Chapter 69 Trying to date
The essence of marriage is actually to compromise with each other and accommodate each other.
This is the most ideal state. To put it another way, it means running in both directions.
But in marriage, it is usually one-sided effort. As time goes by, even if you love again, you will feel tired and hard.
Therefore, from the first contact with the two women, Shen Siyuan was more inclined to Jiang Taozhi.
He is rushing to get married, not simply have a passionate love affair.
Marriage is not poetry and distance, but firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea.
Two women, two styles, just from the initial contact.
Ruan Hongzhuang has a strong personality and is very opinionated. It is obvious that she is not an easy person to compromise in life. If you want to live with such a person, you can only compromise yourself and accommodate the other person, otherwise you will definitely quarrel.
But as time went by, he didn't feel like he could bear it, and why did he have to wrong himself from the beginning?
It was only the first time that he and Ruan Hongzhuang met, and they didn't fall in love with each other to the point of death.
Jiang Taozhi's personality is exactly the opposite of Ruan Hongzhuang's. She has a gentle and kind personality. Because she was too well protected since she was a child, she grew up in love and being loved, and everything was arranged, so she didn't have too many opinions.
If you marry such a woman, as long as you give her enough love, she will basically obey you, because she is used to the life arranged by others and will not contradict you, so she will naturally have no conflicts and reduce the number of problems in her life. A lot of unnecessary trouble.
Even though she has many shortcomings, she is still a person worthy of love.
What's more, through Shen Shenyuan's observation, Jiang Taozhi is not that kind of fairy, but a person who cares about other people's feelings.
Because she grew up in love, she also knows how to love others.
Of course, this kind of woman will be deeply hurt if she meets a scumbag. Unless she makes changes or has her family to give her enough support, she will be miserable.
But Shen Siyuan thinks that he is not a scumbag. If they can really be together, they will definitely make her happy.
That's why Shen Siyuan took the initiative to test the other party's attitude.
However, he did not receive a reply from Jiang Taozhi. Instead, he received a WeChat message from Ruan Hongzhuang.
"Are you home?"
Why does this piece of information look so familiar?
Isn't this the message he just sent to Jiang Taozhi? Even the punctuation marks are exactly the same.
What? You copied and pasted it and forwarded it back?
Far from replying immediately, Shen Shen stroked his chin and thought.
He naturally understood what Ruan Hongzhuang meant.
To be honest, if a beautiful woman takes the initiative to pursue you, she is not a saint, and she is single, so it is difficult not to be tempted.
This made Shen Shenyuan, who originally wanted to pursue Jiang Taozhi, waver a little.
Just when Shen Siyuan was hesitating whether to reply to the other party's message.
Ruan Hongzhuang then sent another message: "Do you like peaches?"
Shen Siyuan thought for a while and sent her a reply first.
"I just got home and saw the message."
Then he added: "I just met today, and I can't say that I like her, but Miss Jiang is indeed a very nice person, so I want to try to get in touch with her first."
Shen Siyuan expressed his thoughts honestly and did not hide his true thoughts just because the other party was another beautiful woman.
However, there was almost no difference between Shen Siyuan's answer and Jiang Taozhi's answer, and both wanted to get in touch first.
Shen Shen Yuan sent his message, but the message disappeared. Just as he was about to put down his phone, he heard another ring.
I picked it up and saw that it was Ruan Hongzhuang who had sent it.
"What do you think of me?"
Shen Siyuan's situation, direct with the face of an old man on the subway, is sister so direct?
But I thought about it, considered it again, and then sent a message saying: "You are a very nice person."
This time, Ruan Hongzhuang's message was sent quickly.
"Then let's try dating?" "This..."
Shen Siyuan was a little shocked.
After thinking about it, I replied: "Is it too fast?"
"I didn't ask you to be my boyfriend directly. You think I'm a very nice person and I think you're right, so we can try dating first."
Before Shen Shen could reply, the other party immediately sent another message.
"Do you think I'm too frivolous?"
Then another one was sent, as if it had already been edited and was just waiting for it to be sent.
"I'm afraid that if you date Tao Zi, it will be difficult for me to snatch you."
"..."
Shen Siyuan directly sent six points, and he didn't know what to say.
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After sending the six points, he saw that the other party was always typing. Shen Siyuan was also curious about what else the other party wanted to say, so he waited quietly for the other party.
"The reason why I am so direct has to do with my personality. You have a unique temperament that attracts me. You are a very special person. I am afraid that I will regret it if I miss it..."
"If I do something, even if I regret it later, I will not regret it now, so I will show my cards directly to you..."
"Of course, my behavior may cause you to feel disgusted, but I can see that you have a good impression of Taozi. If you really date, then I will never have a chance again. It is impossible for me to steal her boyfriend. …”
"If this were not the case, I might choose to get in touch with you slowly..."
"I asked you how I am? You said I'm a very nice person, which means you also like me. In that case, why don't I try it with you first..."
"Also, I have a doubt. I think my appearance and ability are no worse than Taozi. Why would you choose her?"
Looking at the messages sent by Ruan Hongzhuang, Shen Shenyuan finally understood what she was thinking.
As for the last question, it’s easy to answer: “Just because you are so nice, I don’t think we are suitable for each other.”
Then he added: "And I think it would be easier and more comfortable to get along with a girl like Miss Jiang."
Shen Shen did not directly mention the problem of the other party's too strong personality, but with Ruan Hongzhuang's intelligence, she should understand.
"We don't even get along, how do you know it's not suitable?"
"Okay, this is my fault for being too arbitrary, but this is just based on personal judgment. I'm afraid that not only will there be no results in the end, but we will also hurt each other deeply."
"Isn't this bad?"
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Shen Siyuan had a question mark on his face, where is the best here?
"A deep hurt means you have each other in your heart. Do you feel sad for a stranger? The deeper the relationship, the more serious the hurt. No matter what the ending is, for each other, it is the best memory in life..."
Shen Shenyuan suddenly felt that what she said made sense.
A complete life is never just about beauty, those unforgettable loves and regrets, and not being able to love are the true normal state of life.
Shen Siyuan was convinced by her and admired her character of daring to love and hate.
Of course, the most important thing is that the other person is beautiful, this is very important.
So he said: "Then let's try?"
Ruan Hongzhuang then came over with a smile and continued: "Let me introduce myself formally. My name is Ruan Hongzhuang. I am twenty-eight years old. I have a successful career. I have never been in love. I look forward to our future..."< br>
So formal? Shen Siyuan thought.
But I also introduced myself according to the format she sent.
"My name is Shen Siyuan. I am twenty-six this year. I have accomplished nothing. I have no house or car. I have been in a relationship..."
Shen Siyuan still put it bluntly, if Ruan Hongzhuang flinched because of this, then there would be nothing left to talk about.
(End of chapter)