Chapter 195 Putting the Wedding on the Agenda
Erbao may not really realize where he went wrong.
After all, she is still too young.
But at least Xiao Fei needs to let Er Bao know that this matter is wrong.
As for why, I can teach you slowly in the future.
After establishing the basic concept of right and wrong first, everything will be easier to handle.
A child's mood changes like the weather in June.
Erbao was aggrieved and in a very low mood before, but after a while, she became happy again.
Although there was no dessert to eat, Erbao did not change his attitude towards Xiao Fei at all and was still so clingy.
the next day.
While continuing to teach the children how to read, Xiao Fei found that Erbao was much more serious this time and no longer deliberately made trouble like before.
That's good.
After the teaching, Xiao Fei rewarded each of the three children with a fruit platter...
In order to take care of the children's baby teeth, Xiao Fei specially selected fruits with particularly soft texture, such as bananas, and chopped them very finely.
Time gradually came to May.
Children are getting older and recognize more and more words.
Sometimes, Dabao, the fastest learner, can even read some children's books marked with pinyin by himself.
And Xiao Fei also had to start thinking about another very important thing.
He is about to graduate from college.
In other words, the wedding to Tang Yuxin must be put on the agenda.
Relatives and friends on both sides definitely need to be invited.
Some people still need to be invited for various reasons.
Like Wang Chuanfu, like Musk.
There is even Yu Gaoshan who has been communicating with Xiao Fei from time to time.
After deciding who to invite, Xiao Fei decided to choose the wedding venue in the Magic City.
As for the relatives on both sides, just send your own plane over to pick them all up at once.
After deciding these things, all that remains is the specific process of the wedding.
Xiao Fei first ruled out Western-style weddings that were on the street and had nothing new.
Not interesting.
Excluding Western-style weddings, the rest is naturally Chinese-style.
But since it was decided to have a Chinese-style wedding, Xiao Fei simply gritted his teeth and decided to go through all the procedures in the most traditional way.
Three matchmakers, six appointments, and six weekly rituals were all carried out in the strictest way.
But in this case, the cost will naturally be staggering.
Xiao Fei doesn't care.
The cost is one thing, but the complexity of the process is another.
There are six rites in the Zhou system, namely, accepting gifts, asking for names, accepting gifts, accepting invitations, asking for appointments and personally welcoming.
This is the classic structure of the Six Rites. With the development of the times, the Six Rites have been simplified and simplified from time to time.
But most of them add side rituals and miscellaneous customs to the "six rites", such as urging makeup, sending makeup, making houses, etc.;
The bamboo slips merged several pre-marriage etiquettes. For example, in the "Family Rites" written by Zhu Zi in the Song Dynasty, the six etiquettes were combined into three etiquettes: "nacai", "nabiqi" and "personal welcome" due to current customs.
Broken down in detail, the weekly wedding ceremony includes pre-wedding ceremony, main wedding ceremony and post-wedding ceremony.
Pre-wedding rites include nacai, name asking, naji, nazheng and date request.
The formal wedding ceremony includes the wedding ceremony, wedding ceremony, wedding ceremony and wedding ceremony, etc.
Post-wedding rituals include the rituals for a woman to meet her uncle, for her uncle to marry her, and for her to give gifts to her uncle.
In addition to this, there are three books.
Letter of Engagement: A letter of engagement, signed by both the man and the woman. Used when Najib. Ritual book: a gift book, which is a gift list detailing the types and quantities of gifts. Used when collecting tax
Welcoming book: the book that welcomes the bride. Used when picking up the bride on her wedding day.
The ceremony is complicated and the process is complicated, which represents the importance that ancient Yanxia ancestors attached to marriage, couples, and family.
After Xiao Fei checked it carefully, he found that this kind of thing could no longer be solved by himself without recruiting help.
He...needs a professional team!
Not the kind where black people carry coffins.
So, Xiao Fei directly found one of the most famous celebration planning companies in Shanghai.
As soon as they heard that Xiao Fei was going to use the most traditional six-week ceremony to hold his wedding, the people in the planning company became excited on the spot.
Any fool knows that such a wedding is definitely a big deal!
Xiao Fei kept the whole process secret from Tang Yuxin.
Meanwhile...
"Mr. Yu, do you want to be a witness?"
"Hahahaha... Not only do I want to be Xiao Fei's witness, I also want to be your matchmaker! You can't just find someone to issue a letter of appointment with three matchmakers and six appointments, right?"
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"Old man, I think I still have this face."
On the phone, Yu Gaoshan was very happy.
As a master of traditional folk music, Yu Gaoshan is extremely obsessed with various traditions of Yanxia.
Otherwise, I wouldn’t have mastered almost all the national musical instruments.
However, it is one thing to play music, but it is another thing to participate in the most traditional and pure wedding ceremony.
Now that he has this opportunity, Yu Gaoshan is extremely interested in being a witness.
And with Yu Gaoshan's identity and status, it is absolutely suitable to serve as Xiao Fei and Tang Yuxin's witness.
Xiao Fei smiled and nodded in agreement.
Later, he called his family and told them.
Xiao Jun, Wang Fang, Tang Mu and Tang Dingyuan were all very happy to learn that Xiao Fei was preparing for the wedding.
"...Um... Xiao Fei, that three-matchmaker and six-employee guy, how do we know this now?"
On the phone, Xiao Jun had some questions.
"It's okay, dad. I've hired the most professional planning team. You just need to listen to them. In a few days, they will go to Sichuan and Chongqing to go through the pre-wedding ceremony first."< br>
"The main wedding ceremony will be held here in the Magic City. I happen to have two houses here. The large apartment in Jinyuhua Mansion can be used as the woman's home when she is getting married."
After learning that Xiao Fei had planned everything well, the old people on both sides felt relieved.
Then, without telling Tang Yuxin, they began intensive preparations.
Notify relatives and friends on both sides and contact the planning team who rushed over from Shanghai.
Yu Gaoshan also rushed there all the way.
This day.
Tang Dingyuan had already known that Xiao Fei would send an envoy to his door today to perform the ceremony, so he and Tang's mother waited patiently at home early in the morning.
Not long after, there was a knock on the door.
"Open the door, open the door!"
Tang Dingyuan hurried over and opened the door.
Outside the door, stood Yu Gaoshan, who was energetic and healthy.
In his hand, he held the wild geese specially prepared by the planning company.
The use of wild geese as a gift is because wild geese are migratory birds, flying south in autumn and returning north in spring. They come and go from time to time and never miss the season. Therefore, wild geese are used to symbolize the unswerving commitment between men and women.
Moreover, the male and female geese mate together, symbolizing loyalty and growing old together.
"You...you are..."
"Mr. Tang, I am in Gaoshan. I am the envoy of the Xiao family who came to discuss marriage."
Holding the gift, Yu Gaoshan said with a smile.
Tang Dingyuan was stunned.
(End of chapter)