Chapter 397: There are only so many things to pursue
After Grandma Xiao went out, Xia Chan sat blankly in the tea room, carefully recalling that since she awakened the memory of her previous life, she has been working hard to save her brothers and change their fate. It seems that she has never asked her brothers' opinions about how to live a good life, nor does she know what kind of life they want to live.
Every time she gave orders for something, her brothers would do it, but she didn't know if they were willing to do it.
Just like studying, she also helped her brothers to review and take the junior high school diploma, high school diploma, and then college. Although many people's dream is to change their destiny through the college entrance examination, that is not everyone's goal, is it? ?
Maybe you don't want to study at all, but you just don't want to disappoint her, or you don't want to make her angry, so you choose to continue studying.
People who are almost thirty years old must feel uncomfortable sitting in the classroom all day long like young people. Just like when she was taking the high school diploma exam, wasn't she unwilling to sit with the children in class? And how can a person who is free to fight sit still?
Why did she force her brothers to sit together with young people in class?
Have you forgotten the principle of don’t do to others what you don’t want others to do to you?
After thinking about it, Xia Chan also felt that sometimes she did not do the right thing, but Zhou Qizhi could not question her love for him. If she really had no feelings for him, how could she be with him?
Say it's because of habit, or just because of habit. Didn't Jin Pengfei, Xia Bin, and Jin Pengyuan all grow up with her? Why didn't she choose him instead of them? Wasn't it because she treated him differently?
She just doesn't have a love brain and is more sensible!
Xia Chan sighed heavily, drank the water in the cup, adjusted her emotions, got up and went out. When she came outside, she didn't see Zhou Qizhi and the child. She turned around and went back to the room, only to see Zhou Qizhi. Zhi lay on his side on the bed with the child.
Thinking that he might not really want to go to college, Xia Chan said, "If you don't want to go to college, that's fine, but you have to get your diploma just like you did in high school. Even if you're ranked last, you just need to get your diploma." Just get it, so that no matter what you do in the future, people will respect you more and won’t deliberately block you and not help you deal with it.”
She doesn't have such high requirements. No matter whether he chooses to study on his own or day school, all he needs to do is get her diploma.
Because she knows that academic qualifications are very important. No matter how capable you are, without this academic qualification, people will not recognize you and do not believe that you can do things well.
Moreover, there will be more and more college students in the future, and college students will become less and less valuable. Only the academic qualifications in the previous years are more valuable. They can't let their son be laughed at in the future because his parents are uneducated country people, right?
Xia Chan walked to the bed and sat down, put her chin on Zhou Qizhi's shoulder, and asked, "Did you hear that? No matter what method you use, no matter how you talk to the school, all I need is to see the diploma." .”
She only asked for this one thing, and she would not interfere in his affairs in the future, letting him decide to handle it on his own.
"If you want to say that I married you because of familiarity and habit, then you have really wronged me. There are many people who are familiar with me. Jin Pengfei, Jin Pengyuan and Xia Bin and I all grew up together. Familiar, I am a girl from the Xiao family and have no blood relationship with Xia Bin. It’s okay for me to marry him. Why don’t I choose them?”
"I said a long time ago that I will find someone like you in the future, because you are my ideal type. You have grown up in my heart. Fortunately, you are from the Zhou family and I am from the Xiao family. We come from two families. We are not related by blood. We are not cousins. Otherwise, wouldn’t we have a chance to be together?”
Seeing that Zhou Qizhi still didn't want to pay attention to her, Xia Chan said, "Okay, then you have a good rest and I won't disturb you. I'll go see what's for lunch." Xia Chan stood up to leave, but was stopped by Zhou Qizhi Reaching out to take her back, Zhou Qizhi buried his face in her arms without saying a word, just holding her quietly.
I don’t know how Zhou Qizhi dealt with it later. Anyway, he took the textbooks home to study. They also rented a house near Xia Chan’s school, so that they didn’t have to take the bus back and forth every day in the summer. It only took a few minutes to walk. I can get home, have dinner at noon, and spend more time with my children.
Zhou Qizhi studies, takes care of the children and does housework at home. The family is well taken care of and Xia Chan doesn't have to worry about anything.
Xia Chan felt that he was not used to living in the Xiao family. After all, it was the Xiao family, not the Zhou family, and it was not his own home. People should live in their own territory to feel more comfortable and have a sense of belonging.
There are only three of them at home, and they are not too busy. Although there are fewer people and fewer people to do things, there are relatively less things to do at home!
It's like cooking. For two of them to eat, they can just cook one dish, one meat and one vegetarian, or two vegetarian dishes. After all, they have no shortage of meat and are not greedy for meat at all, okay?
Occasionally eating a vegetarian feast is better for the body.
Zhou Qizhi tidied up two bedrooms in the rented house. After the children fell asleep, the two of them went to the other bedroom to be alone for a while. They didn't have to worry about waking up the children, so they could be more engaged and selfless.
Husband and wife really need to communicate frequently, and the frequency of communication in the past has been restored. It can be clearly felt that Zhou Qizhi's whole body is filled with happiness.
If there is no communication, it feels like Xia Chan doesn't love him. If there is communication, he will be satisfied. Sure enough, men are men, especially married men, and they only pursue so many things.
After the family of three moved out, they didn't go to Xiao's house every week. After all, they also needed to go out for dates, watch movies and go to the park. They went to Xiao's house once every half month. If they didn't live there, they would go back to their own place in the evening.
The days are passing by, and it will soon be May. In this era, there is a day off for Labor Day. Xia Chan and Zhou Qizhi also plan to take their children to the park for an outing to see the scenery.
Xia Chan asked a craftsman to make a small stroller of this era, so that the child could lie in it, so that his hands could be freed and he no longer had to hold the child.
However, Xiao Fengfeng and Chen Haifeng got engaged on May 1st, so Xia Chan and Zhou Qizhi's plan fell through. The two had no choice but to take their children to Xiao's house to attend their engagement banquet.
As a younger sister, Xia Chan also prepared an engagement gift for her brother and sister-in-law, which was a pair of watches. They were not taken from the space, but bought in a department store. They cost a few hundred yuan each. Just a pair of them costs thousands. Woolen cloth!
No matter in her previous life or now, she was reluctant to buy herself such an expensive watch. She still used the fifty yuan watch she bought with her savings in her previous life.
As for the watches given by my brothers, they are still in storage. When my own watches break, I will wear them with new ones.