feng doesn’t believe that Meng Jun is still single. After all, with his conditions, it is not difficult to find a girlfriend in school.
But Fang Min denied it: "No, he has never been in love."
"Did he tell you that?"
"Yes."< br>
"You believe it when he says it?"
"Of course, he doesn't need to lie to me."
"Okay, just pretend that he has never been in love, but he is not suitable for you either. . The reason I told you from the beginning is that he doesn’t like you at all. Even if he agrees to be with you, it’s just a matter of time. I just want to play with you, not for a long time."
Fang Min immediately said: "I don't care about long-term, I only care about having it."
When Chen Feng heard this. As he spoke, his blood pressure could not help but rise a little. If this were his daughter, he would definitely break her legs.
You, a girl, actually say that you only care about what you once had. Isn't this mean?
Besides, Meng Jun is not really outstanding. At most, he has good academic performance. He was admitted to a pretty good university. As for being good at basketball, guitar, and karate. ...Okay, he is relatively outstanding among his peers, but he is obviously not among the top ones.
First of all, this guy's family background is relatively average. It seems that his mother works in an ordinary company, and his father is a civil servant, middle-class at best, which is incomparable with Fang Min's family.
Secondly, in the future, to measure whether a man is good or not, excluding family background factors, more than 90% of the weight will depend on whether he or his family has money, and how much money he has?
Otherwise, even if you successfully pass the public examination and become a civil servant, there may not be many women willing to marry you.
After all, if you are a grassroots civil servant, you still can't afford a house or a better car just by yourself. After you get married, if your wife has no job and has to raise children, family expenses will still be stretched.
Meng Jun's family situation may be slightly better and he can provide a little supplement, but it is certainly not much.
So, overall, Meng Jun doesn't seem to be very good at least now, not to mention that this guy has character problems, and he has made it clear before that he doesn't want to fall in love with Fang Min and doesn't like her.
But my cousin has identified the other person, and she wants to fall in love with him, and she wants to send him to her door automatically. What can Chen Feng do as his cousin?
For her own good, we must try to stop it.
After thinking about it, Chen Feng said: "It seems that no matter how hard I try to persuade him, it's useless. If you want him to fall in love, I can't stop him, not even your parents can stop him. After all, the legs are on you. But I I still have to say that Meng Jun is not worthy of your trust, nor is he qualified to fall in love with you."
Fang Min was silent for a while. Finally, he said: "I am not qualified. He never thought about falling in love with me before. It was after I took the initiative to express my love to him that he gradually started to like me, and even asked me out today." If I hadn't happened to meet you when I went out to visit East Lake, he would definitely be willing to date me."
Chen Feng was not angry. Said: "He is not willing to date you, but he is willing to open a room with you. Even if he agrees to date you, it is for his own lower body, and he does not really like you."
What Chen Feng said is right. It was very straightforward and vulgar. Fang Min's face got a little hot when he was told that. He lowered his head slightly and retorted: "No, he ...He is not as lustful as you said..."
"He is so lustful. Who is a boy of his age who is not lustful? I am also his age, so I understand you very well. , don’t think that now that we are in a new era, you can act recklessly, and an honest man will take over in the future.
You have to know that honest men are not stupid. Unless they are honest men who have no ability or money, they are willing to tolerate the rich emotional experiences of women in the past, because they have no choice. But as long as they are men with some ability and money, they will definitely not be willing to tolerate them. Since they have excellent conditions, they will have more partners to choose from. Do you get me? Only if a girl has self-esteem and self-love when she is young can she marry a good husband in the future. Otherwise, there is a high probability that it will be impossible to marry well in the future. Even if you marry well, your married life may not be happy. "
Fang Min frowned and said, "You have old feudal thinking. Just allow you men to mess around before getting married, but can't we women have a slightly richer relationship history? Men and women should be equal. "
Zhao Zixuan, who had been silent just now, also echoed: "I agree with Xiao Min on this point. You men require us women to remain chaste before marriage and to be virgins when we get married, so you men should also refrain from having sex before marriage. Otherwise, it would be injustice and oppression to us women. "
Chen Feng said angrily: "Then when you get married, can you not give up the bride price or the wedding room? ”
Zhao Zixuan immediately retorted: "Are we talking about the same thing?"
"How can this not be the same thing? Men and women are equal. Since they are equal, why does the man have to pay the bride price when getting married? Wedding room? ”
< br>“Betrothal gifts and wedding rooms have been customs for thousands of years.”
“It has also been a tradition for women to remain virginal before marriage.”
“You are the decadence of feudal ethics. Thoughts.”
"Betrothal gifts are also bad feudal customs."
Zhao Zixuan was speechless and could only glare at Chen Feng hatefully.
Fang Min found it interesting when he saw the two of them bickering, and couldn't help but feel better. After thinking about it, he said: "Brother, I know you care about me. But I have really grown up, and I want to go Lovers are even prepared to get hurt. Like what was said in that drama: Love, live, and get hurt. Only in this way can we continue to grow."
Of course Chen Feng has heard of this "wise saying", but he still couldn't help but complain: " You know clearly that loving him will hurt you Aren't you stupid if you still love when you are hurt? It seems reasonable to say "love and live and get hurt", but it is actually a beautiful nonsense. The best way to overcome suffering is to be a good person. Why do people have to To endure hardships? And to endure hardships? Isn’t this self-deprecating and self-abuse? The more you are able to endure hardships, the more hardships you will suffer in the future. Endless classes
It's right to love and live, but it's questionable to get hurt. Why does it have to be injured? You have to know that if you are accidentally injured, you may die of serious injuries and die. Human life is sometimes very fragile and may not be able to withstand even one injury and destruction. Therefore, when you know that you will be injured, the first thing you have to do is to prepare in advance to prevent yourself from getting injured as much as possible.
If you can avoid getting hurt, of course you shouldn’t get hurt. If you hurt yourself even though you know you will get hurt, you are like Shacha. "
Fang Min didn't say anything, and Zhao Zixuan said: "Chen Feng is right, I agree. "
Zhao Zixuan followed and persuaded: "Xiao Min, don't think that loving someone is a very romantic thing, especially if you love someone who is not worthy of your love, in retrospect, you will You will realize that you are a joke. You think that is great, but at most you will only be moved by yourself. The people you love will not be moved by you, and others will think you are a fool. ”
Fang Min still didn’t speak, but his mood became depressed again.
Seeing this, Chen Feng said: "Let's do this. In order to prevent you from getting hurt, I can find someone to help you do a background check on Meng Jun. If he is really a good young man like you said, with no bad habits and good character, there will be no If he deceives you, then I won’t stop you from falling in love with him, and I will even help you hide it from your family for a while. What do you think?”
“How to investigate him?” Fang Min was a little confused. I am curious and have some interest.
Chen Feng said: "First of all, of course, it is his family investigation, what his parents do, whether he has committed any crimes, his family's financial situation, and whether there are any debt disputes. Secondly, it is his personal investigation. , whether there is a criminal record, physical health status, I think you are also interested in these things, such as financial status, housing opening records, and reputation. I will ask someone to check it for you.”
It’s not easy to find out someone’s details behind their back. Min still couldn't say anything against it, so she could only acquiesce.
"Then it's decided. I will contact my friends now to check Meng Jun's background and see if he is a good guy?"
Chen Feng did what he said and immediately took out his mobile phone and contacted Cai Zhixin on WeChat and asked him to help check Meng Jun's details.
Cai Zhixin, of course, agreed without saying a word. Anyway, he helped Chen Feng investigate people not once or twice, and he was very familiar with it.
After making contact, Chen Feng put away his phone and said to Fang Min: "It takes a little time to investigate Meng Jun's reputation in school. The rest of the investigation is not difficult. The results will be available as soon as evening. No later than tomorrow night. When the results come out, I will send you a copy."
Fang Min then said: "You. Is it accurate to find someone to check it?”
Chen Feng affirmed: “Of course it is, these information are obtained from the internal information system and cannot be fake, especially his room opening records. No falsehood is allowed. The bank’s financial situation will be clear at a glance, as will the legal disputes and debts.”
Fang Min stopped talking again, obviously she was looking forward to the results of the investigation.
Seeing this, Chen Feng reiterated: "If after the investigation results come out, there is no problem with him and his family, I will definitely not stop you from falling in love. But if there is a problem, you will still be stubborn. If you want to date him, I will notify your parents as soon as possible, and then I will also deal with him so that he cannot go to school. I have warned him.”
“If he really has a problem, I will certainly not contact him again. However, I have confidence in him and there will definitely be nothing wrong with him.”
Chen Feng said disapprovingly: "I hope so."
Chen Feng's intuition told him that there was definitely something wrong with Meng Jun.
"Then just wait and see. However, brother, you can't cheat and deliberately throw dirty water on him, otherwise, I won't forgive you."
"How could this happen?" Chen Feng retorted, " Did I deliberately frame him? I'm not that boring. If he really has a problem but you don't believe it, we can go further together. Investigate."
Fang Min quickly said: "As long as you don't cheat, of course I believe you."
"Do I need to cheat? If he is really a good young man, of course I will. I will be happy for you and even help you chase him."
"I... didn't chase him."
Fang Min defended somewhat feebly.
"If there is really something wrong with him, I hope you can believe the results of the investigation. As a brother, it is impossible for me to cheat on this kind of thing, let alone harm you."
" Well, I believe you.”
“That’s good.”
Zhao Zixuan smiled when she saw this and said: "It's really good that you cousins trust each other. Xiao Min, it's rare for a cousin like Chen Feng to care about you so much. If it were anyone else, they would not listen to the advice when encountering this kind of thing. , you can only leave it to yourself, and you won’t be able to blame others if you are cheated or dumped.”
Fang Min didn't like hearing this, so she couldn't help but ask: "Sister Zhao, are you and my brother really just ordinary classmates?"
Zhao Zixuan was stunned for a moment, and then looked at Chen Feng. (End of this chapter)