Chapter 341 No one lies, it’s just a dilemma
Shen Dinghai and Yangguang’s faces turned red, “You can’t blame us for this...This is our first time and we have no experience...”
Ran Ran calmed down Added: "But if you try this every time you serve coffee, it's not just a matter of inexperience."
Dingjunshan stopped teasing, he was afraid that the two young men could not help but commit suicide in shame and anger.
“Let me share what I found out. In fact, the general content is similar to that of Villain, but some details are slightly different.”
"What details?"
"Bad boy, you said those people told you that Luo Guo was a housewife without a job, right?"
Ran Ran spread her hands, "They didn't say that directly, but That’s what it means.”
Ding Junshan frowned, “Then I don’t know which side is lying. What I found out is exactly the opposite of the bad boy. Luo Guo has a job. ”
“And it’s a very busy job where you leave early and come back late. The two ladies I interviewed said that they rarely have the opportunity to see Luo Guo. ”
Shen Dinghai subconsciously believed in Ran Ran more, and also believed in the information Ran Ran found out.
“Brother Jun, are you sure those two people are not talking about Luo Guo being too busy taking care of the children?”
Sunshine objected to this, “If you have been busy taking care of the children, Children can't be invisible. People on the street should be able to see Luo Guo often."
Seeing Shen Dinghai's confused eyes, Yang Guang explained: "Don't think that taking care of children is something that only needs to be done all the time. Stuck at home.”
“The very tiring thing about raising children is that you not only have to meet their physical needs, but you also have to play with them...”
Sunshine seemed to have endless tears of bitterness when he talked about this topic, "I once helped take care of the children of my brothers and sisters, that is, my nephews. It was really very tiring."
"They are not only energetic but also energetic. You may have an idea for a while, but in the blink of an eye, they will slip out of your hands like a loach, and it’s not that easy to catch them and keep them in your hands!”
The three of them were stunned by his complaints.
Sunshine’s face turned red again as soon as his fever had subsided. “In short, raising children is a very, very tiring task, and! For children to grow up healthily, outdoor activities are essential!”
< br>Ding Junshan nodded, "I can also confirm that I heard correctly. What the two ladies said was because of work."
Shen Dinghai couldn't figure it out, "Then who is lying?"
Ran Ran quickly figured it out, "It's probably that no one is lying. Generally, people will not lie to a stranger. , because it’s not necessary.”
“This is to exclude those people with bad intentions.”
The confusion on Shen Dinghai’s face was even greater, “If no one is lying, then no. It’s even more strange.”
Ran Ran explained: “What I mean is that both parties are expressing facts, but they are only telling the truth.”
"After all, they don't have God's perspective, so what they see is not the whole picture of the matter."
Ran Ran looked at Dingjun Mountain, "I think the news you got is closer to reality. Yang Yang has already explained this. , As for why those four people said that..."
"A possible explanation is that they are men."
The three men present couldn't help but get excited after hearing this, "This. What's that?"
Ran Ran raised her eyebrows, "A man can only look at things from a man's perspective."
“The four people who disclosed the information to me are all working men, and I can hear their admiration for Luo Ku from their words.”
“They feel that Luo Ku is doing well while working. Taking care of children is a very amazing and powerful act, and they may even feel that the same thing is unimaginable to them. "How can a man work and take care of children at the same time, so when they see them getting up early to take care of children." When Luo Guo goes shopping for groceries, they will subconsciously put Luo Guo into their male perspective."
Ran Ran spread her hands and said, "They will feel that Luo Guo has already found it difficult to take care of the children. She definitely doesn’t have the energy to take care of work at the same time.”
“With this thought, they came to the conclusion that Luo Guo is a housewife without a job.”
Shen Dinghai nodded in a daze, "It makes sense."
Ran Ran said to Dingjunshan again: "And the two women you asked about can notice Luo Guo's professional status precisely because they are Women."
"Women can look at issues from a female perspective."
"It has always been a convention that men work outside and women work inside. But now the world has changed. There has been a change, right?"
Ran Ran blinked at Shen Dinghai, and Shen Dinghai nodded quickly, "Yes!"
“Women now have the opportunity to find careers. Their world is no longer limited to their small home. There is a broader world outside waiting for them to explore, and the number of women exploring outside is indeed increasing. This is the current situation. ”
“The customary ‘domestic’ responsibilities are still considered by the world to be shouldered by women. This is also the current situation. ”
“Buying groceries, cooking, doing laundry and cleaning, and taking care of infants and young children are among them. After they already have their own careers, their own careers, and more identities of their own, these things still fall on their shoulders."
Ran Ran decided: "This is wrong."
“No matter how reasonable family responsibilities should be distributed, the current model of most families is unreasonable, and there is no dispute about this.”
Her words left the three men present speechless.
Ran Ran sighed secretly in her heart and returned to the original topic.
"This is the dilemma that those two women endured, and it is also the dilemma that Luo Guo endured, so they can understand each other."
Ran Ran was quite sure, "If you don't believe me In conclusion, you can ask those two women again to see if they have experience in taking care of their families while working.”
Yang Yang was stunned and really wanted to get up immediately to verify Ran Ran’s words. Junshan stopped him with a wry smile.
"No need to go, what the evil boy said is absolutely right. I had communicated with the two ladies about their situations long before I officially started to inquire..."
"They are indeed trapped between family and career. "
The three of them looked at Dingjunshan and saw two women with a thin laptop in front of them. They looked tired and used their fingers. Keep typing on the keyboard, pausing every now and then to take a sip of bitter coffee.
Ding Junshan said helplessly: "When I approached them, they had not started working yet, and they looked like they were enjoying drinking coffee."
Seeing this, Ran Ran said softly: "This coffee The time in the hall should be their rare leisure time. After nightfall, they can chat with their good friends while drinking coffee.”
Shen Dinghai stared at the notebook and sighed, "Unfortunately, it's not really leisure."
Yang Yang stared at it for a long time before subconsciously sighing, "They are really nice people."
Ran Ran was stunned for a while before realizing that Yang Guang meant that their leisure time was so rare, but they were willing to take a break from their busy schedule to answer Dingjunshan's questions seriously.
Ding Junshan couldn't help but sigh, "He is indeed a good person."
Ranran looked away and looked at his still immature hands.
The adult world is really not easy.