Chapter 415: Giving birth to a boy or a girl all depends on Y
Danniang, that is, the woman with breast cancer saw Li Sanniang’s surprised expression, her face changed slightly, and she murmured for a long time. Under Li Sanniang’s sincere eyes, He still told me why he asked like this.
It turns out that the reason why Dan Niang is afraid that she will not be able to breastfeed her children in the future after getting breast cancer is that if she gives birth to a baby in the future, it will cost money to go to the wet nurse, and Dan Niang’s family is not very Can afford the expense;
Secondly, Danniang is afraid that her illness will affect her ability to have children in the future, because she has not yet given birth to a son.
“I’m not afraid of female doctors’ jokes. I gave birth to Daya on the 16th day of the lunar month, and then I gave birth to Erya on the first day of the new year, and then I became pregnant with Sanya. But Sanya was unlucky and died at birth. .
After a two-year pause, four girls were born.
I just gave birth to my fifth daughter last year, and it’s been over a year now. I didn’t expect that I would get such a disease. I was very worried, so I came to the hospital to have a look. "
Li Sanniang saw that the woman was only in her early twenties, but she had already given birth five times, and she had given birth multiple times in succession. This was too draining of her vitality.
"Madam, The breast cancer on your body is not a big deal now, but I have diagnosed that your wife has a deficiency of qi and blood, disharmony between the spleen and kidneys, and is feeling emotionally uncomfortable. She really needs to be taken care of.
If you want to get pregnant again, you'd better take good care of yourself, and it will fall into place by then. ”
Dan Niang's brows furrowed again, and her face, which was already showing signs of illness, now looked even worse.
Li Sanniang stopped trying to persuade her. She picked up the pen and wrote down a few words. While waiting for the ink to dry, Li Sanniang thought for a while and said a few more words: "Madam, this matter of heirs depends entirely on the reconciliation between men and women.
Being a boy or a girl is not optional.
Even if you want a son, you have to take care of yourself. Otherwise, it will be difficult to raise a child without a mother to take care of it. , how will the first child grow up? "
Li Sanniang naturally cannot argue with Dan Niang. The birth of a boy or girl is a matter of probability. This is a problem of the male's Y chromosome not being given to the next generation. De Lai If a man comes, it has nothing to do with the girl.
This is a genetic matter, unless you use artificial test tubes in the laboratory to select fertilized embryos and select men and women.
Otherwise, this is just a matter of probability. How can we make a choice?
After hearing Li Sanniang’s comforting words, Dan Niang thought of something and actually shed tears.
“If you don’t have another son, I will ask Widow Wang to give birth to him. If she can give birth to two sons, she can also give birth to a third one!”
“You can’t lay eggs. Old hen, my Sun family is really in trouble for eight lifetimes by marrying you!”
"Haha, sister-in-law, do you deserve to eat these chickens and meat? I gave birth to two grandsons for the Sun family. What did you give birth to? A litter of girls who are born to work hard!"
All of these can still be done Forbearance, Danniang was thinking of Sanya, who was drowned by her mother-in-law in a basin when she was just born.
After giving birth to two girls, my mother-in-law and Lang Xu were already unhappy, but the third baby they desperately gave birth to was still a girl!
Frustrated, somehow she didn’t stop her mother-in-law from pressing the newborn baby, who was crying like a kitten, head down. In the basin, he drowned on the spot in just a few breaths.
To the outside world, it is only said that the baby's fate is not good, and he will immediately run out of breath after the next birth.
After giving birth to Si Ya Lai in the fourth episode, her mother-in-law wanted to drown her. Danniang didn't care that she had just given birth and was extremely weak. She fought with all her strength to snatch the little girl back from her mother-in-law on her bare feet. .
There was still blood in her lower body, and Dan Niang screamed at her mother-in-law like she was crazy: "This is my baby. If anyone wants to kill her, I will not live! I will take the baby with you." Let's die together!"
The mother-in-law was frightened and said tremblingly: "Okay, if you have the ability, you can raise it yourself. Our family doesn't raise idlers. You can raise this baby by yourself."
Danniang went to the fields during the day and mended at night, working day and night, and finally fed Siya.
Erlang, Danniang still wants to have a baby, but not because her mother-in-law and Lang Xu want to have a baby, but because Da Ya and her brothers get married in the future and don’t have the support of their parents’ family. What should they do?
After giving birth to Wuya a year ago, Sun's mother-in-law and Lang Xu were both disheartened.
If Dan Niang hadn’t been able to work hard and most of the money she earned went into her mother-in-law’s pocket, she would have been kicked out of the Sun family a long time ago.
Li Sanniang saw Danniang crying with restraint and aggrievement. She really didn’t know what she could say, so she handed over her handkerchief.
"If you have any difficulties, you can go to the Women's Support Association in Changshoufang. They should be able to give you some solutions." Dan Niang, who still had tears on her face, said gratefully. After taking the handkerchief from Li Sanniang, Li Sanniang handed over the prescription, and then watched Dan Niang and her mother-in-law take the medicine from the medicine cabinet and go out.
Dan Niang was walking on the road carrying the medicine bag. The old woman who had been following her just now asked: "Danniang, do you really want to reconcile?
If you reconcile, Daya and the others What should I do with the four sisters? "
My mother-in-law, who usually comes to Chang'an City with Dan Niang to sell vegetables, is Grandma Li who lives in a village.
“Grandma, I’m going to take Da Ya and the others away.
When I was selling vegetables, I heard from the girls in the city that she was a wealthy doctor. A capable and kind-hearted person.
The female doctor's name is Li Sanniang. She lives in Changshoufang and runs a medical clinic.
The Li family has also opened an alliance called the Girls' Support Association, which is dedicated to helping girls like me who are soaked in bitter water.
I’ve thought about it all,” Danniang couldn’t read, but she looked at the note in her hand, folded it and put it in a close-fitting inner pocket.
“I’ll look for an opportunity next time. , just take this note and go to the alliance to see if you can find a way to help me make peace with Li.
I'm not in good health now, but I didn't have to rely on the Sun family to raise Da Ya and the others. ”
Granny Li knew that Dan Niang had a plan in mind, so she didn't say anything. However, Dan Niang became more enthusiastic about talking, "Grandma, I can't stay in the Sun family anymore. Sun Dalang and I can't have a son.
I do want to have a son, but what can I do if I don’t live up to my expectations?
I overheard my mother-in-law selling my eldest daughter in the past ten days, saying that she wanted to use it for my grandson’s education. For more money, she wants to sell Daya to such a dirty place!
I can't stay in Sun's house anymore. I have to take the children away. We are the only ones who leave Sun's house! "
We arrived at the cart and horse shop and spent a few coins to board the cart. The donkey cart didn't go very fast. It took half an hour before we left Chang'an City.
After getting off the car on the official road and carrying baskets on their backs, Dan Niang and Mrs. Li walked towards the village. They separated when they reached a fork in the road.
Having just entered the yard, Da Ya, who pretended to be eight years old but was actually just over seven years old, saw Dan Niang coming back. She happily took her hand away from the cold water basin and went to scoop water for Dan Niang to wash her hands. .
“Leave the beans, I’ll wash them later.
You’re young, what should you do if your hands are frozen?”
Danniang had already made up her mind. It was time to reconcile. This time I saw that my mother-in-law actually asked Daya to do such a job, and my desire to reconcile became stronger.
Self-PUA is the scariest thing.
Frankly speaking, although I know the freedom of reproductive rights, I really can’t understand every time I see women who voluntarily undergo abortions in order to have a son.
Of course, people don’t need my understanding.
However, aborting a female fetus is not only a problem for the female fetus, it is also very harmful to the body. . . .
I am in Shandong, and I know a sister who had five or six miscarriages for eight years, and finally gave birth to a son last year.
From the time I gave birth to my eldest daughter in my twenties to now in my thirties, I have been looking for a child for almost 10 years. I am really convinced.
The day that sister gave birth to her son, she posted on WeChat Moments. Looking at her appearance, it would be no exaggeration to say she was in her forties.
(End of this chapter)