Chapter 372: Take good care of yourself
The two people set off after breakfast. They didn't say clearly what they were doing, and no one knew what they were doing. However, they often left the group to act alone and came back soon, so no one said anything.
The two of them acted alone without being disturbed by others. Zhou Qizhi would either carry Xia Chan on his back or hold her in his arms. No matter how much he pampered her, Xia Chan didn't need to act in person. She only had to be responsible for collecting things into the space.
Seeing dead trees and messy branches, Zhou Qizhi would also use a cutting machine to cut and bundle them so that Xia Chan could put them into the space.
After all, their family has already separated and lived their own lives. They burned several kangs in winter and the demand for firewood was also very high. If there was just enough here, they collected more, which could also relieve the pressure on firewood at home.
Moreover, making a fire for cooking and making tea in the kitchen of the bamboo house here also requires firewood. They have a cutting machine, which is much more convenient than cutting firewood.
When the two of them arrived at the place where they found monkey wine, they used that place as the center, and then spread around to look for monkey wine. Unexpectedly, they actually found a lot of monkey wine.
After a few times, Xia Chan collected almost two hundred kilograms of monkey wine. After that, the two of them stopped looking for monkey wine. If they encountered monkey wine, they collected it. If they didn't, forget about it. They didn't force it and spent their time collecting it. Something else!
Anyway, as long as the two of them are together, they will be happy doing anything.
On this day, the two returned to the base camp. Xia Chan went to the river to soak in the hot spring. She saw Xiao Mimi sitting on a stone with one hand on her chin, looking boredly in front of her. Xia Chan walked to sit next to her, puzzled. Asked, "What's wrong? Are you bored?"
Xiao Mimi shook her head, "It's very interesting here. I'm not bored, I'm just worried."
Xia Chan's heart skipped a beat, "What are you worried about?"
"Tiantian and Jin Pengyuan have been married for a year and a half, and you and Zhou Qizhi have been married for half a year, but there has been no movement between the two of you until now. I wonder whether your health has been cured. If not, Well, we can't have children, what will we do in the future?" Xiao Mimi was worried.
When Xia Chan heard this, she suddenly remembered this matter. Yes, although she had only been married for half a year, it was normal for her not to be pregnant with a child. However, Xiao Tiantian and Jin Pengyuan had been married for a year and a half. They have been taking the medicine for more than a year. They are young and must be together as often as she and Zhou Qizhi, but they still have no children.
Xia Chan sighed and said, "These are small things, it doesn't matter, and the marriage time is not long. Some people get pregnant for the first time after several years of marriage, so don't worry, even if you really can't have children, there are ways to solve it." ! ”
Xiao Mimi looked at Xia Chan in confusion, she couldn't give birth to a child, what could be the solution?
"First of all, if our husband really wants a child, and it must be a biological child, and he is not willing to adopt a non-blood related child, then let's divorce and let someone marry someone who can have children!"
"Secondly, if you can accept a non-biological child, you can adopt a child to raise, or adopt a child from another family."
"The third thing is, just don't have children and just live the rest of your life with the two of you. This is pretty good, and if you don't raise children, you don't have to worry about it. People are getting older. People who have children in their thirties are better off than those who don't have children in their forties." The people look older, so what would you choose?”
Xia Chan put her arms around Xiao Mimi and said, "Okay, don't worry about these things. Even if we get divorced because we can't have children, wouldn't we still be there? The three of us sisters depend on each other and support each other in old age without the interference of men. Wouldn’t it be nice to not have a bunch of trivial things? ”
Xiao Mimi thought about it. Raising children is a very hard process and requires a lot of investment. Moreover, when the children are raised, they may not be filial and may not be good to themselves.
If you can have children, raise them well. If you don’t have children, raise yourself well and live a good life. That’s pretty good too.
Seeing Xiao Mimi's tangled brows relax, Xia Chan felt relieved, "Let's go to the hot springs and enjoy the moment. Leave the worries to the future! And with us here, no worries are called worries." For Xia Chan For me, these are small things. Living well and having money to spend are the most important things.
It is really easy to want a child. Nowadays, many families have more children and cannot afford to raise them. It is quite easy to adopt a child, but she just doesn’t want to!
Raising a child is a responsibility. Just raising him up is not enough. He must be well educated and trained to make him a good person. When he grows up, he must prepare a house, a car, marry a wife, and raise grandchildren. Really What's more, don't even think about living a relaxed life.
It’s the same whether it’s a boy or a girl. You can’t just ignore it after you raise it. You don’t have to take care of it in the future. After you take care of it, you still have to take care of their children. It’s like a Russian matryoshka doll, with layers and layers. .
After entering the hot spring pool, Xia Chan swung around in it, as flexible as a mermaid, and then Xiao Mimi surrounded her and started playing in the hot spring.
"Mimi, do you know? The last time I came here, I didn't want to go back." Xia Chan said with a smile.
Xiao Mimi was a little embarrassed, "Actually, I don't really want to go back. Really, I really like it here, but there is no way to buy anything here. If we don't go back, what little things we brought will be gone." I can find a way to live, and if I go back to Beijing, it will be inconvenient to come here in the future.”
"You can't be too greedy. We can just come here once in a while, and there are many interesting things in the world. We can't waste all our time here."
There are many restrictions now. In a few years, there will be no restrictions, and there will be more things you can do. Then you will be able to make money vigorously.
When you are busy making money, you really may not have time to go on vacation.
"Mimi, when you have time, pick up the high school textbook and read it a few more times." Xia Chan reminded.
January is coming soon, which means that there is less than a year left for the college entrance examination. Xiao Mimi has attended high school, so reviewing is very easy for her.
They can't all take the college entrance examination by then, and Xiao Mimi will be the only one left behind, right?
Although Xiao Mimi didn't understand why Xia Chan reminded her to review high school courses again and again, but since Xia Chan told her again and again, and Xia Chan never stopped studying, she shouldn't stop either.
Even here, Xia Chan still gives lessons to Zhou Qizhi and the others when she has time, even though they have already obtained their high school graduation certificates.
Xia Chan has worked so hard, how could she not work hard?
What if you don’t work hard and are left too far behind? Does she still want to follow them?
Soon the New Year's Day arrived, and the new year arrived. Everyone decided to celebrate the New Year's Day well, so Xia Chan hunted a deer and gave it to Grandpa Xiao to handle.
The girls prepared other ingredients, and several kitchens in the yard were used. After all, there were a lot of big dishes to be made today, and it was too late to use one kitchen.