Chapter 487 The key to the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is that man!
It has been less than half a month since I sent Sister-in-law Li to her parents’ home in the countryside.
In fact, as usual, Li Sanniang can meet Li Ersao not only during dinner time every day, but also when she teaches the students of Wenpo School.
It seems that Li Sanniang does not think there is anything strange about the Li family without the second sister-in-law Li.
No matter how nervous she is, half a month has passed and Li Ersao has not returned home from her parents' home, so Li Sanniang feels that something is wrong.
In this way, Li Sanniang, who returned home from work today, brought roast chicken. After dinner, she asked Mrs. Li and Mrs. Li to go to the side hall, leaving the main hall to the men of the Li family.
Qiu Xiang and Lu Zhuer were sitting on the bed playing, while Li Sanniang, Mother Li and Sister-in-law Li were sitting on the round table next to the bed.
"Auntie, sister-in-law, tell me the truth, what's going on between the second sister-in-law and the second brother? It's been half a month, and the second brother doesn't pick up the second sister-in-law to go home?"
As soon as Sister-in-law Li heard what Li Sanniang said, her hand that was pouring the jujube tea paused.
Li Sanniang, who was glanced at by Mrs. Li, saw Mrs. Li looking at Mother Li.
"Oh," Mother Li took the hot jujube tea from Mrs. Li, patted Mrs. Li's hand and told her to sit down and have a rest.
At this time, the ears of Qiuxiang, who was playing with Luzhu'er on the bed, also stood up.
On the way home from duty today, it was Qiuxiang who first mentioned to Li Sanniang Li Ersao who had not returned home for half a month. Li Sanniang suddenly realized that Li Ersao had not returned to Li's house for so long.
After Li Sanniang saw Mother Li sighing, she knew there must be something behind it, but she didn't push her any further.
Sure enough, after a few breaths, I heard Mother Li speak slowly in a low voice: "On the day your second brother sent your second sister-in-law home, you went to duty early and were not at home, so I don't know what happened at that time. A situation.
You are busy on duty every day, and when you come back from the next shift, you either have to correct your homework or go to Dr. Liang to learn golden acupuncture, so I won't bother you with this matter. "
Li Sanniang nodded, then raised her head and said to Mother Li and Sister-in-law Li: "I know that my mother-in-law and my sister-in-law love me. My sister-in-law has worked hard at home. When my sister-in-law's birthday comes, I will give her a message. Wear a gold bracelet. "
Before Sister-in-law Li could refuse, she heard Mother Li nodding and responded: "Indeed, this house is thanks to your sister-in-law. Your sister-in-law has worked very hard. You should respect your sister-in-law well in the future. This is all It should. ”
Sister-in-law Li didn’t think anything was wrong at first, but suddenly she received affirmation and praise from Li Sanniang and Mother Li, and somehow her eyes felt a little sore.
Mother Li reached out to pat her. After patting Mrs. Li's hand, he continued to whisper to Li Sanniang: "That morning, your second brother's expression was obviously that the couple had a quarrel last night.
I immediately thought that the cause of this problem might be the two hundred taels of silver you brought home that day.
Afterwards, I asked your second brother alone, and sure enough, he really made me say it. "
Li Sanniang was confused. She really didn't know what was wrong with the two hundred taels she took home.
"These two hundred taels?
Is that the two hundred taels I got from going to the city gate to see off the Jin family? ”
Seeing Mother Li nodding, Li Sanniang became even more confused.
"What's the matter with two hundred taels?
It's just two hundred taels. Last year, I gave money to my family twice. Once, my family received more than a thousand taels. Ah.
It’s only two hundred taels of silver, what’s the problem?”
Mother Li sighed again, “Oh, you and I have raised a child who doesn’t value money so much. In addition, Aye and I have given you the best since you were young
You have been smart since you were a child. You learned medicine from your Aye, and now you have become the first female doctor in Chang'an City. You have the ability to earn money.
In this way, in your eyes, money is just something for living at home, and it is not as important as others.
Besides our own family, the most important thing in your heart is probably that you want to be a good doctor and do something for the girls of the Tang Dynasty.
But, Sanniang, you have to understand that not everyone is like you and can be so careless about money. "
Li Sanniang is not stupid. How can Li Sanniang not understand when Mother Li explains it like this?
"So, the second sister-in-law is jealous of the money I get here?
What did she say to the second brother then?
The second brother was angry, so he sent the second sister-in-law back to her parents' home to reflect. ?”
The more she thought about it, the more she realized that this was the case. Li Sanniang glanced at the main hall outside the side hall, lowered her head and whispered to Li’s mother and Li Ersao: “But this time, I am relying on the money. I got it through my own ability. It has nothing to do with my family, so I can’t share it with my family.”
"My grandma knows, your second brother also knows, it's just that your second sister-in-law is short-sighted.
Don't think about it, you can't control it.
I am a grandma. I'm just asking. I don't want to interfere with your family's affairs.
I've been married twice and I didn't have a mother-in-law both times.
I can't imitate others. Like a mother-in-law, her daughter-in-law would hold onto her son as soon as she entered the house, as if she was afraid that she would snatch him away.
You and I, Aye, are going to live a lifetime together, and your son will eventually have to live his own life.
On this point, you and I can see clearly.
Hello, sister-in-law. Although your second sister-in-law is a bit petty, to be honest, she is just an ordinary girl.
Human beings have shortcomings, this is normal.
Not to mention that your second sister-in-law has three sons with your second brother. Even for the sake of Sanlang, Shiro and Kogoro, I will not say anything to your second sister-in-law.
Now that you are asking, I will tell you a few more words.
You are the girl who returned home with your daughter. You are not taking advantage of the family by bringing Luzhu'er to eat at home. It can even be said that the family is taking advantage of your ability.
But after all, according to the world situation, the baby you gave birth to is not named Li.
This house was your home when you and I were together. If Aye and I were to leave a few decades later, where would you still have a home? ”
“Aniang! ”
"Aniang, why is this so?
Sanniang is the son-in-law's sister-in-law. How can there be no place in the house without his sister-in-law?"
Mother Li's eyes comforted Li Sanniang and Sister-in-law Li. , "I know, I know.
It's just that the world is like this, you can't control it at all.
When Sanniang just got married, I still wanted her to get married for a second time, but now I I can see that Sanniang is not willing to find another man and deal with her mother-in-law.
Fortunately, Sanniang is capable. I think it will be good whether you really marry Lu Zhuer in the future or let your disciples take care of you until you die.
At least, it’s better than leaving another house and finding another man.
I won’t worry about you anymore.
I am telling you this because I want to say that when it comes to family matters, you should just take care of things in your own house, just take care of Luzhu'er. They don't care about things in your brother's room. Say, don't be greedy.
Aye and I don't care, it depends on what your second brother wants to do. ”
I am not married, but judging from my parents, as well as female classmates, female friends, and female colleagues of my age who were married when I was young.
I personally feel that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in family relationships under the Confucian cultural system in China is actually a kind of naked exploitation of women.
The so-called conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is actually the inaction of the son (husband), the son (the one with vested interests).
The key to the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the boy himself.
I even saw this kind of inaction from my grandfather who is over 80 years old. It is a method used by those with vested interests.
(My grandfather was partial and caused many conflicts between my uncles, and then he enjoyed the favor of his sons and my mother.)
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