Chapter 183 Getting married is really too troublesome
The difference between her and Xia Chan is that she has parents. If something like this really happens, her parents and brother will definitely seek justice for her, so there is no need to worry about this. This is what her natal family brings to her. Her confidence.
"Zhou Zhiqing, I can't give you an immediate answer to what you're talking about, but I will seriously consider it," Yuan Bingbing said.
Seeing that Yuan Bingbing did not refuse immediately, Zhou Ji couldn't help but feel happy. He nodded repeatedly, "Yuan Zhiqing, please think about it slowly, I won't rush you."
If there is no rejection, there is a glimmer of hope. If there is a direct rejection, there is no hope at all.
Afterwards, Zhou Ji sent Yuan Bingbing back to her dormitory. When he saw her entering the door, he turned around and went back to his dormitory.
Two days later, when it was their turn to rest again, Yuan Bingbing went to the town to call her mother's workplace. Her mother was a doctor at the county hospital. The county hospital had a telephone, so it was relatively convenient to contact her.
Zhou Ji's family is from the provincial capital and has good conditions in all aspects, so she wants her mother to help her make an unannounced visit to see how she is doing. If the family is also good, then she will be a good marriage partner.
Mrs. Yuan was very happy after hearing Yuan Bingbing's words. She didn't want her daughter to marry a countryman, otherwise she might become a countryman for the rest of her life. Now that she met someone from a provincial capital, she naturally had to observe it carefully. If If this family is not good, she will not agree.
She tried to find a way to go to the provincial capital hospital to study for a period of time, so that she could work and visit at the same time.
Mrs. Yuan is busy with work and doesn't have that much time to go to the provincial capital, so this is the perfect excuse.
This matter was left to her mother to handle, and she no longer had to worry about it. Whenever news came, she would tell Zhou Ji her answer. Whether she accepted or refused, she would be clean and decisive and would never be sloppy.
The Xiao family, who is far away in the capital, also received letters from their grandchildren. Grandpa Xiao and grandma Xiao are both literate. They both wear reading glasses and sit on the wooden sofa to read the letters.
What Grandpa Xiao saw was Xiao Fengfeng's, and what Grandma Xiao saw was Xiao Tiantian's.
Xiao Mimi was very anxious beside her. She also wanted to read the letter, but her grandparents had not finished reading it, so it was not her turn to read it.
"Your sister said that she met a very good and beautiful new friend in the country and asked you to help her pack up all her summer clothes and send them over. She will exchange food with this new friend for our family. "Grandma Xiao said with a smile.
"Oh, okay, then I'll collect it now." Xiao Mimi stood up excitedly, and then asked, "Can I collect it if you want? What if I collect it by mistake and get something she particularly likes?"
"Collect whatever you want. Collect all the summer clothes, pack them up and send them to her." Grandma Xiao said.
Xiao Mimi went upstairs, found the cloth bag, and went to Xiao Tiantian's room to fold her clothes.
Grandpa Xiao and Grandma Xiao exchanged letters about the two children and realized that they had such a high opinion of this Xia Chan. They never expected that a small mountain village would have such a magical girl who could get Xiao Feng. Feng and Xiao Tiantian spoke so highly. They both wanted to meet him.
"Xia Chan? Could it be the girl that the fourth child mentioned?" Grandma Xiao came to her senses after a while, "The fourth child said that this girl once saved his life, and helped the fourth child many times later. Our family eats The chickens and rabbits are all hand-smoked.”
"Do you think the fourth child likes this girl? Do you want us to ask Fengfeng and Tiantian to help?"
Grandpa Xiao suddenly reached out and held Grandma Xiao's excited hand, "Don't interfere. If the fourth child really likes her, let him work hard on his own. What if you interfere and accidentally ruin a beautiful marriage?" If the children are destined to be together, they will naturally come together. If there is no destiny, it will be useless for us to do anything, and it is possible that they will not even be friends.”
"Old man, you are right, but since she is good friends with Fengfeng and Tiantian, and has been taking care of Fengfeng and Tiantian, as an elder, she should send some small gifts to thank her. I will go and pack them now. Let Mimi send it together when the time comes." Grandma Xiao stood up immediately, as excited as if her daughter-in-law was waving to her.
When the fourth child also gets married and has children, she won't have to worry about it anymore.
Xia Chan and Yuan Bingbing were sitting on a chair in the park. When Yuan Bingbing said that Zhou Ji liked Yuan Bingbing and confessed his love to her, Xia Chan was very surprised, "Bingbing, what about you? Do you like him?"
"I think he's pretty good, but I didn't agree to him immediately. I asked my mother to help me first check out what's going on at his house, what his parents' character is like, and whether the house is messy. In this way, if there's no problem, he is indeed It’s a good one.”
Xia Chan nodded, "This is what you should do. Once you understand the situation, you won't be deceived by others. And when you ask him, if there is a big gap between his statement and the truth you know, it will It can show that this person is dishonest, and dishonest people don’t need to be considered.”
"Don't get engaged so early this time. Even if everything else is good, you still need to find out whether this person's mood is stable, whether he makes a lot of noise and hits others when he is angry, and whether he rests quietly or rests after drinking. If you want to cause trouble, you also need to see how well he knows how to get along with lesbians. It is definitely right to be cautious before getting married. After all, divorce is not that easy. If you can avoid suffering, why bother yourself? ”
It feels like getting married is really too troublesome. Fortunately, she has no thoughts of getting married now.
Thinking about the fists of those domestic violence men that hit her flesh, Xia Chan had a shuddering feeling. She felt as if those fists were hitting her body. It was really scary.
"If my parents hadn't been urging me to get married last time, I wouldn't have agreed to go on a blind date with my father's friend's son, and then I met that Cui Haiyun. Now my parents don't press for it anymore. If we just take our time, maybe we can I met a good one! "Yuan Bingbing is a girl of this era. She has no intention of not getting married, but she is not so anxious about getting married now.
They say you can’t eat hot tofu if you’re in a hurry, and the same goes for getting married.
What's more, she had already been injured once, so she was naturally more cautious this time.
It was almost time. The two of them went to the supply and marketing cooperative to return the soda bottles and bought some things. Then they waited on the tractor. When everyone came over, Xia Chan drove the tractor back.
During the summer vacation, Xia Chan seemed to be very leisurely, but in fact she was also very busy, because she had to go to various hills to water the things she planted. Because she wanted to avoid crowds, sometimes it was in the morning and sometimes in the evening. Brother We could also feel that she was busy, but we had no idea what she was busy with because she never revealed a word.