Chapter 340: Birth Mother’s Friday?
Because it is approaching the end of the year and it is a windy and snowy time, the four little ones’ academy has suspended classes long ago.
On the contrary, Mrs. Qin’s school in the Girls’ Support Association has not stopped, but the closer to the end of the year, the busier the girls from each family become.
For shopping like this, where is the cheapest fabric? Where can I get a free gift if I buy more corn? The housewives have to take care of the dry vegetables that the family will eat during the winter, and the oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, etc. that will be used for a long time in the coming year.
Especially since the beginning of the Imperial Medical Office, the newly opened washroom and brewery are in need of people. Many people think that if they don’t have the time to learn calligraphy, it would be better to earn some money. good.
In this way, Mrs. Qin's school is said to be non-stop, but it is almost as if it has stopped.
Mrs. Qin has a flexible temperament and is knowledgeable. She gets along very well with Li's mother, Sister-in-law Li, and the others.
No, I have long heard that today is Lu Zhuer’s birthday. When Lu Zhuer had eaten breakfast and it was about 9:00, Mrs. Qin took a little The box is on the door.
“Ms. Qin, sit down quickly.
The school in the girl’s support association will probably not be open again until the first month of next year, but the school in Wenpo’s school The ladies, Sanniang told Madam Qin to stop this class now and start it again next year.”
Mrs. Qin thanked Sister-in-law Li for the tea cup and smiled in response to Mother Li's words.
“Hey, listen to Miss Sanniang, I also left homework for them all. I guess they won’t forget them all during this vacation.
Come today, It’s a gift for the young lady.”
As she said that, Madam Qin opened the box, and there was a small silver lock inside.
“Don’t dislike it, Po Li Wen, my daughter-in-law wore this when she was a child. It’s not a family heirloom, I bought it from a bank.
The craftsman who made this at that time had good skills and exquisite patterns, so he rushed to buy one.
My daughter only wore it when she was a hundred days old, and then she put it away.
When I came over to join in the fun that night for dinner, I heard the third lady mention a mouthful of dewdrops. The young lady’s third birthday was coming, and I thought of this object. ”
As he said this, he called Lu Zhu’er who was standing next to Mother Li’s legs. Lu Zhu’er had already recognized this person, and knowing that it was another grandma, she walked step by step to Mrs. Qin.
Ms. Qin picked up the small silver lock and hung it around Luzhu'er's neck, "I wish our little lady peace and good health. ”
Lu Zhu'er first glanced back at Mother Li, and when she saw Mother Li nodded, she turned around, bowed to Madam Qin and thanked her: "Zhu'er, thank you grandma. Zhu'er likes it very much. It looks good."
After listening to Lu Zhu'er's childlike words, Mrs. Qin vaguely remembered what her own daughter looked like when she was this old.
"Ms. Qin, please come over and eat together in the evening. Sanniang said that she will sing to Lu Zhuer in the evening. You have to come and listen to how she behaves."
Again. After a busy day, Li Sanniang returned home with the pastries bought by Noon Boss and Qiuxiang from the shop in Shengpingfang.
Of course this cake is just to sweeten Lu Zhuer's mouth. The real birthday gift was prepared by Li Sanniang half a month ago.
A pair of gold bracelets for children!
My dewdrops definitely want to wear the best!
Actually, this child's gold bracelet only weighs two yuan (10 grams). It is a thin circle and fits just right on the child's wrist.
The whole family is waiting for Li Sanniang, the grandma, to come back.
After cleaning her hands, she fed Luzhu'er the cake. Li Sanniang held Luzhu'er in her arms and took out the small gold bracelet from the box.
"Aniang bought this for Lu Zhu'er, does Lu Zhu'er like it?"
Luzhu'er is already aware of beauty and ugliness at a young age, and just now she showed off the small silver lock around her neck to Li Sanniang.
Luzhu'er dangled the gold bracelet in her hand, and happily raised her head and kissed Li Sanniang, "Zhu'er likes it. It's yellow. It's as valuable as Xiao Huang."
"Haha, haha. , Lu Zhu'er is smart, right, isn't this yellow one more valuable?"
This made Father Li's lips curl up.
Sister-in-law Li was very surprised when she saw that Li Sanniang bought a pair of gold bracelets for Lu Zhuer as a third birthday gift.
You must know that the last time Li Sanniang paid her salary, she bought Lu Zhuer a pair of silver bracelets for her children.
Although the thin gold bracelet this kid is wearing today is a little light, no matter how light it is, it is still made of gold. It looks like it costs twenty taels of silver. "Oh, Sanniang is really willing to give up.
Luzhu'er must be filial to your grandma in the future. Your birthday will be your grandma's miserable day.
When you were first born, your mother-in-law suffered a lot.
Look, your mother-in-law was so kind to you on your birthday. Not only did she buy you cakes, but she also gave you a gold bracelet. "
Second Sister-in-law Li said with a bit of sourness. Although Lu Zhu'er was still young, she already understood the good and bad meaning of her words. After listening to Second Sister-in-law Li's words, she raised her head and looked at Li Sanniang: "Giving birth to Zhu'er, Grandma is in pain? ”
Luzhuer’s question, which was two parts cautious, one part distressed and one part puzzled, made Li Sanniang soft-hearted, but she felt disgusted and disgusted with Sister-in-law Li’s words.< br>
Lu Zhuer is so young, why should she be instilled with such thoughts?
Even if you want to teach your child about the kindness of her parents in giving birth, she has to wait until she is older. What's more, where is education in what Sister-in-law Li is talking about?
Isn’t that just to force the children to be obedient and easy to control by showing favor?
Li Sanniang didn’t even look at Sister-in-law Li, she just held Lu Zhu’er and said softly: “After my mother felt the pain, she gave birth to Zhu’er. Zhu’er is my mother’s baby. Zhu’er was born. A Niang was very happy. "
Luzhu'er heard Li Sanniang say that she was born, and Li Sanniang was relieved.
After little Luzhu'er sighed like an adult, she looked at Li Sanniang admiringly: "Zhu'er is good and obedient. Wait for grandma at home with Xiao Huang."
When talking about Xiao Huang, Pearl started making noises and wanted to go to the ground to get bones for Xiao Huang to chew on.
After Li Sanniang saw Baoya in the yard following Lu Zhuer into the kitchen, she felt relieved, but when she turned around, her expression darkened.
Of course Li Sanniang would not argue with Sister-in-law Li that the birthday of the girl here is the Good Friday of her biological mother. Li Sanniang thought of Brother Li, Sanlang, Xiaosilang and Xiaowulang, so she softened her face and raised her head to face Mother Li. He smiled and said: "Aniang, I must have suffered a lot when I gave birth to my son. After all, my son was born much later than my eldest brother and second brother. Aniang worked hard.
My son gave birth to Luzhu After having children, I understand even more how good my mother is to her children.
Although this daughter’s birthday is the day their mother worked hard to give birth to them, as parents, it is their own choice to have children. It's time to take responsibility for your children
When I gave birth to Lu Zhuer, I naturally wanted to give Lu Zhuer the best, just like A Niang and A Ye Na raised me carefully. "
Sister-in-law Li hugged Xiaogoro tightly in her arms, and her heart skipped a beat. Listening to what Li Sanniang meant, she must be dissatisfied with what she just said?
Sister-in-law Li shook her head inwardly, thinking This second sister-in-law Li is still a little bit petty, but she is jealous of the thin gold bracelets worn by a pair of children with 20 taels of silver.
"Sharing joys and sorrows depends on people. Some people can live together through hardships. But once you become rich, you can no longer do it. "
Sister-in-law Li remembered what her mother-in-law said to her before she got married. At that time, Brother Li's relative, Ayesun Datou, had saved Jiang's life, even though Brother Li was following Li's mother. She married Li's father instead. At that time, Li's father was just a doctor with little reputation, but the Jiang family still decided to marry Sister Li to Brother Li.
The situation of the Li family at that time meant that Sister-in-law Li would definitely have a hard life when she got married, so Sister-in-law Li's mother-in-law gave Sister-in-law Li some lessons in worldliness before marriage.
In addition to kindness, of course it was the Jiang family who was optimistic about Brother Li's future and felt that Brother Li would be good in the future, so they married Sister Li into the Li family.
Li Sanniang looked at Mother Li and continued: "I know that grandma only hopes that I will have a smooth life, and she will never ask me to remember the day when grandma suffered because she gave birth to me.
I I just want Lu Zhuer to have a safe and smooth life. On her birthday, she has grown one year old. I just want her to be happy."
Li Sanniang turned to look at Sister-in-law Li at this moment: "I believe that as long as I teach Lu Zhu'er well, she will miss me.
Just like if the sister-in-law has taught Hu Tou well, Hu Tou (Li Dalang) will treat the sister-in-law well. ”
How should I say it?
Everyone’s birthday is indeed a time when their biological mother suffered, and some may even be the anniversary of her biological mother’s death.
But I think Therefore, every mother should only hope that her newborn child will be happy, rather than using it as a threat to control everything about her child.
Furthermore, birth is the choice of the parents, not the request of the child. .
It is the parents who need their children, not the children who beg their parents to give birth to themselves.
In the process of raising children, correct education will naturally make children have a desire to feed back.
In short, being a parent is easy physically, but being a good parent and raising and educating good children is really a problem of the century.
(End of this chapter)