Chapter 405: Love yourself first before you can love others
Li Sanniang did not directly answer Sun Wenpo’s question, but instead talked about her own affairs.
“After giving birth to Luzhu’s baby, I made up my mind that I would not be pregnant again until at least two years later.
After all, this child needs his mother the most before he is three years old. It takes at least a year for a girl's body to adjust after giving birth.
And for those of you who have been mothers for many years, think about it, are there women who have given birth to children one after another? The body bones are probably not very good, and the child born is not very healthy and looks thinner?”
Li Sanniang's perspective made the women present who had given birth have doubts in their minds, and they all began to recall the conditions of the women who had delivered babies in the past.
“This is really what happened!
There are those who just got pregnant with another child. The total difference between the second child and the first child is less than one year. .
What happened to the child? I didn’t pay any attention to it after that. However, the woman did have constant metrorrhagia after giving birth and was suffering from a lack of energy and blood. When the two children were less than three years old, Just go.”
Yao Qingqing’s words made the young women present think.
And then Sister-in-law Li suddenly realized why Brother Li had to wait half a year after giving birth to Sanlang Li before he touched her again. It turned out to be for contraception!
Li Sanniang nodded, "That's it.
Only a strong and healthy mother can give birth to a healthy child. Some of you have given birth to children like me, and some have given birth to children like me. My mother-in-law already has grandchildren. Think about it, how can a child live well without his mother-in-law?” A mother’s child is a treasure.”
“That’s why I say that as a woman, you need to know how to get pregnant more easily and how to prevent pregnancy.
This does not mean not to give birth, but to think carefully and make preparations before and after birth.
Not just for yourself, but also for your children. "
Sun Wenpo twisted her body uneasily, avoiding Li Sanniang's gaze.
Chunlan, who was sitting next to Sun Wenpo, was thoughtful.< br>
Chunlan thought of her mother-in-law. She seemed to have mentioned a few words to her. She was pregnant again immediately after having her, but the child was gone before he was born. Three months later, she was pregnant again. It took many years to give birth to Adi.
Next, Li Sanniang explained one by one how to calculate a girl's ovulation period, the position of her body during intercourse, and what to do after intercourse.
The girls who had been married for many years blushed when they heard this, but girls like Jin Zhenbao didn't feel anything embarrassed.
"Okay, that's all for this morning.
Let's pack up and go to the restaurant."
And this was eaten in the private room of the restaurant by Suzuran. At lunch, except for the little Ping An lying in the basket, the whole place was filled with girls.
Li Sanniang also took Lu Zhu'er with her, and Lu Zhu'er was very happy. Of course, for a child, it would be very happy as long as he could go out with his mother-in-law, let alone go to a restaurant for dinner.
When the banquet was coming to an end and everyone had a cup of tea to digest, Mrs. Qin started talking: "I have a clan sister who passed away more than ten years ago.
She became pregnant that year after she got married, and after giving birth to a son the next year, she became pregnant again after her confinement.
I still remember that my mother-in-law took me to see her, and her face was pale. , there was no blood color, and she was still taking medicine to replenish qi and blood after confinement. However, after she had another child, the medicine was stopped. To nourish her, it turned out that when I got married, her belly was so big that she couldn't give birth, and she died of one and two.
A child less than two years old was left behind.
My brother-in-law married again the next year. "
People couldn't bear to hear this true story, and everyone sighed.
"I think that kid must have thought about where his mother went when he was young?
Not to mention the city, even in the countryside, the child without A Niang will also be without Aye.
Whether he will receive a house and property in the future depends entirely on his father's conscience. "
"Well, it's not bad that Chenglang has our mother's family to take care of him. In the end, I, Aye, and the elders of the clan also came to visit. It's fair enough. In addition to my sister's dowry, and the After sharing the apparent family wealth equally with his two younger sons, he was divided out. ”
After hearing such a story, everyone had some concerns about the girl’s contraception.
After a short rest, everyone returned to the girl’s support club.
Li Sanniang told everyone about Xiang Niang (appeared in Chapter 239, a prostitute who killed her whole family after giving birth to a child)
"This is a girl's misfortune. The law cannot protect the girl herself, so who can protect herself except herself?
So, you should listen carefully to the contraceptive methods I will talk about next, no matter what Should you use it yourself, or tell other girls when you become a stable woman or a female doctor in the future?"
After Li Sanniang finished speaking, she heard Jin Zhenbao say in an excited tone: "Mr. Li. , Isn’t this just the reverse of the method that makes it easier to get pregnant? That means it’s not easy to get pregnant, and it can also be used as a contraceptive.”
“Haha, Mrs. Jin summed it up well, that’s the truth. "
Next, Li Sanniang blurted out a soup recipe: "This is a commonly prescribed recipe for avoiding soup, but as I said before, no matter what method is used, it is not guaranteed. Can be used to prevent pregnancy successfully
Therefore, it is still necessary to prohibit sexual intercourse during special periods.
Okay, that’s it for today. This lesson assignment is what I’m going to talk about this time. You should write it carefully and collect it for me to read next time. ”
Just when Li Sanniang was about to sit down and have a rest, she saw Yao Qingqing standing at the door and had not yet left.
Seeing that everyone else had left, Yao Qingqing boldly came to Li Sanniang In front of him, he bowed and asked anxiously: "Mr. Li, do you have any thoughts of accepting a disciple again?
Do you think I am suitable? ”
Li Sanniang was stunned for a moment. She didn't expect Yao Qingqing to ask this. After thinking about it for a while, she felt that it was a natural question. After all, she just introduced Linglan to them today.
Li Sanniang smiled, asked Yao Qingqing to sit down, and then slowly said: "Ms. Yao is smart and has experience in delivering babies. I can see that you are a sincere student."< br>
Although she was praised by Li Sanniang, Yao Qingqing’s face was not happy. Sure enough, she heard Li Sanniang say two words: “However, judging from the current situation, Yao Qingqing is not the most suitable person to do this. My disciple.
It’s not that Mrs. Yao is bad, it’s just that it’s not appropriate in this situation.”
“How is this inappropriate?”
I can change and learn. Maybe Mr. Li will give me a chance?
I can also refer to it. If you fail the assessment, I will not say anything. ”
Dear children, love yourself first before you can love others!
Before a mother becomes a mother, she is also a little girl.
Every woman has many roles, daughter , mother, wife, office worker, etc., but before all roles, you must first become yourself, and after that, other roles.
I hope every sister can love themselves well and live the life they want~
(End of this chapter)