If you want people who are not of the same gender to recognize and support your point of view and actually implement measures, you have to think about the problem from their perspective and combine the problem with their interests. Only in this way can it be possible to solicit their opinions. One vote.
Even, sometimes, even people of the same gender, if you just look at their stance, they will even be more harsh than people of the same gender.
For example, one of the two thousand years of feudal society is the preference for boys over girls.
If you go and learn about it, you will find that in a family, it is not only the paternal people, but also people like fathers and grandfathers who favor sons over daughters and think that sons must be born and daughters must be born. It's just money-losing stuff.
There is also the mother in this family. As a woman, the mother often favors sons over daughters because of her own interests.
The father may not hate his daughter, he just has no feelings for it, but the mother, the weak one in this patriarchal family, obeys the rules of this patriarchal system. In order to protect or maintain her own interests, she will treat her more favorably than her father. The daughter's case is even worse. There will be verbal and even violent behaviors that abuse her and even want to kill her.
This is a matter of interest.
And Li Sanniang's proposal to increase the girl's marriage age, that is, to delay the girl's age at first childbirth, is actually invading the interests of a family.
Raising a daughter for two more years means that the family will have to pay for an extra ration for the child. There is no way to withdraw the sexual and reproductive value of the daughter in advance in exchange for property, so as to marry the son of the family and continue the family line. .
This is a very serious problem.
It is very difficult to accomplish this.
Li Sanniang understood that even if she obtained the signatures of various time-traveling colleagues, found the Imperial Medical Office, and wrote this report to Emperor Wu both openly and secretly, in the end she might still not be able to achieve what she wanted. The purpose of getting it: to increase the girl's marriage age.
But Li Sanniang, she is a pessimistic optimist with a little bit of idealist sentiment.
According to what she said: "Some things in this world always have to be done by someone.
Since it always has to be done, what's wrong with me doing it? ?”
Therefore, let’s bring it up first, and then we’ll see what kind of outcome the parties can get from the game.
If you are not satisfied with the result, then try harder.
Where in the world can one eat one meal and become fat?
Li Sanniang stood with her mouth dry as she spoke. Naturally, she saw the disapproval of everyone at the round table. Not to mention men like Xing Yu and others, even Jiang Yinan, after being excited, thought about Li Sanniang’s words. When the requirements for measures come, I also realize that it is difficult to successfully be recognized and implemented.
After Li Sanniang picked up the tea cup on the square table and drank a large cup, she looked at everyone's faces and smiled slowly.
"I know what you are thinking, and I also understand that what I said cannot be achieved overnight.
I am not a child of luck. Whatever I think and want can be achieved.
But someone has to do some things, right?
Furthermore, in fact, more than half of the people in consanguineous marriages are middle and upper class. I think they will do it for the sake of children when they see the consequences of consanguineous marriages. For a big deal, I can agree to prohibit incest marriage.
This will save a lot of people, and it can achieve part of what I want. ”
Chang Siyuan nodded, and then he thought that Li Sanniang was not such a whimsical person.
You must know that even in modern society, among Asian regions, our country already has the highest legal age limit for marriage.
(Men must not be earlier than 22 years old, and women must not be earlier than 20 years old.
It can be said that from a global perspective, our country is the highest. In most other countries, the legal marriage age for women is much higher. 16 years old. )
If Li Sanniang wants to influence the upper class with a few signatures and get the result of raising the marriage age, it is simply a fantasy.
“Besides this, if people can realize that raising the age of first childbirth for girls is beneficial to preserving children and can reduce the risk of giving birth to girls, thus saving more girls, then there will be more babies.
In this regard, if we can actively create jobs for girls, so that they can earn money, support themselves, and even contribute more to their families. It would be better to start with awareness. As productivity increases and life expectancy increases, I believe we will eventually reach this point in the future. ”
Ding Mingxuan and Ding Anbai actually don’t care at all about what Li Sanniang said. After all, it has nothing to do with their own interests, and in general, what Li Sanniang mentioned is indeed about the future of Datang. There are benefits.
Ding Mingxuan saw Li Sanniang's "ambition" from this report, yes, ambition.
"Don't look at her saying that she knows it can't be done, but looking at her carefully compiled report, it's clear that what she said is clear and logical. Every detail is her ambition.
She wants to speed up history. Process, be a progressive person whose name will be left in the history books."
She couldn't know what Ding Mingxuan thought of her. After all, she couldn't become a worm and get into Ding Mingxuan's mind.
Next, Li Sanniang talked about the concept of eugenics and eugenics. Finally, she concluded: "There are many things that cannot be completed at this time, but they must always be put forward first so that people can have such This consciousness can be gradually realized in the future development
Everyone, we are lucky to be able to travel through this era
The knowledge in our minds can help this era move towards the best development path faster and better, so that people at this time can have a better life.
If we can, why don’t we give it a try?
If you agree with me, please sign your name here and make progress together with me. "
After Li Sanniang bowed to everyone, she gave the book she was about to hand to Bi Qionglan, who was closest to Li Sanniang.
Bi Qionglan did not hesitate. She picked up the pen and wrote her name in the signature area on the last page, followed by Jiang Yinan, and Shi Le'an beside her.
After Shi Le'an signed his name, he handed the book to Chang Siyuan beside him. Chang Siyuan first flipped through the first few pages of the book and took a rough look at what was written, and what was sent to them. The booklet is roughly the same, except that some parts have been changed to the common format at this time, and my name is signed on the last page.
Xing Yu took the book, signed it neatly, and then passed it directly to Ding Anbai and Ding Mingxuan who were sitting opposite.
Ding Mingxuan had a lot on his mind. He looked through the entire book more carefully than Chang Siyuan and confirmed that Li Sanniang was really not cheating. The writing was almost the same as what he had sent to them. , just signed it.
Ding Anbai followed closely behind Ding Mingxuan and signed his name.
The legal age for marriage in my country is 22 years old for men and 20 years old for women. The optimal childbearing age is between 25-30 years old for women and no more than 40 years old for men.
This is caused by physiological differences and has no explanation.
The clinical definition of advanced maternal age is primiparous women over 35 years old.
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I live in a small city, and most of our local elders In the eyes of people born in their 60s, it would be bad if they were not married after 30 years old.
I have a classmate who works in Shanghai. I heard him say that it is normal for many men and women in Shanghai not to get married when they are over 30 years old.
So, again, it is best for women to live in developed areas with a high level of civilization.
I have a friend who almost died because of giving birth. If it weren’t for the advancement of modern medical technology, it would be really difficult for her to say.
Everyone’s pregnancy situation is different. I’ve seen people who were still in meetings on the day of delivery, and I’ve also seen people who were forced to stay in bed for miscarriage since five or six months.
In short, childbirth is a threshold for women, and it has been since ancient times.
You must choose carefully, be kind to yourself, and love yourself~