Chapter 482 What can’t be changed
However, before the Xiao family had time to select suitable young people for Xia Xueqing, a young man came over and said he was Xia Xueqing's college classmate.
When Xia Xueqing saw the person, it was indeed her classmate in college. Even though the two of them had no interaction in the class and were not familiar with each other, Xia Xueqing didn't know how he came to find him.
The male classmate's name is Sun Yijie, who is three years older than Xia Xueqing. Because Xia Xueqing was two or three years younger than her classmates when she was studying, it is normal for Sun Yijie to be three years older than Xia Xueqing.
Sun Yijie came from a province with a large population and had many children. He was not favored at home and was not allowed to study. He studied secretly and got into college. His family also wanted him to give this opportunity to others, but he did not agree. The family will not pay for his tuition and let him find his own way.
When studying in college in the 1990s, tuition fees and living expenses were actually not low, and many families could not afford this burden.
But Sun Yijie didn't want to give up this opportunity to change his destiny, so he borrowed money from everywhere to collect tuition and living expenses for four years of college.
When his family saw that he had borrowed so much money, they were afraid that the creditor would come to the family to repay the money, so the family quickly severed ties with him, fearing that others would not believe him and even published the severance in the newspaper.
Those who lent money to Sun Yijie also regretted it. They were afraid that Sun Yijie could not bear such a large debt alone, so Sun Yijie went to the door in person to explain to them and promised that he would pay back the money he owed everyone no matter what.
When Sun Yijie was in college, he began to find ways to work-study in order to pay off his debts early. In the two years after graduation, he worked many jobs and finally paid off all his debts in two years.
He paid off the debt without telling his family, and then he resigned and came here. Because the development here was very good, there should be a lot of job opportunities, so he wanted to come here and give it a try.
His life experience is indeed inspiring enough, but Xia Chan does not believe it 100%, let alone directly agree that he and Xia Xueqing are together.
She has always treated the girls in her family as her own daughters. She definitely cannot let her niece marry Phoenix Man and then be sucked by his family.
So Xia Chan asked Xia Bin and Xiao Mimi to go to Sun Yijie's hometown to investigate whether what Sun Yijie said was true. As Xia Xueqing's parents, they should have a clear understanding of their future son-in-law.
When Xia Bin and Xiao Mimi set out for Sun Yijie's hometown in that populous province, Xia Chan arranged a job for Sun Yijie. Even if he couldn't become the son-in-law of the family, he would be formally interviewed if he had academic qualifications and abilities. If so, you can apply for the job.
So Xia Chan arranged a job for Sun Yijie, but would not give him any dividends, because people like him would particularly want to prove themselves to their families. When he has money, he will definitely go to his family and Prove how capable you are and tell your parents and family that the children they don't like and dislike are the best children.
At that time, maybe he will generously take on all the family affairs and help anyone who comes to him, just to satisfy his inner vanity.
Of course you can do this if you work hard, but many Phoenix men use the woman's wealth to do these "good deeds", and some people want to occupy all the woman's property.
Therefore, if Xia Xueqing is with Sun Yijie, she really has to be fully prepared, otherwise when her parents are old and gone, she will be chewed to the bone. So as the elders, they now have to do a strict screening for Xia Xueqing. If Sun Yijie is not suitable, then just reject him directly.
After Xia Bin and Xiao Mimi came back, they confirmed that what Sun Yijie said was true, but Xia Chan had a nightmare, which meant that Sun Yijie was no different from what she thought, and he was more cruel than Xia Chan imagined.
In Xia Chan's dream, Xia Xueqing and her two children were killed in the fire. Although it was found to be an accident, Xia Xueqing's inheritance and the accidental compensation of mother and son were inherited by Sun Yijie. This fully illustrates that this Accidents are not simple.
So Xia Chan called Xia Bin, Xiao Mimi and Xia Xueqing, told the three of them her nightmare, and said, "The nightmare I have will come true 100% of the time. That is to say, if Xiaoqing really follows this If Sun Yijie is together, then her final fate will be to be buried in a sea of fire, which cannot be changed. As long as Sun Yijie is here, it cannot be changed.”
"Aunt, what should I do now?" Xia Xueqing was horrified. She did not expect that the honest Sun Yijie would become that kind of person after many years of marriage.
"Go to Beijing to take care of my property for me. This way you can avoid Sun Yijie, because he has made up his mind to pursue you. No matter how you refuse, he will never give up. If you avoid him, he will be anxious. Marriage will naturally not wait for you. Men always say that women are realistic and want to marry a rich man, but men themselves are the same. They also want to marry a rich woman. Otherwise, why would he choose you if there are so many classmates in your class? "
The comment section of the rich woman in the previous life is so exciting. It is full of straight men who claim to not understand tenderness and want to win the favor of the rich woman.
Xia Chan and Chen Haifeng have several properties in Beijing. If Xia Xueqing goes over to take care of them, Chen Haifeng will be able to relax more.
After that, Xia Chan contacted Chen Haifeng and told Chen Haifeng that she would give Xia Xueqing full authority to handle the matter. Chen Haifeng would take care of Xia Xueqing more. As long as Xia Xueqing was brought out, Chen Haifeng would not have to do everything himself.
After Xia Xueqing quietly left for the capital, Xia Chan told the public that Xia Xueqing went abroad to study for a Ph.D. and it would take several years before she could come back.
Less than half a year later, Sun Yijie resigned. The real owner is no longer here. No matter how hard he works, no one can see him!
It's really hard to describe Sun Yijie. He is indeed inspirational and capable. However, after marrying Xia Xueqing in Xia Chan's dream, he probably became unbalanced and his mentality gradually changed.
In fact, many men mind that their wives have better conditions than themselves, and they mind that others say that they are not as good as their wives. However, they clearly found their wives themselves. They first enjoyed the resources of others, and then they started to have so-called self-esteem and wanted their wives to put down their careers. A man who slowly makes his wife inferior to him in order to satisfy his own vanity is really hateful.
When you marry a goddess and go home, you don't try hard to become a male god. Instead, you drag the goddess into the swamp and then look at her with a superior attitude.
It seems that, seeing how you are now, I am the only one who can think highly of you and not despise you, so you should be grateful to me.
It was obvious that they themselves were not worthy from the beginning, but they completely ignored this problem.