Chapter 379 The more you don’t get it, the more you want it! (Additional updates with monthly pass)
In Beijing in the 1920s, god marriage was a relatively common form of social relationship.
Usually because of the close relationship between the two families, in order to let the children receive more love from their elders, or to strengthen the friendship between the two families, such a ceremony of recognizing relatives is held.
As the child grows up, the godfather and godmother will also assume some of the responsibilities similar to those of biological parents. They will visit each other on the child's birthday and important festivals throughout the year to show family affection.
In addition to these situations, there is another way to recognize godparents out of gratitude. Some children are seriously ill and receive full treatment from doctors in the hospital. After the illness is cured, the parents are very grateful and form godparents with the doctor's family.
Of course, most of the situations here are initiated by the role of "godfather".
But this time Sun Jialin obviously didn't discuss it with Chen Kaige. He liked it and immediately asked Fang Jie to get married.
The four words "go your own way" are vividly interpreted by her.
This time, not only Fang Jiezheng was confused, but Chen Kaige who was standing beside him was also confused.
But when Chen Kaige reacted, he didn't object to this plan.
Anyway, my wife doesn't plan to have children in the next few years, so it seems that it would be okay to adopt a goddaughter.
So he hurriedly said:
"Sister, I like the child very much."
"Our two families recognize each other as godmother. From now on, I will treat Mingzhu as my own daughter."
After hearing this, Sun Jialin gave Director Chen a look of approval, which made Chen Kaige feel as if he had eaten honey.
After being abused for a long time, being nice to him once in a while is like a gift.
Chen Kaige felt that maybe this daughter-in-law could be an opportunity for the relationship between the two to ease.
The eldest sister looked at the two couples in front of her, but she was not too busy to agree, but said with a smile:
"Thank you for your love for this girl Mingzhu, but I can't make the decision on this matter alone. When my husband comes back, I will discuss it with him."
"It's not urgent at this moment anyway, right?"
What he said is reasonable and well-founded, and people can't find fault with it.
Getting married is not something you just agree to do now. You have to pick a date and hold a ceremony.
After hearing what their mother said, the couple had no choice but to agree.
Fang Yan could see that Sun Jialin came here to be a mother without pain, so that she could experience the feeling of being a mother without having to give birth to a child.
Da Dao Chen planned to use the recognition of his daughter to re-establish a bond with Sun Jialin. In addition to the role of the daughter, the child was more like a common topic for the couple.
After all, the couple will not have children before graduating from college, so establishing a bond is more like Chen Kaige's emergency medical treatment.
Fang Yan didn't think that Sun Jialin would stop studying abroad for the sake of a goddaughter.
When the time comes to go to Canada, the couple should divorce or get divorced.
However, if Mingzhu's children have these two godfathers and godmothers, they will be able to obtain a lot of resources in the future, especially for someone like Sun Jialin who will never have children or get married. The older she gets, the more she needs to find spiritual sustenance.
Mingzhu, the goddaughter, will become an existence similar to a biological daughter.
So Fang Yan doesn’t object to this.
No matter how you look at it, it’s a win-win situation.
Only the eldest sister felt that this situation was a bit unexpected, so she did not agree hastily.
Not long after this topic ended, the eldest brother-in-law also came back from outside.
I actually got a pennant when I came back today.
At first glance, it turned out that it was because of the eldest brother-in-law's courageous act yesterday, and the training class did this specifically to praise this behavior.
Looking at it now, the eldest brother-in-law will probably stay in the city bureau directly after the training ends in early November. There is no way that other people will not support him in this matter.
In addition, the eldest brother-in-law's skills are now ranked at the front of the class, so the others are assigned to various districts. The eldest brother-in-law, the best one, should stay in the city bureau.
That's okay, the city bureau is not too far away from here, and it doesn't take long to get to work every day.
And you can also get a house.
This is all a good start.
It goes far beyond the time when they first came back, where they just wanted a job. The only disadvantage is that the experts from the Municipal Bureau need to be responsible for the technical support of the entire capital, and they may be a little busy by then.
After returning home, Yan invited everyone to eat.
Then I also introduced Chen Kaige and Sun Jialin to my eldest brother-in-law.
The eldest brother-in-law knew Chen Kaige, but this was the first time Sun Jialin met him, and he greeted him politely.
Sun Jialin knew that this was Zhao Mingzhu's father, and immediately expressed his desire to get married.
The eldest brother-in-law, Zhao Yuanchao, was a little dazed. He glanced at his wife, and after getting an expression, he immediately understood and said that he wanted to discuss it.
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When Sun Jialin heard that both of them had the same attitude, he couldn't say anything more.
However, Chen Kaige continued to talk.
He intended to use his sharp tongue to talk about this matter at the dinner table.
It can be seen that Director Chen is very concerned about his wife's needs.
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It's just that the eldest brother-in-law and eldest sister are both cautious people. The more they show that they want to get married, the more wary they become. They always feel that these two people are weird, and the more they don't let go.
This is how people are, the less they can get something, the more they want it.
The eldest sister and the others did not let go, but instead made Director Chen and Sun Jialin excited.
Turning around means that today is not formal enough, and they will come over with gifts tomorrow to bring up the matter again.
When the time comes, the marriage ceremony will be held officially.
The eldest sister and eldest brother-in-law were made to laugh and cry.
It's not like they lack that little money.
During the whole meal, Fang Yan watched them tugging at each other.
By the time I finished eating, I didn't have anything to show for it.
On the contrary, it made Chen Kaige and Sun Jialin even more excited about getting married.
He reluctantly said goodbye to Zhao Mingzhu, and then left the courtyard on his bicycle.
As soon as they left, the eldest sister complained:
"These two couples are really interesting. They don't want to have children, so they insist on marrying this little girl Mingzhu."
"This is the first time I have met such a person."
At this time, the eldest brother-in-law frowned and asked:
"Are they unable to give birth?"
These words were spoken in a dialect that made me dumbfounded. I had no choice but to tell my elder sister and my wife my analysis, and then I helped them clarify Chen Kaige and Sun Jialin's purpose.
Then he told the two of them about the family situation of the Chen family and the Sun family, and analyzed the connections and social resources that these two families can provide, as well as the more possibilities they can provide Mingzhu in the future, which is comparable to that of sister-in-law Ye Yun. It is too much to let two children study in the military compound.
Especially since they themselves said that this time the marriage should be more formal.
Two people who didn't even have a wedding decided to have a big wedding to get married, which shows how seriously Sun Jialin takes this matter.
In addition, Daban also publicly told others that Mingzhu's child would be their goddaughter.
The eldest sister and eldest brother-in-law can also get some benefits.
"Does this mean we can get married?" the eldest sister asked Fang Yan.
Dialect nodded:
"Of course, it will be good for Mingzhu in the future."
At this time, the eldest sister and the eldest brother-in-law looked at each other, then nodded and made up their minds:
"Okay, I'll listen to you. I'm done with them."
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(End of chapter)